Patty Bedore had an interesting four years of college to say the least. She endured a lot of ups and downs along the way. She went to two different colleges in her 4 years. Those two colleges were the University of Illinois and Rush Nursing School. When asked why she attended these two schools, she stated, “I went to U of I because my dad went there and I wanted to follow in his footsteps, and I went to Rush because U of I didn’t have a nursing program, and if I chose to stay enrolled there I would have to take a 3 year nursing program at Illinois-Chicago,and I was going into my junior year, so I didn’t want to take an extra year of college, and Rush had a two year Nursing Degree program, and it wasn’t too far away from where I lived, so …show more content…
I decided to go there.” Looking back, my mom regrets going into nursing school, when asked if she made any regrettable decisions, she answered, “I should have been a teacher. Ever since I was a little kid I had wanted to be a teacher, so I don’t really know why I went into nursing school instead of being a teacher.” Then things switched to a happy note, as when asked what her favorite part of college was, my mom answered by saying, “The idea of being on my own and making my own decisions, because I didn’t feel like I had very much freedom when I lived with my parents, specifically my mom was a very controlling person,who wanted her kids to make a lot of decisions for her, so God bless my parents, but it was a nice fresh breath of air to live on my own and make my own decisions.” As you can probably tell, my mom definitely enjoyed the freedom that came with living on her own. However, freedom comes with a lot of responsibility, as my mom knows, as when asked what helped her mature the most, she said, “Making decisions completely on my own with no help from my parents was very liberating, but also quite scary and worrying to me, because as I stated earlier, my parents were very controlling, so I didn’t have much experience at all with making decisions on my own.” I was still wondering what made her want to go to college over starting a career after high school, and when I asked my mom responded by saying, “My dad did it and I went to a college prep high school, which actually meant something back then, so I never even considered not going to college.” I then started to ask some fun questions, one of them being what her favorite midnight snack/drink was, and she responded by saying “My favorite midnight snack was pizza, mainly because there was a place on campus that had ridiculously cheap pizza, and my favorite midnight drink was Diet Coke, because I always enjoyed the taste of it more than regular Coke, and it helped keep me and my roommates awake so we could study if we had an exam the next day.” After hearing that she drank the Diet Coke late at night to study for exams the next day, I decided to ask whether she was a bookworm or a slacker, and she answered with, “I was kind of in between.
I wasn’t a total bookworm, and I definitely could have studied more, but I wasn’t a slacker, as I still studied a decent amount.” I was wondering what the toughest part of college was for my mom, so I asked, and she responded, “The toughest part of college for me was the clinicals at Rush, because the professor I had for them was awful, and that's heavily sugar-coated.” There were some things she thought about this teacher that I have decided not to repeat, as they were not sugar-coated. College did change my mom, and definitely for the better, as I expected the answer to be when I asked how college changed her, and she responded with, “College makes you learn how to accept other people and other cultures that were different from what you had experienced your whole life within your family, where your culture is the only one that exists within your family, with a few exceptions here and there, as it also made you realize not everyone was like you, people don’t always do things the way you do, or react to things the same way you do, which is an extremely beneficial learning experience.” My mom had a role model in college, one that confused me when she said it, as it does not really pertain to college, as when asked she responded by saying, “My role model in college, as it is today, was Mother
Teresa. The things she did in life were inspirational, and made me realize that there are more important things in life than school, which took a lot of the stress away when I realized I didn’t have to do perfect in college to be successful in life, and that one negative thing happening isn’t the end of the world, and I need to just learn from that negative and move on.” College affected my mom’s coming of age by helping her mature, and helping her realize what was most important in life, as she experienced new things, learned how to make decisions without the help of her parents, and realized that you shouldn’t freak out over little things, but that you should use them as learning points and motivation to do better the next time. I enjoyed interviewing my mom because I got to learn a lot about her, and I actually learned a few things I can use in the future if I am ever stressed or if I am not sure what to do in a situation, making this interview very much worth the while.
