Growing up I was always a firm believer in equality; whether it be racial, gender, or sexual preference; I can’t tell you why, I guess it was just engrained since birth. I was always one that never passed judgement on another for being themselves or having high goal they’ll want to achieve. Gender roles of men and women is a topic that’s important to me because I feel both sexes have the ability to live in a harmonious and thriving society. We as a society in America have made huge leaps and bounds than say the 1950s but I still feel there are still issues that still need to addressed and talked about among ourselves. I grew up looking up to my mother who I feel is a resilient, goal-oriented, strong minded person who whenever something needed …show more content…
to be taken care of she did it. Seeing this around me, my mind was fortunately wired to believe women can do anything man can. The topic of sex and the double standard it presents is something that bothers me as well. Us as men, get praised for having a huge number of sexual partners by other men and even women. Looking at the other side of the spectrum women get ridiculed, labeled, and bullied by not only men but other women, sometimes even more harshly. I have a step father who came into my life about 6 or 7 years ago and for the most part was a positive influence on me and a good person. Throughout the years of our relationship I started to notice he was a bit sexist and would say some distasteful things sometimes. He believed women and men have separate duties and had some classic gender views. I would laugh sometimes because I was so shocked and couldn’t believe he was serious with the things he would say. My stepfather grew up during the 80s-90s and time of turmoil for a lot of minority communities.
The era he grew up in was still very conservative and being a little different caused for ridicule. What puzzles me most about my stepfather is he was raised by his mom and Aunt, so I don’t understand where he’s views came from. I’ll admit he grew up in a confusing time and in a bad neighborhood so outside events most likely could have influenced his way of thinking. If he was growing up during the 60s or 50s, I could understand why one would think the way they would, my grandfather and grandmother had that type of relationship. Becoming an adult in the 1980s and 1990s, I fail to see the reason as to why my stepfather has his sometimes sexist views. Contrary to the time my stepfather lived in, today’s day and age is much more tolerable and accepting of others. We’re aren’t perfect by any means, but there have been big boulders moved in favor of equality. I think technology is helpful in thinning out the lines they divide gender roles, it gives another outlet for both men and women to expand intellect and devices that can be beneficial to the world. More women are taking advantage of opportunities and not being forced to give up their aspirations to cater to another person which has given our generation much more powerful people regardless of sex living in society; another person we as students can strive to
become.
When you mention gender roles in society the first thing that comes to mind usually are stereotypes, or the set labels that society has established on how everyone acts based on the different biological, social, and cultural categories they fit into. Throughout history these stereotypes that pertain to genders roles in society have been proven true. Gender roles refer to a behavioral and social norms that are widely accepted for people of a certain sex. In this report I will discussing the gender roles of the two most recognized types of gender, man and woman, from the perspective of a man and a woman who have lived 65+ years. I will also discuss how those roles have influenced society and how they have changed gradually over the years.
I believe that women and men can be equals within both spheres of the household and the workforce. As a feminist, I support women that choose to be mothers and not work, I support women that work and their partners stay at home with the children, and I support partners that equally divide up the work and dabble within both spheres. I, personally, want to work, get my PhD, and be a mother. My partner also has the opportunity to choose what they decide to do, whether that be work, stay at home to parent, or do both of the duties equally. My family and I do not share similar values toward gender role ideology. My father maintains a strong traditional view of the separation of men and women’s roles. He believes that women are supposed to be the ones that do all of the cooking, cleaning, and pushing out the children and then raising them. Men are solely the breadwinners and once they come home from work, there should be dinner on the table with children off to bed shortly after while he sits in his recliner and watches television all night. My father was very upset and did not understand why I did not want to get married straight out of high school and actually wanted to pursue my college degree, let alone a PhD. My father does not accept my views and we fight a lot about multiple issues and beliefs. My mother on the other hand is a little better and holds at least a transitional view of gender role ideology. My mother and step-father both
We all have a certain way of communicating that seems evident and natural to us, so we can be shocked, frustrated, or even sadden when someone misinterprets us. Interacting with other people is part of our daily lives, yet men and women have different styles of communication and behavior. Some of the major differences between men and women are how they express emotion, affection or intimacy, and communication. Women tend to be more emotional and express more affection, whereas men are far less emotional and express less affection. Women regard intimacy as talking face-to-face; however, men regard intimacy as working or playing side-by-side. Women tend to ask more questions when communicating while men ask fewer or no questions at all. These
The media is a very influential aspect of our daily lives. The media is everywhere we look, everything we listen to, and everything we talk about, we cannot escape it. It only makes sense that the media would have an affect of the construction of how we view masculinity and femininity. The media has the ideals or standards of what it means to masculine or feminine which with our changing times do not represent a majority of people. These standards are set so high that no one can reach them, which makes people feel defeated since they do not meet these expectations. With many people not fitting into these generalized norms we set for a “man” or “woman” it is time we get rid of these norms, or at least update them to the times. People are changing
Women have been treated unequally since the beginning of time. Just recently have things began to change for the better for women and the future of our society. The increase in women’s equality rights will take time, but some day women and men will be treated equally. This cannot happen until each of us is able to look at a person and just see another individual, not a male or a female, white or black, rich or poor… a person as just a person.
