Everybody has an idea about what their perfect mate would be. Specific traits the person would have to possess. The way the person would look. Parents also have an idea. Even though I could care less about a person’s looks, I do have an idea about what perfect mate would be. My perfect mate must have tolerance, be smart, and be a gamer.
Firstly, my perfect mate needs to have tolerance. I don’t have too many people that will allow me to rant to them about things I like. Evidently, my perfect mate would be one of those people that would grant me the privilege to do so. Of course, it wouldn’t be the end of the world if he didn’t have a lot of tolerance, but I would prefer it if possible. Secondly, my perfect mate would have to be smart. Now, it isn’t a must but it
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However, I was surprised to find out that his prefered traits were nice looking, smart, having common sense, being generous, and compassionate. I was kidding when I said that my perfect mate must have the same taste in music as my dad. I thought my he would say that in a joking manner because that’s the kind of person he is, but I’m sure he took this more seriously. When I think about it, my perfect mate would not have to be an animal over for my dad to like him. When I asked my dad about the traits he would my perfect mate to have, he said, “Doesn’t have to handsome, but nice looking.” It almost seems like he has higher standards than me when it comes to looks. As far smart, generous, and compassionate goes, my dad and I seem to agree there. I already mentioned that I would like my perfect mate to be smart and I guessed that my dad would like my perfect mate to be caring. Generous and compassionate could be the same as caring in my book. While we don’t completely have the same traits in mind, my dad would like anyone that I
Perfect: adj. ˈpər-fikt 1. Entirely without any flaws, defects, or shortcomings, is the first definition you find on dictionary.com for the word (perfect). Is this actually possible to attain? Has anyone actually ever been perfect? Or is it all in the eye of the beholder? These questions are asked by almost every girl, as we dream to one day reach the unattainable. This is especially true at the tender age of fifteen, where nothing seems to be going right with our bodies and everything is changing in us. This poem stresses the fact that as everyone realizes how unrealistic this dream is, the knowledge makes no difference to the wish. Marisa de los Santos comments on this in her poem “Perfect Dress”. The use of verbose imagery, metaphors, and the simplistic approach are very effective in portraying the awkward adolescent stage of a young woman and the unrealistic dream of being perfect.
“The word perfection cannot be defined into one person or one thing. Perfection can only be told or seen in a first person view. No one will genuinely think something or someone is as perfect as another person, it’s impossible to see eye to eye with something that is as powerful and subjective as perfection.” - Jordan van der neut, 2014
It is human nature to strive for perfection, but we are striving for something that can never be reached. Nothing can be perfect according to Leo Tolstoy, who stated, “If you look for perfection, you’ll never be content”. (Tolstoy) We as humans have strived to reach perfection for many centuries now and we still have yet to achieve perfection, but this is no surprise. Wais, who wrote the paper Does Perfection Exist, said, “Perfection exists as an abstraction of our minds, but is not attainable in the physical world.” (“Does Perfection Exist”, Wais) The struggle for perfection in Aldous Huxley’s book Brave New World demonstrates that humanity can never be perfect.
ee, searching for a ‘perfect’ love has never mattered to me. It’s never been about someone who would match this silly list of criteria or be exactly who I always dreamed of. I haven’t spent my life wishing for a prince or a man to save me. I haven’t hoped that I’d find this ideal man who could have all the answers and never leave me wondering.
I know that I will never find a perfect mate so that is why I’m looking for my ideal mate. Someone who will love me unconditionally, has a great sense humor and has a relationship with God. Through this I have learned a lot from my parents about what to look for in a future husband. I also learned a lot about myself and what I truly want in a guy. I would really encourage you to write down what you look for in your ideal
...portant backgrounds and personal traits that a woman must have to be ideal. In general, she must be very devoted to her lover, keeping him in her priority and always being considerate towards him, and must not be concerned with his treatment of her. As for men, the ideal traits were defined within Genji himself and included his love for those he devoted himself to despite appearance, and the natural gifts of elegance that he was bestowed. Together, the handbook for perfect beings was written and recorded in Japanese history, and surely influenced the Heian society that is was written for.
Dr. D is a cardiothoracic surgeon. He was my hero. He may well still be, even though he is a throw-back to the days when I was more concerned about science than symbolism.
To idealize the beloved is to claim for them (or, in a sense, to endow them with) certain characteristics. The Ideal is the One--perfect, self-sufficient, unified, complete. The Ideal doesn't need anything. The consistent, static, homogeneous Sun is ideal; the changeable, inconsistent Moon is not.
Most people have indulged in the perfect wine, made love to the perfect person while possibly wearing the perfect outfit. Or have they? Is there a such thing as perfection, if so can we attain it? No. Nothing in this world is perfect because it is impossible to create perfection. According to Plato's Theory of Forms, perfection cannot exist in the physical world but only the realm of the philosophers; the ones who choose to lurk deeper in the veiled mysteries of metaphysics.
I strongly believe that there is or was someone out there who you are or were perfect for. Out of everyone in the history of humans, there was definitely someone who you would’ve been perfect for. I also think that if everyone had found their soulmates and were with them that war wouldn’t go on, that there would be peace. I think this because war wouldn’t be worth risking that you may never see your soulmate again. That one day you could wake up and find out that your soulmate had died. Nobody would want to risk losing the one person that completed them and took all the loneliness away. I also think that having a soulmate isn’t great. If we were to end up with that one person exactly like you that made them perfect it would be weird. It would be like being together with yourself or your twin. That’s gross! I mean being together with yourself wouldn’t be necessarily bad for a Narcissus, but it would be awkward. This person likes almost everything you like or they are the exact opposite than you. Either there would rarely be arguments or there would frequently be arguments. Having someone in between is the best because it also gives you the opportunity to like new things as
Our official journey began on August 2, 1997 in Las Vegas. That was our wedding day and my official entry into married life. Tim and I said, ?I do? in Clark County, Nevada. The clerk declared us 'best friends for life' in a ceremony with just the two of us. That declaration was more profound and welcomed than one any priest could have made.
The fairy tales say that once upon a time a girl met a boy; they fell in love, and lived happily ever after. Reality is not that simple. Long-term relationships force couples to get to know each other, involve themselves in each others’ worlds, fight through the hard times, and eventually develop deeper connections through distinctive stages of Knapp’s relationship model. Although I have dated the same person for over two years, the stages of our communication make it seem as though I am now dating a different person following dissolution and subsequent repair. However, even the most exhilarating of roller coaster rides develop through a combination of ups and downs, much like the stages of a relationship.
When you’re young, you don’t care about how a person looks or acts, they’re just people, friends. Growing up, you’ll find that qualities a friend has to have or can’t have become very important. It took a special kind of friend to show me that the true heart of a person is what really counts.
I am sentimental, out-going, indecisive, understanding, curious, naive, lazy, and young. I want to be ... , well a lot of things, and growing is discovering what they are. I feel people cannot see the potential within, although there is no one to blame but myself. I look to others for approval instead of to myself. I aim to please; it leads to approval. I don’t like to discuss my faults; I pity myself.
I never really thought about where my life was going. I always believed life took me where I wanted to go, I never thought that I was the one who took myself were I wanted to go. Once I entered high school I changed the way I thought. This is why I chose to go to college. I believe that college will give me the keys to unlock the doors of life. This way I can choose for myself where I go instead of someone choosing for me.