Persuasive Essay: The Different Types Of Forgiveness

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She didn’t want him but that didn’t mean she wanted you to have him! Are you married to a man with an ex-wife or ex-girlfriend with whom he has had a child(ren) with? Is the situation, a hex, vex or just too darn complex?
I have come to the conclusion that there are many angry ex-wives and ex-girlfriends, and they are making it their business to ensure that their anger will not go unnoticed. This is a very sad commentary but all too true. So how do you as the new or next wife navigate through the storms of holding your marriage together and maintaining your dignity? It can be done but it will take some work!
If children are involved, of course there’s a level of interaction that will occur between parents, if raising healthy children is the primary goal. You should be leery if a father does not want anything to do with his …show more content…

It’s no magic formula or antidote. It’s a process and it takes time but it is possible. Forgiveness in the simplest form is not seeking revenge or holding on to the feelings associated with the hurt. Forgiveness is, letting go of the offense and the person who caused it.
After forgiveness comes discovery. Discovery of who we are and what we are purposed to do. The only thing stronger than purpose is love. Once we can love ourselves, for ourselves, then purpose will find us, because then our hearts will be open. When there’s purpose, you’ll be able to look at the past and see how it has made you stronger for your purpose. Your mess can become your message.
Let’s work to help each other as women move towards purpose and away from pain. Move away from our own pain and away from causing pain to other women. Whether you’re the ex-wife or the next wife, see it for what it is. When a woman seeks to hurt another woman, she only hurts herself. When a woman seeks to heal another woman, she heals herself. When a woman seeks to heal herself and other women she heals a

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