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For this part of the oral history project, I continued to interview my grandmother, Rachel. We had our interview in the living room of my apartment and this time the interview was more casual and relaxed than the first interview. The atmosphere was happy as Rachel had been preparing for our interview throughout the whole week before. I was equally looking forward to continuing our conversation about her life. Leading into this interview I was feeling hesitant as I knew more about this period of my grandmother’s life. I knew she went through some rough times in her life and I was wondering how far she would be willing to discuss those feelings. My grandmother was very open and honest about her personal experiences during her young
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The most recognizable aspect of her young adulthood was her development of her many social roles. According to the text, the most significant aspect of adult socialization is acquisition of social roles. My grandmother has had many role changes throughout her life and I can see that she has maintained an activist theory approach in her life. From our discussion during the interview we talked about her career and she described how she was always active or busy with the community and the people around her. During her young adulthood, my grandmother maintained many aspects of social relationships. The first aspect of a social relationship was her marriage and her median family that formed her social support. The second aspect of a social relationship was the companionship she had with her husband, Willis, who she had known since they were little kids. The third and final aspect of a social relationship was the negative interactions that she had to deal with in her daily work as a …show more content…
I will apply this knowledge of what I learned about social roles and relationships outside of this class by recognizing how the many social roles and relationships of one’s life could impact how that individual is today. For example, when I talk with my other grandmother I can be more understanding of how she is today knowing that her social roles and relationships throughout her life were not as steady and clear. This may have impacted the way she interacts with others today; as her social support, companionship, and negative interactions have been either absent, pushed away, or taken away from
... current one. I understand that it is important to act a certain way around a boss, colleagues, or different groups of friends, but in this book, it is evident that social conventions are very important in almost every relationship, excluding family. In fact, I think that family is only excluded because a person is who they are mainly because of their upbringing; essentially, they reflect the same characteristics and behaviors as their families. The book has caused me to believe that social conventions may play a large role in how I or my partner behaves in our relationship. Thus, my opinion on social conventions has been reinforced, adding romantic relationships to the list of social groups I must act a certain way in. Not only do social conventions encompass most relationships, but I now believe it also includes romantic relationships that may lead to marriage.
Everyone had influenced by their surrounding. Your personal identities and choices in life are based on the role of the relationship you have with others. This helps you to realize who you are and what you need in the life. The combination of all you learns come together to give you a clear idea of what your needs, values, and belief in this life. Finally, it is clear that the role of relationship play an important role in the framework of our personal identities.
The subject of this paper is Liz, a 52-year old, 1.5 generation female immigrant from Hong Kong. What this means is that she immigrated to the United States when she was a child, around 7-years old (Feliciano Lec. 1/4/2016). As a child of a family that consists of five siblings and two parents that did not speak any English prior to immigrating, the focus of this paper will be on the legal processes that the family went through to become legal immigrants and the various factors that aided in her path towards assimilation.
Symbolic Interactionism, which is regarded as the most influential family theory, claims that people’s behavior is based on meanings, and that these meanings are acquired through social interaction. This theory functions under the assumption that society precedes the individual. This means that society influences the individual, not the other way around, which is shown in this theory by society giving the individual meaning to symbols through socialization. One important concept of this theory is the development of self. There is the social self which refers to an individual's desire to be accepted and fit in. There is also the looking glass self, which refers to the perceptions an individual has about themselves based on others’ perceptions. This develops in three steps: anticipating how others will judge you, interacting with others, and using the feedback they provide. Roles are another important concept in this theory. Roles refer to the specific duties or traits that are applied to a group of people in society. With different roles comes different expectations, and these expectations can change over time and in different situations. The clarity of the expectations associated with a particular role affects the enactment of a role. If the individual fully understands the duties and expectations of the role they are in, the higher quality of role enactment they will experience. In addition, the more individuals, who occupy the same role, are in consensus with each other about the expectations of the role, the less likely an individual is to experience role
Relationships mold people's thoughts and the way they live their lives. One very important relationship is the relationship between parents and their children. Parents are the first teachers of children. The most significant lesson one learns from them is love. When a baby is first born it instantly will feel love from the mother. A mother loves and nurtures her baby while it is still in her womb making the relationship between a mother and her child stronger than any other relationship. Only a woman can nurture her baby by using only her body. The bond between the mother and daughter is even more intense because they share the same femininity. A mother and daughter can bond like no other. Girls grow up looking up to their mother and wanting to resemble them when they grow up. Daughters seek their mother's to give them advice when they need help throughout their lives. When a girl is struck with a problem the first person she will turn to would be her mother. However some women are unable to have strong relationships with their mothers, this can be seen in then novel The Kitchen God's Wife by Amy Tan. Unfortunately Jiang Weili wasn't able to have a powerful relationship with her mother. Because of her mothers absence Jiang Weili wasn't able to find her own identity and isn't able to have a productive relationship with her daughter. Pearl feels alienated from her mother however, Jiang Weili only believes she is doing the best for her daughter. Pearl and Winnie prove that the mother daughter relationship is essential for a girl to become a woman. The lack of such a relationship is severely detrimental to a girl growing up.
Coming into this class I was not sure what to expect. I thought that I knew pretty much everything I needed to know about society and social relationships, but I couldn’t have been more wrong. I have always had my own personal thoughts on how people in society treat each other, but after taking this class it has allowed me to expand my opinions based on the facts that have occurred throughout history.
