Personal Narrative Essay: Why I Cut My Haircut

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I remember wincing as the scissors sliced through my curls and fell to the floor. Not only was 8 inches of my hair gone but, so was a security blanket I hid behind up to that point. In the summer before my sophomore year I decided to get a simple haircut, little did I know that something so elementary would effect me in such a great way. In today’s society, women especially are held to high beauty standards, we're told we should dress a certain and our hair should be long and silky. Usually, when us girls cut our hair people always assume we’ve gone through an existential crisis of sorts. And, while going through major life change is a perfectly reasonable reason to do something drastic, I feel that society often forgets that women are allowed …show more content…

The reason why I wanted to cut my hair was because I felt like I needed something new. I had my long hair, styled in the same way since I could remember. Not to mention, that for the longest time I was strictly against cutting my hair. So with confidence, I thought it was about time I waved my comfort zone goodbye. I no longer wanted to be a soft spoken girl that allowed a societal box to restrict what I felt I could do with myself; I was going to break away from the pressure that I was facing and allow myself the ability to express myself freely. As I planted myself in the hairdresser’s chair; my palms grew sweaty, I worried that I was going to regret my decision. Many individuals told me I was going to cry once my hair was gone, but to my satisfaction, I remember staring at the pile of the hair on the ground and feeling overjoyed that the step I had just taken was going to be the first of many self-fulling achievements. After the “big chop”, I felt a weight lifted off my shoulders, in both a physical and metaphorical way. I felt free to be a more bold person, whether that was expressed in the way I dressed or how I acted; I no longer felt the need to hide behind my hair and allow others to tell me how to look. With my short hair came confidence that motivated me to explore new opportunities with myself and the world around me. Not to mention, that not having to take extra time in

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