Rhetorical Précis: In Michelle Adams’s article, “Is College Worth It (2013),” explores the two side of college worthiness. She provided evidence to
Carol Dweck 's piece "Brainology" and Rebecca Cox "The Student Fear Factor" have changed my pursuit towards my academic goals because it changes the mindset on how I approach any aspect in my everyday life, including work, but also how I will be praising the children whom I work with. This is because I am learning new approaches on how I should handle my college life and apply it to my daily life. Both of these pieces seem to have spoken to me because I get severe anxiety and reading what other students went through made me realize that I don’t have college life as bad as many students do. Instead of quitting (like most first time college students do), I will keep pursuing my associate’s degree in child development. I know that reading these
When you think of a typical college student you may think of a young adult around 18 to 22 years old. You may also think of someone with little world experience that’s off on their own for the first time in their short life. Surprisingly, there has been a recent phenomenon with an increase in older people now attending post-secondary education, specifically the baby boomer generation. Libby Sander, a staff reporter at the Chronicle of Higher Education, explores this topic in an article called “Blue-Collar Boomers Take Work Ethic to College” (782). Sander combines the use of all three rhetorical appeals throughout her article to successfully argue that the wave of baby boomers enrolled in postsecondary education is changing the perception
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In Jennine Crucet’s story, “Taking My Parents to College” she really explains to the reader how challenging it was leaving home and starting a new chapter in her life. When the author and her family first arrived to Cornell University, they were sitting there when the dean ended his speech with: “Now, parents, please: Go!” Being a first generation college student Crucet nor her family had any idea that they were not supposed to stay for orientation and had to leave her as soon as they got her settled in. They did not even have all the right materials and supplies that she needed to begin with by stating, “Every afternoon that week, we had to go back to the only department store we could find, the now-defunct Ames, for some stupid thing we hadn’t known was a necessity, something not in our budget: shower shoes, extra-long twin sheets, mesh laundry bags.” Both Crucet and I suffered from similar issues during our first few weeks on our new journey in college and we both had no idea what was ahead of us.
Parents are forcing students to take classes they don’t want, leaving the student dull and unheard. Parents focus their kids to take challenging classes in order to satisfy their fear of the child getting into a good college. Students are told by parents and the school system that they must take this challenging class and extracurricular just meet ‘the standard quota” but reality it’s not true. For instance, Zinsser’s did a survey on Yale students and asked the students a question about their parental guidance and why they follow it. The results were scary, most students stated: “well my parents want me to be a doctor… They’re paying all this money….” (Zinsser
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As a nurse seeking my bachelor in nursing I have a lot of mentors in my career path. The person I choose to interview is my mentor name, Karen. In the process of her nursing career, she was influenced by her mentor to continue her education, in women's health because of her passion for young teens. Karen started her career in nursing at Grand Valley State University where she earned a Bachelor Degree in nursing. After having her BSN for many years, Karen decision to continue her education at Michigan State University where she received a Master degree in Nursing.
However, Mrs. Ramirez’s dreams, goals, and passions motivated her to go above and beyond what she had already accomplished. After graduating from Portland State University as a
When I hear the word college, I automatically think of books, education, and learning. When I reflect on the reasons why I go to college, the first thing that comes to mind is my mother. The more I think about it, the more I realize the reason why I attend college is to not only learn, but create a path to where I want to head in life. I attend college to seek the best path ahead and work hard in order to give back to the most ambitious woman I know, my mother.
Throughout people’s lives, many are tested, in which they are pushed to their own limits. These personal experiences help the person to realize what makes them different from others, what makes them unique and stand out from the crowd. Even, sometimes with these experiences, people learn more about themselves, push themselves to their limit and test their abilities to work under pressure and other times adapt. In my case, the most important experience that I went through that helped me develop skills that I use to excel in my academics is something that most people don’t go through until late in life, the loss of a parent, in this case, my mother.
Throughout my experience in the link I have learned to appreciate any help I received. When I entered College for the first time, I wanted to know how it feels to have to think critically, and to be an independent student. I wanted to know what the true meaning of “working hard” actually meant. In high school I passed without attending my classes, but I knew it won’t be the same in college. I was ready to challenge myself to be on top of my game and get straight A’s. Now that the semester has ended I have realized the challenge to get straight A’s was a lot harder than I thought. I wasn’t used to not receiving a great deal of help when I needed it, I thought being independent and thinking for my-self would be trouble-free. However, college has taught me to grow up, and to stop comparing college to high school.
After only being at The University of Akron for three weeks, I dropped two classes. Shortly after dropping those classes, I received an email from my advisor asking to schedule an appointment. While in my academic advisors office, she proceeded to tell me that most students who drop two or more classes tend to not graduate. These words frightened me and even made me regret the decision to attend college as a whole. I sat there and thought about how disappointed my family would be and wondered if I would be successful in college. Since then, I have learned that there is a lot more to being successful
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At the age of 36, mom decided to return to college to obtain her nursing degree. This wasn’t a hard decision for her to make. In April before she enrolled in school, my great grandmother passed away. This major dilemma played a major role in mom’s return to school. She had taken care of my great grandmother for months before she passed away, and decided that she wanted to make an impact on the lives of geriatrics.