Telling just a simple lie will drag you through a never-ending road of twisty turns and harsh realities. In Charmaine Wilkerson’s Black Cake, the Bennett family falls apart. After the death of Bert Bennett, later followed by Covey Bennett, their two children, Benny and Byron, are left mad at each other and the world due to false realities, and deep rooting lies. Even if one is fearful of their past, it is still never acceptable to lie to a loved one, because it will ultimately cause unnecessary feelings of confusion and resentment that end up harming a relationship. To begin, it is essential to remain honest with loved ones, because failing to do so will cause extreme confusion and give them a false sense of your identity. For instance, when Covey …show more content…
He shakes it free of charge. Benny stands there, her mouth open, but says nothing. And what right does she have to say? Byron hasn’t seen Benny in eight years. And now, their ma is gone for good” (9). Byron is furious enough to “push” her away, and “shake” his arm away from her. This is Byron's way of showcasing his fury because he feels that he wants nothing to do with his sister. If Benny’s conversations with their mother hadn’t been kept a secret from Byron, then he would have understood that she did care about their mother. Due to the lies, however, Byron doesn’t know any of this and reacts with anger. At the end of the day, all of these lies caused unnecessary anger and added up to destroy Byron and Benny’s relationship with each other. In conclusion, lying to a loved one will truly harm strong relationships, creating both confusion and arguments. In the book Black Cake, this concept destroys the Bennett family with lies going on both ends. People became furious and confused when all they truly were supposed to be was supportive of each other. Family is extremely important, and a single lie can tear people apart. Honesty truly is the missing piece to many struggling
Richard Gunderman asks the question, "Isn 't there something inherently wrong with lying, and “in his article” Is Lying Bad for Us?" Similarly, Stephanie Ericsson states, "Sure I lie, but it doesn 't hurt anything. Or does it?" in her essay, "The Ways We Lie.” Both Gunderman and Ericsson hold strong opinions in regards to lying and they appeal to their audience by incorporating personal experiences as well as references to answer the questions that so many long to confirm.
Although it is considered wrong to tell lies, it seems that literature has offered us situations where telling lies isn’t necessarily bad. Of course, lying often has a tragic outcome, but not always for the person or people who told the lie or lies. Oftentimes, these unfortunate outcomes are directed at the person about whom the lie was told. Furthermore, these stories have explained that dishonesty can result in success for both the liar and the target. Maybe we have been teaching the wrong values to our children.
Deception is an effective parenting tool. Maternal deception is present throughout the book as the mothers and grandmothers guide their daughters to happiness through misleading stories, and warnings to brighten their daughters’ future. This is particularly evident in the relationship between Waverly and her mother Lindo Jong. Earlier, Lindo learns that Waverly already secretly engaged with her fiancé Rich, but pretends not to know. She did not act on it so she could have an untainted view on whether Rich is a good husband for Waverly. This works well for Waverly, as Waverly put, “I came up with a brilliant plan. I concocted a way for Rich to meet my mother and win her over” (Amy Tan 194). Many family friends come over to have dinner at Lindo’s house. During the dinner, Waverly introduces Rich to Lindo, and Lindo wastes no time as “she scrutinized him from head to toe, checking her appraisal of him…” (Tan 195-196) When Waverly asks Lindo of her opinion about Rich, her only comment is on his freckles. In the end, it turns out that the random comment means that she is fine with him, but it does deceive Waverly that Lindo might not like Rich. Lindo appears ...
Honesty helps people bond. One of the characters, Emilia, lies about her life at the Kleist’s farm and about her friend August, who she said she was married to because she was ashamed of being raped by a Russian soldier. She thought if she lied about it to everyone, including herself, then
Ericsson argued that “telling the truth all the time is nearly impossible” (159). Lies are part of everyday life, like drinking coffee for breakfast. For Barkley, lies became a stifling part of his life. The two authors explained how lies can impact a society.
