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The Work- Royce Rain. Royce Rain’s was always a passive man. Whether it was simply his nature, or his strict upbringing, there are three rules he never broke: One- never speak out of turn, even if what he has to say is important. Two- in an argument, he is never right. He must graciously allow the other person their way. And three- never, under any circumstances, must he lose his temper. These morals were sewn into his heart by his mother, a former servant, who left holes where the needle punctured. It was this damage that only let his heart fill to a certain point with love or joy, until it would seep out of the holes. He learned from an early age that feeling indifferent towards people was easier than trying to love them then watch that very love ooze out of his crippled heart. Routine and structure ordered his life; living by the books and with ridged tradition in mind …show more content…
and he looked that way too. Neatly kept in his three-tiered dresser were a small selection of ironed pants in a spectrum of greys, simple t-shirts that were to be always tucked in, and a thin wool sweater. Every day his parents seemed to feed off his color. Every day Royce became more and more lifeless. His eyes went steely and his hair withered to the texture of straw. With pale skin and a sunken smile, he looked as if death was stalking him. But to die was to exit this world without proving to his parents he was perfection personified. He would fight to prove that he was worth their time. At the age of 17 he worked in a local restaurant as a waiter. He naturally felt the need to be perfect, to live up to his parents expectations, so Royce never misinterpreted an order, forgot a plate, or dropped a fork. Never. He worked in this field through the rest of his teens and into his early twenties and over the course of nine years, he was not late for work once. He was really starting to become renowned for his impeccable service, until the day he broke his three rules. It was when he was 27 years old, working at a beautiful Italian restaurant in downtown NYC as head waiter.
It's been nine years since he left home at eighteen to escape his parent's iron cages and leaching love. It was a moonless autumn night, cooler than usual. Everything seemed to be in order: tables set, plates stacked, cups washed, shades drawn, lighting just below half for ambiance, music audible but not intrusive, air temperature at a comfortable range so women can decide to remove their shawl or not and men can keep their vests or choose to set them aside. Neatly, of course. He watched as a man entered, bringing a wave of cold air with him. This man, older, was certainly not the type to dine here. Royce's intuition was telling him something was very wrong. That’s when their eyes met. It sparked a cold sweat to bead up around his hairline. But his training kicked in and his feet moved silently and politely over to where the man was waiting to be seated. The words 'right this way, sir' slipped from his mouth as it did thousands of times before, as he chauffeured the man to an empty
table. As soon as the man took his seat he grabbed Royce's hand and tugged him down close so they were eye to eye. The man smiled condescendingly and whispered a few hushed words to him, then let go. Royce stood in disbelief for a moment then asked the man if they could talk elsewhere. They both started towards a back door but something was different about Royce: he walked with heavy, careless steps that echoed through the room. As the door grew nearer, he reached for the spare knife he kept in the pocket of his apron. An old waiting trick he learned years back; keeping extra cutlery on him in the case a guest drops theirs and is in need of a replacement. The men pushed through the door and spilled out into the dark and narrow ally created by the restaurant and a neighboring jazz bar. As soon as he heard the door click behind them, Royce turned and plunged the knife into the man's chest with a thick and gruesome sound. Again their eyes met but this time it was Royce who was wearing a sick and twisted smile. The man fell to his knees then collapsed to the ground with a sputter, wheezing something Royce couldn’t make out. The handle of the knife felt cold and surreal as he watched blood flow from the body, filling the cracks in the concrete. Just as his dad's heart stopped, so did Royce's as he heard the door open behind him. A woman's voice spoke making the hairs on his arms stand on end. Something about the calm in her voice after witnessing a murder, something about the way his name flicked off her tongue- sharp and delicious, that forced him to turn around. This is also the day that his name will never sound the same to him again, as long as it's being said by his new associate, Medea Raven. She held his face in both of her cold hands, forcing him to look directly at her as she told him they needed to leave here this instant. That he must follow her to a place where they would be safe and hidden. As they ran off into the night, Royce still wearing his white apron; now spoiled with dots of blood, all he could feel was joy fill his heart, even past the point that it would normally cut him off. She took him out of the city, out of the country. They traveled to England in her privately owned jet, where she made a deal with him. Had Royce really known who he was dealing with, what kind of woman was hidden behind those eyes, he would have rather jumped out of the plane than to agree to her terms. But what could he do? Medea was offering freedom, from his past, from the law waiting to nab him the second he steps foot on American soil. She has it in her power to recreate him, give him a new name, new identity, to start fresh with her wealthy connections. All she asked in return was for him to take care of a few of her 'old friends' as she would put it. For him to release that pent up rage she saw back in New York, but in a more discreet and sophisticated way. "I'll do it", he says, shaking hands with the devil at altitude.