‘Boys will be boys’, a phrase coined to exonerate the entire male sex of loathsome acts past, present, and potential. But what about the female sex, if females act out of turn they are deemed ‘unladylike’ or something of the sort and scolded. This double standard for men and women dates back as far as the first civilizations and exists only because it is allowed to, because it is taught. Gender roles and cues are instilled in children far prior to any knowledge of the anatomy of the sexes. This knowledge is learned socially, culturally, it is not innate. And these characteristics can vary when the environment one is raised in differs from the norm. Child rearing and cultural factors play a large role in how individuals act and see themselves.
The critical rank for reducing gender inequalities should be education, labor force participation, and lastly, wages. There are obvious differences between men and women whether it’s anatomically, financially, and so forth. The gender inequalities women face compared to men is alarming and saddening. Gender stereotypes reinforce gender inequalities because stereotypes can often be internalized which results in biases against either sex. These biases against a person can result in negative results. Gender inequality has been within our society for a long time especially amongst women.
From the beginning of time, females have played a powerful role in the shaping of this world. They have stood by idly and watched as this country moved on without them, and yet they have demanded equal rights as the nation rolls along. Through the years the common belief has been that women could not perform as well as men in anything, but over the years that belief has been proven wrong time and time again. So as time marches on, women have clawed and fought their way up the ladder to gain much needed equal respect from the opposite sex. However, after many years of pain and suffering, the battle for equal rights has not yet been won. Since women have fought for a long time and proven their importance in society, they deserve the same rights as men.
Social Construction of Gender is a process, stratification system and structure. The day to day interactions emphasize gender as opposites. Take for instance, conversations, formalities of daily life, sayings, and so on. The social construction of gender is created through social interaction – through the things we do and say with other people. This means that gender it is not a fixed or inherent fact, but instead it varies across time and place.
Everybody is born and made differently, but one thing is similar, our gender. We are born either male or female, and in society everybody judges us for our gender. This is called gender roles; societies expecting you to act like a male or female (Rathus, 2010). Some people say, “act like a lady,” or “be a man,” these are examples of how gender roles work in our everyday lives. In society when we think stereotypes, what do we think? Many think of jocks, nerds, or popular kids; gender stereotyping is very similar. Gender stereotypes are thoughts of what the gender is supposed to behave like (Rathus, 2010). One example of a gender stereotype for a man would be a worker for the family, and a women stereotype would be a stay at home mom. Though in todays age we don’t see this as much, but it is still around us. In different situations both gender roles and stereotypes are said and done on a daily basis and we can’t avoid them because everyone is different.
A gender role attitude is an individual’s interpretation and expectation on how a woman or man should behave. These assumptions create a socially accepted “norm” about each gender. In various lectures, we examined three common gender role ideologies; traditional, egalitarian, and transitional. A traditional gender role would fit into society’s fundamental outlook on a household. An individual holding this view would believe that men should work and earn money for the family, while women stay at home to do house work and take care of the kids. An egalitarian position believes that both women and men should equally distribute responsibility throughout every situation they are faced with. This would include dividing duties up evenly despite what type it is (more strenuous chores vs. easy chores). A transitional approach combines the traditional and egalitarian approaches together. A couple who practices this attitude would split up the tasks equally but in a way that still views men as holding the majority of the “household” power. For example, women would do the dishes and clean the house while men would cut the lawn and fix the car because those jobs are “more difficult”.
Let’s travel back in time to about the 1700s and the 1800s, back when women had absolutely no rights as an individual and men were considered superior to women. A time where women couldn’t be anything but a housewife and do anything beside house chores, reproduce, and take care of the kids. Meanwhile, men would go out to the world and work. However, throughout the centuries, women fought for their equal rights until they finally succeeded. Back to the present day, women today outnumber men in graduating college, and in professional programs. Gender roles today took a complete twist compared to how it was back then.
Does changing gender role affect family relationship or will it be beneficial. Gender as a social construction has become one of the most mentioned topic in today’s society. In fact, gender as a social construction has given a lot of disadvantages too many women, men, and families. With it rigid definition create by traditional cultures that state what it means to be a man and women or the perfect gender role that a father and mother should have. This conversation has cause a controversy in many marital relationship, families and community. As this argument keep growing amount generation and generation we should fight to end stereotypes by eliminating gender roles totalitarian perception by allowing father to take a role in house shores
Less than a hundred years ago women had the courage to work outside of their homes and began to fights for their rights. In return women were treated unequal and were not provided with the same amount of education or women from their job. If men and women were treated equal, then the man would be able to do the women’s job and the women would be able to do the mans job. This amount of equality would knock out the stereotypical labels of what jobs a man and women should do. The world would be a less disrespectful and judgmental place if there were equality. If everyone agreed on equal rights, then the world would be a happy
It will be one of the luckiest things in the world if people could just do what they love in their careers, and pursue their dreams without any fears or worries about how society and others judge them. However, women in this society do not obtain the same rights that men own; many inequalities hinder women to live and work. From this class, I learned a lot about gender affects work, and women and men’ roles can be very different in the work. In many industries, even though women get same education and professional degrees as men do, they are hired at lower rates than men are. Many women meet glass ceilings and find it is hard to attain the highest status in the profession, and this causes the society locks women out of higher level