Social Hardships of Single Mothers

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Single parenthood culture seems appealing to many married people. However, married individuals are forced to battle with elements like faithfulness and life-long commitment to one individual, which may be boring in some cases. However, single parents, especially single mothers encounter serious challenges related to parenting. Single parenting is a succession of constant mental torture because of ineptness, self-scrutiny, and remorse. At some point, single parents will often encounter serious psychological problems some graduating to stress and eventual depression. Again, there are far-reaching problems that force single mothers to a set of economic or social hardships. Social hardships are evident as address in this research. Nonetheless, the study will still cover economic hardships since the two are closely related. The study will attempt to prove that single mothers are disadvantaged socially and economically. The study is segmented into two main sections; firstly, a background depicting researches in this field. Secondly, the study will present an argumentative literature attempting to clarify that single mothers do have a genuine problem not only economically, but as well socially in upbringing their children. To achieve this, the essay appoints Langston Hughes Poem ‘Mother to Son’ as a derivative reference point in developing this study. Research has traditionally focused in examining the emancipation of the female gender during their development. However, few researchers have intrinsically examined on the adult-life of single parents, more so in relation to women. The few efforts relating to this field like Williams (179) exemplifies that women suffer the greatest menace while trying support their single-parented families... ... middle of paper ... ...Huan. Women Heroin Users in China's Changing Society: An Analysis of the Careers of Women Drug Users. London: ProQuest Goldman, Marlene B, Rebecca Troisi, and Kathryn M. Rexrode. Women and Health. Amsterdam: Elsevier Science, 2013. Internet resource Golombok, Susan. Parenting: What Really Counts?. London: Routledge 2014. Print. Hagood, Susan. "Rice Plus": Widows and Economic Survival in Rural Cambodia. Taylor & Francis, 2006. Print. Pattnaik, Jyotsna. Father Involvement in Young Children's Lives: A Global Analysis. Dordrecht: Springer, 2013. Internet resource. Strong, Mark E. Church for the Fatherless: A Ministry Model for Society's Most Pressing Problem. Downers Grove, Ill: IVP Books, 2012. Internet resource. Williams, Reginald. The Voices of Single Parent Mothers who are Homeless in Regard to Their Parent Child Relationships. London: ProQuest: 2008. Print.

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