The majority of individuals have acquired their own ideas surrounding what the social structure of a family is. Yet, whilst each individual experiences family life in a variety of ways, we as people cannot fathom how our experiences exist, without obtaining a broad understanding of how our personal relationships integrate into a more prodigious social context. C. Wright Mills has demonstrated this idea by inventing the sociological imagination, defined as "the ability to recognize how apparently personal issues reflect broader social structures, at least partly" (Mills 1959, 15) (Brinkerhoff 2). This concept allows us to recognize that a handful of our personal hardships are conventional instances that occur regularly within a functioning society.
The bond between a mother and her daughter is a relationship that will be developed on a stronger level since there is no father figure whom the daughter can relate to, this is an effect mentioned about the absence of fathers (The effects of single parenting on children, 2011, Aug 3). The effect takes place because mother and daughter have the opportunity to participate in shared responsibilities which will help them to grow as individuals. The daughter will develop characteristics such as teamwork, healthy work ethic and self-confidence which are three (3) important character traits that will serve her well into adulthood. Mothers can show their daughters what it is to be independent and strong instead of depending on a man to do everything. The relationship between m...
The Interactional view is based on systems theory and was developed by Paul Waltzawick. Waltzawick was a part of the Palo Alto group because he was one of twenty scholars and therapists who was inspired by, and worked with anthropologist Gregory Bateson. The Palo Alto group does not focus on why a person acts a certain way, instead the focus is on how that behavior affects everyone in the group (Griffin, 2012, p.182). “Family system is an autonomous, mutually dependent network of feedback loops guided by members’ rules; the behavior of each person affects and is affected by the behavior of another” (Griffin, 2012, p.182). The Interactional view theory postulates that relationships within a family system are interrelated. The theory infers that relationships do not come together or fall apart because of one individual. A popular song, “Stick to the Status Quo”, reflects the theme of the theory. In essence, everyone needs to continue playing the role they are use to; if they do, then things will not change and everything will continue as is. Sticking to the status quo can also be referred to as homeostasis. A keen analysis of the Interactional Theory places my mother and I at the heart of the theory.
Having relationships is a great outlet for helping find one’s identity. A relationship between parent and child teaches respect. “I did something I never had done before: hugged Maggie to me, then dragged her on into the room, snatched the quilts out of Miss Wangero’s hands dumped them into Maggie’s lap (70).� Not only do relationships teach one about respect it also teaches discipline. Having discipline makes one have a better character, it able one to become more in touch with oneself and one’s history. Relationship amongst siblings is also a way of finding and understanding one’s history. This relationship shows one how to care for someone. If the relationship among sibling is not strong than it will divide a family and stray away from family values. “Maggie can’t appreciate these quilts, she’d probably be backward enough to put them to everyday use (70).� These quotes are prime examples of relationship. It
During the whole interview she was making funny remarks and her granddaughter and her kept making fun of each other. That’s another reason I really enjoyed the interview. I didn’t felt like it was an interview, I felt like I was talking to my grandma and hearing stories about her life and experiences. The interview environment was really friendly and they made me feel like I was at home. My interviewee is a really good- hearted person. She’s really warm towards others and she makes sure you feel comfortable at her home.
Oral history is the methodical compilation of contemporary depositions of peoples their and their personal experiences. Simply put by Gerry Albarelli in “The art of oral history”, “ Oral history is the firsthand testimony of people experiences of history (p.14).” Secondary sources are not considered oral history. Oral historians try to confirm their data, analyze them, and place them in an authentic historical text. The process of oral history is putting together and being able to interpret the memories and voices of people, participants, and communities in events from the past. Oral history should be a familiarized dialogue conversing about various conditions of the past thought to be of historical importance and willfully recorded on record.
First, the textbook The Ethnographic Interview presents so many insights. When I read through these chapters, I gained much insight from the significant challenges it presented. On other hand, there are also encouragements for me to understand the difference between approach and methodology. Therefore, according my view of ethnographic interview I will recommend the approach more to another seminarian who has no exposure to ethnographic interviewing. Although, approach and methodology are used by us to describe the way ethnographic interview are done in cultural setting I prefer approach more because approach is the way you are going to approach the ethnographic interview. It also refers to the angle you are using or the direction you are going to take. There can be a more than one way to approach ethnographic interviews. In academic field, approach can refer to the theoretical framework you are going to use in researching ethnographic interviews. For example, if professor gives students a piece of literature or project and ask us to
Initially, I was going to interview my great-grandmother, Pearl Scruggs for this assignment but I decided to go ahead and interview my mothers mother instead because I’m closest to her and I figured that it would be really interesting to learn more about her life. My grandmother grew up in Cleveland, Ohio with my late great grandmother, Nana, and seven of her other siblings. I believe that having that foundation as a child made her very family oriented. Loved ones are the most important things to her, she’s the type of person to put everyone before herelf. My grandmother was married twice, her and my grandfather divorced and she married again, then her second husband passed away. I know that sometimes she feels lonely, but she also feels healthy and happy. She still admires her independence and she’s a huge believer in family and laughter. When I asked my grandmother what were three things that she feared she replied “my family not loving me, my family not caring about me, and my family not understanding me, nothing else matters”. All my life she’s given me nothing but love, care, confidence and respect. What she enjoys to do the most is traveling, going to church, and sewing clothes. My grandmother is still a resident of Cleveland, OH, and I couldn’t be more thankful for her.
My grandmother is still marry to my grandfather, and she sees my uncle and his family very often because they live only 20 minutes away. Most of her siblings have passed away and her nieces and nephews all live in the USA. My grandmother isn’t usually the one to turn to anyone if she ever needs something, she feels like she would be a bother to any of us. Everyday I remind my grandmother that she will never be a bother to us, and we would love it if she asked us for help when she needs it because even though she is a strong woman, she sometimes needs help in certain stuff. During this case study, I learn more and more about my grandmother as I talk to her.