Every boy has a father, good or bad they have one. Well in the poem, “My Papa’s Waltz, written by Theodore Roethke, there is somewhat a dysfunctional relationship between a father and his son. Although this is a fairly short poem, the words speak volume giving one much imagery in reference and between the two characters. In this poem you get a feel of a son’s affinity toward his father, as well as the father’s relationship toward his son. Not only is the author able to convey the father and son’s relationship but, he’s able to convey the relationship that the father has with alcohol. Many poems are lengthy and all seem to have a theme, however, this poem is short, to the point it, and isn’t easy to figure out exactly what the author had …show more content…
in mind. “My Papa’s Waltz” has many different ways of seeing or better yet, understanding its contents. According to John J. McKenna and many other writers they too have thought the same. “My Papa’s Waltz” Starts off with “The whiskey on your breath, could make a small boy dizzy” (line 1) you immediately picture the little boy smelling the whiskey on the breath of whoever he is around and it is making him sick to the point that he becomes dizzy.
A late night sway with his father was something he really didn’t want to do, this feeling is evident by the following lines written in the poem, “But I hung on like death: Such waltzing was not easy”. Even though it is a small poem the readers can get the emotional feel from the written words of the poem, as well as imagining the person speaking them. The writer goes on to describe the mother’s expression causing you to visualize her facial upside down smile as written in lines 6 through 7 “My mother’s countenance could not unfrown itself.” The poem uses elements of imagery allowing the reader to easily picture the entire scene, just picture, the father somewhat buzzed and the son embracing for dear life and afraid to let go. The mother is looking on from the other side of the room with disgust and just waiting for it to be over for her son. The father was dancing with his son to the point where he was hurting the child. His son describes it in a way that you visualize it, feel as though you are actually in the room and you yourself want to stop it. It is so obvious in the following phase explained by the son, “The hand that held my wrist was battered on one knuckle; at every step you missed my right ear scraped …show more content…
a buckle.” You can actually feel for that little boy wanting to please his father while at the same time, wanting it all to be over. John J.
McKenna from the University of Nebraska at Omaha wrote about the tone of “My Papa’s Waltz”. McKenna writes “Written in the early stages of his career and counted among the “Greenhouse” poems, Roethke’s “My Papa’s Waltz” certainly lacks the length and complexity of the poems from “The Lost Son” and “The North American Sequence.” Many writers’ interpretations of this poem vary. One writer “calls it a scene of “comedy “and “persistent love” while another calls it “a poem of
terror.” McKenna’s critique of the poem shows the conflict of the writer also. As noted in McKenna’s critique, there were two narrations of the poem. The second narration changes the child from a girl to a boy. With this change the rough housing in the dance might not be considered as abusive. However, when you consider the change to a boy, most boys do not dance a waltz with their father but with their mother. In McKenna’s critique, the mother was annoyed with the careless way that the father and son were haphazardly dancing around the kitchen. Or with the heightened opposition between the parents, was the look of why are you dancing with my son. The next critique in the change of verbiage in the first narration of the poem to the second was changing the word ear from forehead. If you are dancing with a child especially a boy, it would be a little disconcerting that the child’s face would be in the crotch of whichever parent. That is why McKenna thinks that he changed it to ear as to show a loving embrace from a child. In each stanza of the poem, McKenna shows the changes made in the poem. Each change somewhat softens the father’s actions or either heightens the father’s actions. In all these changes, it still leaves the reader wondering what kind of relationship the boy had with his Papa. He even raised the change question of the change from Father to Papa. All men with children are not fathers but the change to Papa makes the poem more loving and affectionate. The poem is a unique contrast of the way a child should probably feel about their father. A father should be loving enough to want to dance with their small child. A father should be stern enough to keep beat on the child’s head. A father is supposed to be hard working that they come home with dirty hands. So in fact this poem is not one of terror but one of real love and a show of what being a real man and a good father should be to his son.
The most notable qualities of Theodore Roethke’s “My Papa’s Waltz” are the tone and language of the poem which convey the nostalgia adult author feels thinking about the time spent with his father. In the title narrator’s father is affectionately referred to as “Papa” making the impression that the main character and his father are close. The use of possessive pronoun “my” contributes to the overall impression that the father holds special place in the narrator’s heart. As word “waltz” in the title implies the poem gives account of the festive occasion in which the narrator’s father takes part.
