How Stalking Changes Lives Stalking is extremely dangerous, and most victims of this crime report that their lives are changed forever because they live the rest of their lives in constant fear. This act of crime is commonly underestimated and not seen as threatening as it is. In most cases, stalking can only be stopped with the help of law enforcement. Victims and stalkers are both affected by stalking, and it is in their best interest for both to get serious help as soon as they can. Stalking is most commonly defined “...as non-consensual communication, and/or harassment of another person” (Spitz). Stalking can be ruled as a misdemeanor or a felony depending on the severity of the actions, but it is not considered illegal if one is not threatened or in potential danger. There are two types of stalking; one involves the victim and stalker having a personal relationship with one another, while the other involves the two having no connection at all (Accomando and Anderson). Stalking consists of the repetition of undesired and frightening acts from the stalker, and it is a major violation of privacy (Accomando and Anderson; Wigman). Over …show more content…
Most people assume that most stalking victims are women, but law officials have found that the number of male and female victims are roughly equal (Brownstein). It has been proven that, “The nature of the relationship between targets and stalkers seems to be different for women and men.” Statistically, females usually know their stalker, while male victims usually have no personal relationship with their stalker (Accomando and Anderson). Most of the time, men will not report that they are being stalked unless they feel it is life threatening because some do not see women as a threat (Wigman). Victims are not powerless, but they are in a rough and dangerous position
When they feel rejected they can become extremely violent towards whoever they feel rejected them. Celebrities need to be made aware of how to handle stalkers, so that when they are faced with the problem they can deal with it properly. A forensic science graduate states, "Risk management strategies for this type should emphasize the need for professional protection of the target despite the low frequency risk of violence, since the injury is likely to be more serious if violence does occur …" (Mohandie). Many celebrities won't go to the police to report stalkers because they do not believe it is a real problem. This does not help them get the stalker to go away. When celebrities learn about how to deal with stalkers they are more likely to report the problem to the
Stalking is a very dangerous form of violence and is more common than people think. As a society we have many different ideas of what the definition of stalking is. There are many different forms of stalking, sure some of them may seem harmless but it is difficult to differentiate harmful situations and acts from harmless situations and acts. The main thing that makes it stalking is it is a form of abuse is that it is unwanted by the victim. Before the paper starts it is going to define stalking, a little history, and some of its forms.
Anyone around you can be a stalker. Stalkers come from all and any socio-economc background. There are categories made for stalkers but at times, not every stalker fits in each characteristics perfectly. According to the Sexual Assault prevention & Awareness Center, there are six categories of stalkers. The Rejected stalker, Resentful stalker, Predatory stalker, Intimacy seeker, Incompetent suitor, and Erotomania and Morbidly Infatuated.
As it is in the case of the majority of violent crimes, (Davies and Rogers, 2006) perpetrators of violent crimes, and especially sexual assault related crimes exert additional force by threatening the victim or their families. Male victims also must contend with an additional sense of shame and embarrassment in being identified with a crime that has been typically portrayed in the media as happening to women. This places men at a disadvantage in the reporting process, because their safety and the safety of others is compromised further if the crime is not reported. (Messerschmitt, 2009)
It has been long debated whether genetics or the environment in which one is raised impacts human psychological development the most. In Never Let Me Go, Kazuo Ishiguro shows that nurture cannot overcome one’s hereditary inclinations. Ishiguro exploits a world where human nature powerfully contradicts nurturing. He shows us that people, no matter how they were created or how they were raised, desire to be loved and accepted and need to know where they came from and what their future possibilities are.
While most of the violent crimes that happens most are them are belongs to men, women have not been the wilting flowers promoted so heartily by Victorian adorers and (right or wrong) often evident in today's society. Before we get into detail about the fascinating phenomenon of the Black Widow, it is worth a brief overview of women's escalating role in the world of violent crime, particularly in the United States.