Another example is my second born goes around saying she is my favorite child so, I just agree that she is my favorite child and not to tell her sisters so their feeling won’t get hurt. They’re all my favorite girls in their own special way not just her but It makes her day. These benevolent lies just keep coming. My oldest daughter had a pet fish that she cared for. The fish recently died so I had to replace it before she came home. She noticed it looked a little different and asked if I noticed anything dissimilar. I replied, “No dear.” Why? This lie was said to spare my daughter from devastation caused by losing a pet. These types of white lies are created to protect those we care for although feeling justified because they’re done with good
Lying is an issue that has been debated on for a long time. Some people believe that lying is sometimes ok in certain circumstances. Some people believe lying is always acceptable. In contrast, some believe lying is always bad. Keeping all other’s opinions in mind, I believe that lying is a deficient way of solving problems and is a bad thing. I claim that only certain situations allow the usage of lies and that otherwise, lying is bad. Dishonesty is bad because it makes it harder to serve justice, harms the liar individually, and messes up records. Furthermore, it should only be said to protect someone from grave danger.
The people who claim that they do not lie are probably lying when they say it. Whether it is to deceive authority or just to play a joke on a friend, it is part of human nature to lie. In the novel The Great Gatsby written by F. Scott Fitzgerald, Jay Gatsby takes on a character of wealth and luxury. Gatsby wants to win back his love interest from five years ago, so he secretly becomes wealthy through owning an illegal drug business, using his abundance of money to impress her. In contrast, in Tobias Wolff’s “The Liar,” he tells a story of teenage James as he lies about his life to appear more fascinating. He lies not because he wants to, but because it comes naturally to him. Both stories convey people struggling to find the purpose of their
The society we live in can either lead us to a complicated relationship with the truth or be easy going. The problem with constantly telling lies is that it starts off with one, then leads to another until everything you say is a lie. Being truthful can be beneficial to anyone, and people will follow the example of being honest. People know it is easier to tell lies than face the truth because they are either doing it for money, or protection for themselves, people they love, or relationships. It was discovered by Nick that his whole family wasn’t dead because at Gatsby’s funeral he met Gatsby’s father.
Ever told a lie, or even been caught in a lie? If so, stay tuned to listen why Phillip, Dr. Seymour, and Jake barlow lied in the book Nothing But The Truth by Avi realistic fiction. In the book Nothing But The Truth it's about a boy named Phillip Malloy who goes to school to only be suspended for humming the nation anthem. As time goes by in the story Phillip story becomes nation wide news, leading to the school and Philip to be in deep trouble.In the novel many people lied, which could have lead to a completely different outcome if Phillip,Dr. Seymour, and Jake Barlow didn't lie.
Lying is simply an act of not telling the truth, and this definition of lying will be used in future sections of this paper. There are three groups of lies t...
That, like unreliable narrators, individuals often ‘lie’ to themselves in order to cover up the actual
In Kazuo Ishiguro’s novel Never Let Me Go, Miss Lucy and Miss Emily set up two contrasting perspectives between rigid reality and the luxury of lies. Throughout the novel, there are plenty of examples where both perspectives show positive and negative effects between lying and telling the truth Its hard to say who is right but exploring both point of views will give insight on what’s best for the children. It is clear that Miss Lucy wants to tell the truth because it is immoral to lie about someone’s most important part of their identity and she believes it is humane thing to do; however, Miss Emily feels as if it is better to lie for the sake of a happy childhood and to ultimately figure out if the children have souls. With this, we perceive
But since that didn’t happen, the readers are left to interpret the moral and ethical justice of the different acts of deception that are fabricated. Shakespeare’s Hamlet digs deep into moral compasses of deception. We are taught through this play that lies are the only sin that will never go unpunished. We all lie, and all for different reasons. It’s important to look at those reasons and honestly decide what lies are worth telling and which are not. Even then, it’s nearly impossible to predict how big the lie could get, which can cause more problems than before. As a general guideline, it’s much easier to take the repercussions of a truth, than take the pain and confusion that comes with
Secondly, it is okay to be untruthful if you are trying to protect people. In certain situations, it is safer, and more practical for you to tell a lie rather than putting a loved one in jeopardy. To illustrate you may be in a situation where you are in a serious or dangerous situation, and you do not what anyone else involved, to keep them safe. For example, if you are getting held up for ransom, would you tell the truth to a loved one and get them involved, or lie and keep them safe? The obvious answer is to keep them safe at all costs, even if it means lying. Also, you do not want to put someone in harm’s way, so it would be ...