Marissa Larkins English 12, Period 6
College Admissions Essay Clements
Option #2: The lessons we take from failure can be fundamental to later success. Recount an incident or time when you experienced failure. How did it affect you, and what did you learn from the experience?
“Marissa, keep trying, it’ll get better through time. You just have to keep at it.”
I stopped talking and tried saying the sentence again and again and then quit and gave up.
When I started talking and putting together phrases and sentences at age three it was determined by the doctors I had a slight speech impediment. The reason given for this was because of the many issues I had started having with my ears. I was having constant and severe ear infections
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to the point where I was hearing like I was underwater. For example, when someone would go underwater and try to talk to you, you would see they were trying to talk to you, but you couldn't make out what they were trying to say. That was me trying to hear what people were saying on a daily basis. With my hearing the way it was my speech was bad enough where I was given a speech pathologist in head start that came to my house three times a week Monday through Friday. She would have me do speech exercises and have me say my words slowly so I could pronounce the right letters and sounds in the correct sequencing. I remember getting angry and yelling and no one could understand what i was saying because my words would sound like another language. I’d tell my therapist “done,” and not want to try anymore. With my age my pathologist would try to push me the best she could until our session was over. My speech had little to no improvement and I thought, “What is so wrong with the way I talk that it needs to be fixed?” When I went into the elementary school my pathologist had to be changed to the school pathologist, however, I still continued the sessions three days a week.
While my ears continued to get worse, to the point where they would bleed in class, I still tried my best at doing what the pathologist told me to do even if there was no improvement. My new pathologist insisted on keeping me out of a special education class. She felt that when my hearing was fixed and I heard what the other kids were talking like that my speech impediment would go away. She was partially correct. When my hearing was fixed around age five I heard the way the other kids talked and I still spoke the only way I knew how. I realized everyone wasn’t talking like me and I felt different. I began getting picked on and insulted every day at school and I never wanted to go back. One day when I got home I went to my mother and started crying, “I’m never going to be normal, I’m never going to be like them. I give up!” What my mother said next may have changed my whole life.
“What if you're not normal? What if you're not like the rest of them? Your father and I would still love you just the same. No one is supposed to be like anyone else, everyone is different. There is never a normal person. What matters right now at this moment is that you’re trying and you don’t give up, and if it doesn’t improve then so be
it.” I kept trying harder and harder each day at therapy and by seven my speech impediment had disappeared, two years after my hearing was fixed. Experincing several accounts of failure throughout those years taught me a life lesson, never give up, never say can’t, always persevere through life and its obstacles, and to think that anything is possible. Anyone who knows me now would never thought that I had had a speech impediment when I was younger. Whenever I feel like giving up on anything I think back to the way I felt ten years ago when it felt like a huge burden was lifted off my shoulders. I never understood what my mother had meant by saying, “What if you're not normal? What if you're not like the rest of them? Your father and I would still love you just the same. No one is supposed to be like anyone else, everyone is different. There is never a normal person.” Now that I’m older I realize everyone is different and unique in their own personal ways and life would be boring if they were the ideal normal and didn’t have their flaws. B.F. Skinner once said, “ A failure is not always a mistake. It may simply be the best one can do under the circumstances. The real mistake is to stop trying.” If it wasn’t for this experience in my life I would not be the person I am today. I wouldn’t know how to persevere through the pain, or even stay determined at a simple task. To stop trying may be the worst thing a person could ever do, because the results and lessons accounted from success and achievement may be endless.
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