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I was twelve years old when I was hit with devastating news. My dad called me at a peculiar time while I was at the mall. He informed me that my grandpa had died of a heart-attack; the news was devastating. Unlike some people, I had a fervent relationship with my grandpa. I have fond memories of him teaching me how to do simple but invaluable things, such as how to tie my shoes, how to fish, and how to shoot a rifle. He was more than my grandfather; he was my best friend. His death appalled me, especially because I had no preparation for his departure; it came completely out of the blue. I missed school for a few days prior to his funeral; I did nothing but grieve. My family and I went to his funeral, but it didn’t help much with my grieving.
Growing up as an only child I made out pretty well. You almost can’t help but be spoiled by your parents in some way. And I must admit that I enjoyed it; my own room, T.V., computer, stereo, all the material possessions that I had. But there was one event in my life that would change the way that I looked at these things and realized that you can’t take these things for granted and that’s not what life is about.
I remember vividly the weekends at his house. Sitting on his lap, going to wrestling matches, walking down the street or through a park--these were things I did with Grandpa. I wasn't just a kid to him: I was his granddaughter, and I was special. He was special too.
When I look at my grandpa I still see the man who would invent songs to entertain me on our eight hour road trips to Mammoth. I see the man who my six year old self admired for
This is the experience that changed my life. Now this did not happen years and years ago, and in fact I still feel the event every day. The death of my grandfather was felt all through my family, and I am still not sure if I am completely over it. I remember the day like it happened only moments ago, all though it been almost a year now. The anger and the confusion of his death was so shocking, but the events leading to it seem more important than ever.
I was always very close to my maternal grandmother. Gram was the sweetest, most gentle person that I had ever met. My maternal grandfather had rheumatoid arthritis and had very limited mobility. Grandmom would help bathe grandpop and lift him into and out of bed. Grandmom never complained about taking care of him, even though at times he was not very pleasant.
I wasn’t prepared for something so traumatic. I had always pictured my papa in the stands at my high school graduation, getting to meet my first boyfriend, helping me learn how to drive for the first time, attending my college graduation, and most importantly, watching my walk down the aisle. I hadn’t prepared myself for the realization that he could very possibly miss every single one of those milestones in my life. It was hard for me to accept the fact that he was gone, and I still find myself wondering why everyone else my age was given the opportunity to have their grandfathers watch them become the adults that they helped to create. Yes, losing my papa was the most heartbreaking things I have ever experienced in my life so far, but I also believe that it has taught me some very valuable life lessons.
I remember exactly when my dad called my sister and me in the living room to tell us the news. My dad’s face was a face I had never seen before, looked as pale as ice and chocked like if he had seen a ghost. I could see there was something wrong but nothing could have prepared me for that kind of news. The words came out and I thought at first it was a joke. I asked him the question and already knew the answer. My sister started crying and my dad fell in tears too. I couldn’t cry, just wouldn’t come out, I was too stunned by the horrible news.
I open my eyes on a sandy beach, wet, damp and hurt. I slowly push myself off the ground and look around myself. The sun is hot and I am parched. The only thing I have with me is my backpack, which only has gum, crackers, books and my handheld video game. I look next to my brother on the sand, probably in the same boat as me. My name is Joseph Oscar and I am stranded.
It was the storytelling part of law that fascinated Sarah. The challenge of finding a way of turning the ‘accused’ into a person, someone real and vulnerable; someone that the judge and jury – if there was a jury - would warm to and empathise with. There was a way of presenting the evidence, the arguments that gave the court a sense of the person beyond the crime, before the crime; storytelling was what made the difference between a good barrister and a mediocre one. The prosecution would produce victim statements from the dead girl’s parents and her sister, the grandparents, the aunts and uncles and friends. These would be sad accounts. Narratives that would fill the courtroom with grief and with anger, that would make no sentence seem long
This entire week, the young boy had been acting awfully strange. Not in a bad way, I just don’t think he has ever been this nice to me. I had begun to think maybe something was wrong, something was up, but I couldn’t think of anything, he was only being nice. Although, every night around the same time, every time, I think I'm hearing something. I had tried to think of a rational reason that I was hearing things, maybe a mouse. But no, every night this past week I hear my door opening. Maybe I’m just becoming senile and paranoid, but it feels so real. I can feel the cold air come in from the outside, and it wakes me. Maybe I am becoming senile and paranoid, I sound like a madman! I’ve began to think maybe it is the young boy, spying on me? I’m not sure, I’m almost positive the young boy doesn’t have anything against me, from every encounter that I can recall, I have been nothing but nice to him!
When I first heard of my dad dying, it made me sad. I was ten or eleven, not old enough yet to understand, why someone would want to take their own life. I was crushed when it happened. It was like a part of me was missing, like someone had ripped my heart out and laid a direct attack on me.
It was a warm fall day after school when my mom told my siblings and I the bad news. When we got home and walked up the front steps to our porch, my mom opened the door and gave us a tight hug. We were all nervous about what my parents were about to tell us. I could see that my mom’s eyes looked wet from crying. They told us to sit down, and we couldn’t have been prepared for this news.
My ability as a leader, my strength of faith, and my stubbornness come from my Grandpa. My Grandpa has shaped my life in various ways, whether he was praising or disciplining me. Some of my favorite memories of all time are of the times I spent with my grandpa. I called him “Pap”. He loved me dearly and spoiled me rotten.
I hid between my mother’s legs, timidly looking at the other kids. I let my big chocolate eyes take in the sight in front of me. Kids were running around while squealing in their childish voices. It was a blur of colors and sounds, as little kids around my age enjoyed their play time. They seemed to be wearing whatever they found comfortable, enjoying the freedom from wearing a boring uniform. The school itself was quite small compared to former primary school. My mom nudged me as my dad slowly introduced himself to my new teacher. She had rosy cheeks, blonde hair that reached her shoulders, Harry Potter style glasses resting on her nose, and a warm, welcoming smile. She introduced herself as Ms. Strehl and welcomed me into her class, B3.
There is nothing more painful than losing someone that you love. As a child, the concept of death is something that I was confronted with at the young age of 5. The death of my grandfather and best friend shaped my childhood and impacted all of my actions from that moment forward.