I am a feminist. In more specific terms, I am a person who supports feminism. In even more specific terms, I am a supporter of the belief that men and women should have equal rights and opportunities; be it economic, political, or social. So why is it whenever I utter the words, “I am a feminist,” I am met with looks of disgust, confusion and shock? Why do these words cause so much discomfort? What, for crying out loud, is the big deal with the F word?
The image most people have of feminists is a man-hating, bra-burning revolutionary screaming at the top of her lungs at anything that doesn’t place women at the forefront. It is necessary for people to understand that this stereotype is offensive and impedes the progress of true equality.
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Much of what I experienced in my youth helped me comprehend who I was as both a feminist and a person. I was not always this resolute and unyielding. I was very withdrawn during my preteen years, never speaking unless spoken to and deathly shy around groups. I preferred to immerse myself in the music that I listened to. It was then that I came into contact with feminism the same way a lot of my peers did— through the discography of Sleater-Kinney. They were at the forefront of the riot grrrl movement: a punk rock subculture that integrated feminism and politics into its music. I found myself enraptured by their blend of social awareness and hardcore punk. It was love at first sight. I dove into riot grrrl culture wholeheartedly, much to the bewilderment of my conservative parents, who were often roped into driving me to book signings and underground shows. I traveled between Washington, Baltimore and New York, chasing down rare vinyl, eager to add to my collection. I found a community of people with whom I felt a distinct kinship with; we listened to the same music and shared the same beliefs. It was exhilarating to finally feel like I was a part of something much larger than myself. Riot grrrl naturally segued into feminism for me.
I wanted the liberty to be able to pursue my passions without feeling restricted due to my gender. It just so happened that the music I was listening to was also advocating this. The music that came with the riot grrrl movement was unapologetic; it was what it was. So why shouldn’t I feel the same way?
During the time of my life I now affectionately refer to as PSK (pre-Sleater-Kinney), I felt as though my thoughts were not important or valid. I kept everything inside, believing that no one could possibly want to know my point of view. Riot grrrl gave me an outlet. It taught me not to be afraid to express myself and that it was perfectly fine to be myself, regardless of how my peers reacted.
PSK-me probably would have been petrified when a male classmate recently asked me why I was a feminist and would associate myself with such a notion. There’s a good chance she would’ve just clammed up and kept her head down. However, I understand that the word “feminist” is not a dirty word and that a misguided stigma is against it among today’s youth. So I asked my classmate a series of questions. When I asked if women should be allowed to vote, he nodded his head and said yes. When I asked if women should receive the same wages as men, he again said yes. So as I questioned him more, I found that he agreed with the foundations of feminist
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“I have no idea what a feminist is although I have heard the term before,” said Stewart. I told her not to feel bad because I did not know the meaning of the term until I took the class and gave her bell hooks’ definition. Feminism is a movement to end sexism, sexist exploitation, and oppression. Although they do not have to be an activist, they should be pro-choice. “With that being said I don’t consider myself a feminist but I am pro-choice. I give advice and let others learn from experience. A person is going to do what they want so I don’t push my opinion off on others.” While others have a clue to what a feminist is but do not fully understand their purpose. “I think a feminist is someone who wants more equal rights for women but take it to the extreme,” said Nia. I explained to her that a feminist does not have to be an extreme activist. Her response was “I still don’t consider myself a feminist because I don’t really care about trying to make a change for women’s rights. I think it’s as good as it is going to get,” said
In this case women are stuck where in no matter how they act or how they dress, they end up put into a label they do not necessarily belong in. The main goal of feminism is to create equality for women and fight against the labels put on them. Though throughout time feminism itself has been given a negative label. In today 's society women do not want to be referred to as feminists from fear of being labeled as a bitter man hating woman. This is definitely amplified in media today. Roxane Gay, author of Bad Feminist, brings up the idea of the essential feminist and where it suggests,” anger, humorlessness, militancy, unwavering principles, and a prescribed set of rules for how to be a proper feminist woman” (169). This fear of being labeled a feminist not only comes from fear of being thought of as angry or humorless, but from being attacked for not being the “proper feminist woman”.
The image that is usually placed with feminism is that of a rabid, bra-burning, lesbian running around disclaiming the patriarchy. It could be that of a mid-century housewife complaining about how her only career choices are between teacher and secretary, or even of a woman with a sash and banner walking in front of the White House; preaching about her right to vote. However, this isn't necessarily the case. Ever since the rise of the internet, in the late 20th Century, feminism has had a revival causing it to grow in popularity and spread across forums everywhere. Women are joining this “third wave” movement to bring an end to the societal injustices that still plague the gender today (qtd. in Haslanger et al.). Feminism currently represents much more than it did in its infantile stage, having evolved to include relevant issues that affect every woman in today’s subordinating world. Issues such as rape culture, slut shaming, abortion and the wage gap have all been adapted into the feminist agenda with the hope that, as a united force, women could bring change to a misogynist society. The bra burning days are over, and feminism is on a rise, bringing light to issues that need to be addressed.
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