Ritual Of Memory Analysis

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Community building can depict an idea of people coming together for a common purpose. The purpose may be unclear on why people are becoming a union, though it may involve the inclusion of people. In “Once Upon a Time” and “Rituals of Memory” both include the gathering of people, however the reasons for their togetherness are very different. In “Once Upon a Time”, the author paints a picture of a family where they protect themselves and confide themselves with people that are just like them. The family represents the community and how they work, the community works to include people that are similar to them and exclude people that are not like them by protecting themselves to the extremes. According to the passage, “They were inscribed in a …show more content…

This community is built on the gathering of people coming from different backgrounds, while still embracing their differences. “We stood, all of us – those descended from settlers of Norwegian, German, or other European origins, and those descended from Anishinaabe or other Indian people.” Although having different cultural backgrounds, they were all able to join together to mourn the past lives of others. The author uses words like we or together symbolize the relationship of the community, “We stood together in a great ceremonial loop of our humanity, in our desire to immerse ourselves in their honor, to always carry those memories forward with us, to be ourselves somehow made holy by the rituals of those memories.” The gathering of the people was something natural even though they were facing the tensions within society they still were able to join together as one. “Together in a moment out of ordinary time, we paused in the little opening at the wooden grave houses, oblivious to the wood ticks, which must later be picked carefully from our clothes and our flesh, oblivious to the buzzing of mosquitoes or sand flies, oblivious as well to the more trivial tensions of contemporary politics.” The tensions of modern politics did not interfere with the way the community acted together. Being close together for this moment, but later on they would all eventually go back to their own families, “The men brought out drinks from the trunks of their cars, laughter and talk sprang up, picnic foods came out, and people would disperse again – to their own families.” A community together as one and then eventually separating into their own

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