In life people have drama and struggles, and some have had challenges that have changed the people in their family as well as their relationships. Lots of people have to change and grow up to help themselves and others. My life changed because I had to grow up and had to help take on the role of being the mother in the household. At the end it taught me a good lesson and showed me my true self. It was about a year or less when my whole family found out that we had somebody very ill that we loved very much. I, on the other hand I didn’t feel like the rest of my family. I was sad, but I wasn’t as much as my family and it made me wonder if I was a bad person for feeling differently. The person that was very ill was my uncle, my aunt’s husbands …show more content…
and my cousin's father. When my uncle was very ill he was hospitalized for many months. When he finally left, he was fine for a couple days until he got sick again. Nobody knew what to do, so my aunt decided to send him to New Mexico with his sister. The reason for him leaving was that nobody had the time to take care of him, so my aunt decided to send him for his own good. The day he left, we all went to the airport and his children didn’t show emotion because they wanted to be strong for their mother. When the airplane took off my aunt started crying because she didn’t want him to leave. I wasn’t exactly sad because he wasn’t a real important person in my life. When he arrived, he was picked up by his sister and her husband at the airport. They left to her house for he could get settled in. My aunt was still upset and worried about him and what was going on, and how he was doing with his doctor’s appointment. When my aunt had time, she would go to the store and buy cards to make calls to talk to him. When she would call him she would sound sad, even upset but she wouldn’t show it because she wanted to stay strong. A couple of months had passed and there were points when he would get really sick and would get better and get sick again. Finally, my aunt decided to visit him because she had a feeling that he wasn’t going to be around for much longer. When she told me and my big cousin Stephanie that she was going to New Mexico. We where upset because she was leaving her kid and her responsibilities to us. When we told her it was unfair for us to take over she got angry at us, then started telling us that we didn’t understand because we're to young. She book a flight we knew that she was leaving so we went with her and said our goodbyes and left. When she arrived, she was picked up by my uncle’s brother in-law.
Before she left she asked if we could pay the bills that meant that we had to take care of the house bills that we lived in, and all her credit cards. During her that she was gone I took the role of the taking care of everybody in our house because my cousin, and her husband would work so I tried to help by doing everything in the house. At the same time, I had to go to school and work right after. We We would get phone calls by her asking if we where doing ok, and if everything was good. After a month passed, since she was gone her job stopped paying for her vacation leave so she had to come back because she had so much to pay. When she came back, I felt like a different person because for about a month I had to be a grown up and become an adult. When she was back with us I still kept helping because during her abuse I realized that it was time for me to become an adult and figured that I needed to try harder at school for graduation. During her abuse I would missed school many times and I wasn’t proud of that was my education that I was messing with. It was hard to balance work and try to help take care a …show more content…
family. During the time she was back, he still wasn’t better he actually got worse and needed surgery.
When she found out she started to get more worried and wanted to go back, but knew she couldn’t yet because she would not have money. When a couple of months passed, she had worked enough to get a life of abuse at work again. This time she was going with his children because at that time she was doing a little bit better. So she decided to take them for they can see him and be with him. I didn’t want to go because it felt wrong for me to go if I didn’t feel the same, so I stayed and worked and went to school and went on with my life. When they left they went for two weeks and it wasn’t so bad when they were gone because I didn’t have the responsibilities that I had when she first left so I felt free. I still had to help her pay any bills that came but that was fine with me, when they were gone at one point I felt bad because I didn’t feel the love like his children did, but I was raised by him too but I guess that's just me having the issue to love somebody and have felt. When the two weeks ended, they came back and had good news that he could probably could come back for Christmas. One day she called and was told that he got sick again and that his doctor didn’t want him traveling and wanted to keep an eye on him. That made my aunt sad and disappointed because she didn’t want to spend the most important holiday without him. When Christmas came everybody thought about and talked to
him and wished him a good Christmas. Then we left to my cousin’s house to spend the evening and left after a couple of hours. When the months passed it started to get harder for my aunt and us to have hope that he would get better. After many surgeries’ he did, but he could still not travel they were glade that he was in the path of getting better it gave them hope again. This bump that my family had taught me a lot it showed me how I reacted to things fro example responsibilities and how I handled them. As well it made me grow up and take care of things and made me a better person. Life is too short so making a difference in your life is better for you and everybody in it.
Life can always change direction. We can have certain obstacles that challenge us. Sometimes this makes us stronger and we can always learn through these times. We always have
The story about I Martranika Gross, called changing my life. It all begin with many ideals that I had in mind to become while changing my life so my daughter will fix in. First was continue my education at Strayer University and a journey to follow. Next, becoming a role model with a pathway lay out for my daughter, a showing her not to stay you can’t to become successful. Finally, overcome obstacles first you have to have faith within yourself, and the key word is knowledge.
around Tawas about a three hour's drive from our houses, it was the best we could find
There are various changes that can occur in an individual’s life. Some variations are very little and would not affect your lifecycle very greatly. Nevertheless, other events could be very significant and could change a person’s entire life, such as marrying, giving birth to the baby, or losing someone special. The important event that transformed my life is coming to the United States of America to get education and to study. When I first arrived in this country, I comprehended that an incredible change would happen in my life both mentally and physically. After living more than one year in the United States, I definitely believe that moving to the United States is an advantageous change for me. This change offers me an opportunity to live a healthy lifestyle as well as a new way of thinking that are significant for me and the most importantly it provided me a better education in a simple way.
