Serena Nanda's Arranging A Marriage In India

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Culture is an important part in realizing our expectations, and also attached to sex roles. In other words, socialization is also part of culture. Socialization “determines how each of us assimilates our culture’s ideas of what it means to act as a male or female,” (Stuart Hirschberg & Terry Hirschberg p. 107). This makes us see with our own sexual identity is part of the conjunction with societal expectations. Although, some of these expectations are very different from many different cultures. For example, in some countries, like the Islamic Middle Eastern societies, the male is the more dominant one from the women. In other words, the man plays a role where he is the one that should be in charge of things, and the wife stays home. This example just shows how different both men and women play with the culture, and even now a days they still have that custom in the Middle Eastern. The difference between the characteristics is that gender plays a role where is has varied in many history cultures like Asia, Middle East, Europe, …show more content…

Another example can be arranged marriages in India. In the summary “Arranging a Marriage in India,” by Serena Nanda, she explains how it is a type of marital union where the bride and groom meet each other on their marriage day. In India, the parents are the one that choose their son or their daughter’s spouse, so they call it the “love match.” In order for them to find the perfect spouse for their son or daughter, the person needs to be considered by their “personality, color, character, education, social class, and many more things..” (Serena Nanda p. 129). In order for the parents to find that right person for their children, even though their young adults, they have to be a suitable person that has the same culture as they do. There is also another way for them to meet each other before their marriage, and it is called “Personal

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