...wn by the fact that in one of the books found with his corpse a he had written: “Happiness only real when shared (186).” One could interpret this as remorse, as him realizing—unfortunately too late—that he had made a tremendous mistake. At least he was man enough to face up to it, rather than to allow himself to die in denial; this merely vouches for his noble ways, because no arrogant imbecile would be able to admit a fault, even to themselves. This says it all, really: “Personal perception of perfection is like that. You see only what you want to see. After a while you just see what you need to (Good, 23).”
can be traced by to his grandmother who provided him with a powerful moral and
believe that he was a man of high moral standards, in fact higher than most of
He says that although he knew it was sinful, he had a desire to become a scholar and learn the “science of things.” In Equality 7-2521’s world, it was immoral and illegal to prefer one subject or person over another because everything was supposed to be equal.... ... middle of paper ... ...
‘He was the kind of man – powerful of body, even tempered and not easily led.’ This quote is very straightforward and you understand that he is fair-minded. After this quote you think he sounds like a good man and a rule-follower; however you then get to the line ‘ he’s a sinner, a sinner not only against the moral fashion of the time but against his own vision of decent conduct’.
On the other hand, the younger waiter has a wife to go home to and is irritated at the old man because he will not leave. He even says to the old man, who is deaf, "You should have killed yourself last week" (1170). This cruel remark contrasts sharply with the older waiter's characteristics of compassion, friendliness, and tolerance.
The role of relationship you have with other people often has direct influence on the individual choices and belief in the life. In the short story “on the rainy river”, the author Tim O’Brien inform us about his experiences and how his interacted with a single person had effected his life so could understand himself. It is hard for anyone to be dependent on just his believes and own personal experience, when there are so many people with different belief to influence you choices and have the right choices for you self. Occasionally taking experience and knowledge of other people to help you understand and build from them your own identity and choices in life.
His basic idea was this: In any given situation, a person should do what he called "the loving thing" rather than follow rigid rules derived from Divine revelation--or for that matter, any set of rigid rules, even those coming from simple reasoning. This idea is based on the worship of the person! That humankind, in its natural state, is "fundamentally, decent, enlightened, reasonable, and eager to do the right thing".
Raymond is an eight-year-old Hispanic, of Dominican heritage, first grade student residing in a domestic violence shelter system. Raymond and his two older sisters, eleven and thirteen, share a room with their thirty-six-year-old mother, Mrs. Ruben, who has a long history of drug addiction. Raymond was born addicted to opioids and as a result has impulse control and anger problems (Broderick, & Blewitt, p. 9). Raymond has discussed seeing his mother choked by his father, his sisters thrown across the room and parents fighting over drugs.
He worked hard while he was at school, in the Wisconsin company and even in the valley. His hard work earned him respect as he worked hard along the other people to earn his keep. He knew his self-worth and never doubted his ability. He was at peace with himself and his emotions, he was not conceited or arrogant (640) his self-esteem seemed boundless and justified. He was confident in his ability and had his happiness governing his morality and conduct. He never believed that he had to be his brother’s keeper; “. . . ever since I remember, I had felt that I would kill the man who’d claim that I exist for the sake of his need. . .” (680) He believed instead in pursuing his own happiness. Happiness represented his morality and ultimately, everything he did was for his happiness. He expressed this to Francisco d’Anconia his friend in no uncertain term when he informed him of his decision to return to New York – “If I go back it won’t be for our work. It will be to win the only thing I want from the world for myself …” (732). Although he was a reasonable man, he was not immune to emotions - he loved Dagny passionately, and he had a profound respect for his friends: Francisco d’Anconia and Ragnar Danneskjöld. He revered his mentor, Hugh Akston who was like a father to him. He never hid his love for Dagny or his
He wrote thirteen virtues that were to be followed. The first was temperance and the last being humility. He referred to this as his Execution of the Plan for Self-Examination. After looking back on his life based on the method that he created, he was able to see his faults and lamented over them. “My scheme of ORDER, gave me the most Trouble […].” (991) He later compared his life to the speckled ax and realizes that even though he had made mistakes and not followed the order that he had made for others, he believed that his life had turned out just as
In 1933, Ernest Hemmingway wrote A Clean, Well-Lighted Place. It's a story of two waiters working late one night in a cafe. Their last customer, a lonely old man getting drunk, is their last customer. The younger waiter wishes the customer would leave while the other waiter is indifferent because he isn't in so much of a hurry. I had a definite, differentiated response to this piece of literature because in my occupation I can relate to both cafe workers.
With both hands resting lightly on the table to each side of his white foam cup, Otis stared into its deep abyss of emptiness with his head bowed as if willing it to fill again, giving him a reason to enjoy the shelter that the indoors provided. I could almost touch the conflict going on inside of him, a battle of wills as if he was negotiating with an imaginary devil on one shoulder and an angel on the other. I sensed a cramp of discomfort seizing his insides, compelling him to flee, then a silent resolve, as if a moment of clarity had graced his consciousness.
ethics were daily events in his life. At home, he tried to raise his children
I enter an exquisite room welcomed by a benevolent host. I glance around and see dining tables strategically set as if the queen were to be expected. White flowers with silver sparkles adorn the tables to add a final touch. The lights are dimmed low and classical music plays in the background to create a placid atmosphere. A savory aroma fills the room making me crave the chef’s fine platter. The host leads my party to a table and offers us drinks. As we wait for dinner to begin, murmurs fill the room with general conversation.