In 1984 Ronald Reagan was President of the United States. Prince’s song When Doves Cry was number one on the Top Hits chart. On a hot, summer night my mother goes into labor with her third child. At 12:18am on August 25, 1984 I was born to Aubrey and Betty Hall in a Dallas hospital. My mother chose to name me Heather after the Scottish Heather flower referencing our Scottish heritage. My father picked my middle name, Jane, after his favorite grandmother. I was born into a loving family consisting of a father, mother, sister, and brother. A few years later our family of five turns into a family of eight with the births of another sister and two more brothers. Three boys and three girls, we were practically the Brady Bunch. There has been so
Why did she have to leave me to cope with all this on my own? It is so
...child. I had no choice but to shape up and make a way for the both of us. Having a child made me realize that life is not all fun and games as my mother would say. I learned that in life there are responsibilities. I truly believe that had I not had a child at an early age, I would still be a wild absentminded party girl and who knows what else may have happened.
Some people, some great people deserve to live forever, or at least die in a worthy or in a fulfilling way. I just got the short end of the bargain, I just got one of the worst things on this earth, cancer. Anyone can get the disease, but the way I see it, it seems unfair and unruly that pure souls could end up with a painful and undeserving demise. Unfortunately, I was one of those pure souls.
Next week is the five year anniversary of my dads passing. He went to be with the Lord on June 14th. Seven days shy of his birthday. [Dad did everything in seven’s, it was his favorite number.] When this popped up in my Facebook Memories this morning, I started thinking about the many different examples my parents sat for me growing up. Especially the ones my father sat. I spent far more time with my mom, but the time I spent with dad was always special. Dad really did teach by example. I can remember shopping as a family. Kids want to touch everything. Dad always told me to put my hands in my pockets. If I didn’t have pockets, I was to put my arms behind my back and hold my wrist. He made sure he did whatever it was I had to do. He also told
I never would have imagined feeling like an outsider in my own home. Unfortunately I wouldn’t even go as far as considering my current home as “my home.” I live in a house with eight people and two dogs and for some, that might not even be slightly overwhelming, but for me it is. I try to keep my heart open about the situation, but I always end up feeling like I don’t belong. Given the circumstances of my situation, I would say life definitely turned out better than what I initially expected, but I was left feeling like a “stranger in a village” having to live with a family that is nothing like my own.
One thing that really bothers me is how much I changed. I used to play games all day, not focus on school, wouldn't get in serious trouble, and was very innocent compared to my present day self. There are cons and pros of my past self compared to how I am currently. I am more happy of how I am now then I am before. As time changes, so do I and I can not stop that. What’s done has already been done and can’t be changed so you always have to look towards the future and never the past. The past will not definite who you are today unless you let it. I would have never expect that I would be transferred to a continuation high school in my freshman year. It is a bad thing to many people, but I am thankful that I am sent to it because I will learn
It was extraordinary, indescribable, breathtaking. I looked out of the window next to me, and before my eyes was the view of a clear, blue sky, covered in sheets of snowy, white clouds. Slowly we began descending through them, revealing the expanse of blue water, stretching in every direction of the horizon. In the far right I could see a glimpse of main land, but not just any land, India. It was there and then, that I knew my life would be changed forever.
Many changes for the good and some were bad but, there were some learning experiences that help make me a better person. The events in my life, was dealing with the Birth and The Death of my first daughter.
At the age of 11, my parents decided to reunite, and this became my lifelong struggle with trust, mistrust and development of strength and courage to achieve my dreams and goals in life. My mother continued to work long, hard hours while my father golfed, gambled and drank, to what most people would consider “the extreme”. During my school years, I ran our household while my mom worked. I made sure the house was clean and dinner was always on the table for my father, which left no time for a social life. My dad was abusive towards my mom and I would feel helpless as I listened from my room to him physically and mentally abusing her. After many years of not having the courage to help her, I finally at the age of 16 gave her an ultimatum. Either she leaves the abusive relationship or I would leave, so I would not have to endear the pain of it any longer.
I never really thought about where my life was going. I always believed life took me where I wanted to go, I never thought that I was the one who took myself were I wanted to go. Once I entered high school I changed the way I thought. This is why I chose to go to college. I believe that college will give me the keys to unlock the doors of life. This way I can choose for myself where I go instead of someone choosing for me.