It started slowly, with just him not wanting me to go to one type of social event because he didn’t like the people there. Then it got worse and worse. He was trying to control me by alienating me from my friends. After a bit I started fighting back, which made his obsession with controlling me as his possession stronger. When I finally asked him to leave he threatened to kill himself. I finally got him out, and he was staying at his mother 's house, but then the stalking started. On page 92 in the book, Cooper-White explains stalking by outlining the Justice Department 's Stalking Victimization Survey 's seven types of harassing behaviors: "1. Making unwanted phone calls, 2. Sending unsolicited or unwanted letters or emails, 3. Following or spying on the victim, 4. Showing up at places without a legitimate reason, 5. Waiting at places for the victim, 6. Leaving unwanted items, presents or flowers, and 7. Posting information or spreading rumors about the victim on the Internet, in a public place, or by word of mouth". My stalker did every single one of these things to me. When I read the chapter on Sexual Harassment and Stalking, it was almost a validation of what I went through as a victim. Thankfully in my situation, I kept track of his stalking and took him to court. The judge was able to identify his actions as stalking, (probably unknown to me she probably used this
... female victims in mind to raise safety awareness among female students living on college campuses. Women are primary victims of crimes more strongly influenced by the gender factor; they have been known to be easily overpowered by men (assuming the attacker is male!). A male victim may be able to fight back his attacker, but for a female it seems that their best line of defense is simply locking the door.
Intimate partner stalkers are typically known as the guy who "just can’t let go." These are most often men who refuse to believe that a relationship has really ended. Often, other people - even the victims - feel sorry for them. But they shouldn’t. Studies show that the vast majority of these stalkers are not sympathetic, lonely people who are still hopelessly in love, but were in fact emotionally abusive and controlling during the relationship. Many have criminal histories unrelated to stalking. Well over half of stalkers fall into this "former intimate partner" category.
off – are motivated by a desire to control their victims.”(Cyber Stalking and Cyber Harassment
Just because an individual owns a computer and has an Internet account do not assume that person is considerate or respectful. There are just as many stalkers in cyberspace as anywhere else. It’s just that their methods have changed. Some stalkers might harass you by following you through live channels not being able to take no for an answer and bothering you with email messages. In some cases this harassment may become a systematic campaign against you; where your harasser bombards you with threatening messages of hate and obscenities. (1996, p.3) The stalker may even trace your home address and telephone number, causing not only emotional distress but possibly physical danger. It should come as no surprise to you that the stalkers are making use of this technology to harass people and prey on the innocent.
When we say people are creepy, it is’s because we react unpleased or confused (Frank). Creepiness is ambiguity;, the fear of the unknown. This paper will be on what makes things creepy, why things are creepy, what we feel during this, and why clowns and other things such as robots and zombies make us feel this. This roughout my paper I will be mentioning the uncanny valley,. I will talk about what you feel when creeped out, and some examples of things that are eerie, some studies and surveys, and even mental things and tools that people use to look at it.
I have been making really bad decision and been so sad without my parents around for a while. So I believe it is about time that I accept that my parents are gone and this house that we all lived in as a family is the only memory I have left. And selling it is just me just running away from my past. I think it would be a good idea to get someone come in and take a look at the house to see what structural damage is her and what can be done to fix it. I think I could raise a family here and pass these memories to my kids. I should call Mark and pass my ideas to him; I think he would like what I have in mind. I feel so excited, for once I am thinking something that makes sense. Keeping my parents memories alive. They would have been so happy
How do you view obsessive?. Logical? Alarming? Or inexperienced with the word? Maybe one of the many ways you’ve heard it used in everyday life comes to mind. Someone referring to their favorite song or food. Perhaps you get a creepy feeling when you hear the word, because we know being obsessed with one specific thing or person can be alarming and unhealthy. I think many can agree it’s not the warmest word, but It’s not the most frightening word either. Although it’s the way it’s most often used obsession does not always refer to being obsessed with a person or a specific item. Personally, obsessive has been a lifestyle. Many times I’ve been told to stop obsessing over something, but for a long time I couldn’t honestly comprehend my obsessive
Posting personal information can also make it easier to be stalked. To stalk means to pursue by tracking. The study from Women's Aid and the Network to Survive Stalking, warns that Smartphones are being targete...