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In the story Cinderella, she is bossed around her whole life and one day sneaks out to go to a ball to meet the love of her life. How would she know this is the love of her life? By her dreams telling her so? Cinderella shouldn't have a happily ever after because she is passive, dependent, and has no realistic expectations on men. Someone who is ready for a happily ever after should fulfill stability and reassurance on someone she might spend the rest of her life with. Every women is looked upon as weaker than a man, and by these fairy tales showing the fibs and lies that all women should find their lovers in a similar way is completely unfair to us. Cinderella should not have a happily ever after is because she is a passive person and doesn't stand up for herself. Cinderella is possibly eighteen or older and she still continues to get bossed around by her stepmother and stepsisters when we both know she can easily move out and start a new life. She is shown as passive person every single time her family bosses her around to do something and does what they say. Cinderella is considered the maid of the house but has just as many rights as every person living there, if not more! Cinderella could say "no, I will not cook you breakfast. No, I will not make your bed. No, I will not wash and fold your clothes or clean the floors. I am not a maid I am your equal, stop pushing me around." Instead she listens to her stepmother and stepsisters. Another time Cinderella shows she is passive is when she gets ready for the ball and her stepmother says "no, you can not go. Are you crazy?" She could of stood up for herself and been like "look, I am eighteen I am going to that ball." Instead she is just a coward and lets them beat her up. Someon...

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...all know you can not fall in love realistically by just meeting someone and knowing nothing about this person. Cinderella also thinks her Prince Charming will just find her the next day. Cinderella also doesn't have a realistic male figure in her life to give her expectations so therefore it makes her more ignorant to the fact that this Prince Charming is not the best boyfriend/husband she could have married. Not having expectations for men can lead us to a very harmful situation and could possibly mess up your stability very easily.
Disney shows unrealistic expectations to us and we don't realize it until we get older and gain the intelligence to say hey this is not right. Woman are so much smarter, independent, stable, and reasonable with life before they find their significant other. A women must be stable with themselves before they're stable with someone else.

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