The Modest Manifesto Summary

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David Brook’s “The Modesty Manifesto” gives light to the high self-esteem Americans normally have about themselves. Brooks tells us that the human race is an “overconfident species.” The author tells us men generally have a higher self-esteem and that they are more likely to do out of reach tasks that eventually end in something going wrong. However, Americans have not always been this arrogant. Over the past few decades, the amount of self-acceptance has shot through the roof. For example, Americans think of themselves as great mathematicians, except they are not any of the world leaders in math anymore, other countries have that title. America is not the only country to think like this, though. The Middle East and Africa are right there with

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