My Papa’s Waltz has been compared to a generational litmus test. Depending on what generation the reader was born, could determine how the reader would interpret this poem. Each generation has its own views that have been developed in them for the language used to describe Papa in this poem. The whiskey on his breath and Papa’s hand beating on his head, both sound like a negative connotation. Depending on the experience of the reader, they can either be disturbed by these words or be drawn in closer to the poem. Theodore Roethke loved his father. Not only did he love him, but he idolized him and unfortunately lost him at an early age. This poem is a reflective memorial waltz written in iambic trimeter to honor his father and mother.
“My Papa’s Waltz” by Theodore Roethke is a poem that illustrates the love and bonding between a father and child through structure, figurative language, imagery, symbolism, and diction. The poem begins with lines making it seem negative, violent, and maybe even hate. However it was really his use of figurative language to show them bonding and having fun. In the first quatrain it says the father has whiskey breath, enough to make a child dizzy, so the child hangs on like “death”, because it was hard for him to waltz. At a first glance this may seem negative because of the whiskey and the author's choice of words like death. Although it is not negative. The father may have had a whiskey breath but it doesn't state he was drunk, and him hanging on like death may sound horrific, but he has to hold on to him so he is inescapable as death because it is
Inevitability at one point in most of our lives we have to deal with some type of hardship. A lot of us have experienced first hand or known someone who has had the unfortunate experience of dealing with a close friend or family member who becomes abusive and aggressive because of drug or alcohol related problems. My Papa’s waltz is a poem that tells the story of a young boy dealing with an abusive father and a broken home. Despite the initial light atmosphere of the poem Theodore Roethke uses strong and powerful language to convey an underlined meaning to their dance. My Papa's Waltz is a poem of fear, all the more horrible because the boy is terrified and hurt by his father, even in play, yet he clings and hangs to him showing how strong he is despite his age and through his actions he illustrates his love and patience for his troubled father.
In the poem “My Papa’s Waltz” by Theodore Roethke, the speaker is reflecting on a childhood experience involving his father. Some people assume that this poem is about a happy relationship between a father and son while other people assume that this poem emphasizes hidden messages of parental abuse. In my
“My Papa’s Waltz” by Theodore Roethke can be interpreted in a few different ways. The most obvious one being that he was dancing around with his father, having so much fun that he did not want to stop. His father is very drunk though, which leads us to believe that it is no just a fun story of him and his father dancing one night. What Roethke is really trying to show us, is the abusive relationship he had with his father.
In the poem "My Papa's Waltz" by Theodore Roethke, the speaker is reflecting on a childhood experience involving his father. Through diction and details, the speaker conveys his complex attitudes toward his father. When first read it, it appears the young boy is afraid of his father. The first line of the poem writes: "The whiskey on your breath; could make a small boy dizzy." Apparently, the father likes whisky and the smell of it is remaining on his person, which causes the young boy's aversion. The diction of "dizzy" depicts the young boy is getting overwhelmed by the smell of the drink. Imagine how a little child feels when he notices the strange smell of his parent, He feels weak or even scared. That is exactly what the young boy feels when he saw his drunken father with the distasteful smell. The poem then goes on saying: "but I hung on like death, such waltzing was not easy." This simile compares the fear of the boy to the death. To have a feeling of death is not a pleasant feeling, therefore when they started "waltzing"; the young boy thinks it is "not easy." This shows that ...
The first poem, "My Papa's Waltz," by Theodore Roethke (Page 18) presents a clear picture of the young man's father, from line one. "Whiskey" on the father's breath is one of many clues in appearance that mold a rough image of this uneducated, blue-collar worker, possibly a European immigrant, as indicated by the "Waltz" in the title (Line 1). These traits are not necessarily related. They merely exist at once in the father's character. Additional signs of roughness are his hand, "battered on one knuckle"(11), and "a palm caked hard by dirt"(14). This is a man who has probably known only grueling labor. His few escapes likely consist of a drink or two when he gets home from a tough day and maybe something good on the radio. This idea of the father as an unrefined oaf is further reinforced by his actions. His missed steps injure the child's ear, while the father and son's "romping" causes the pans to slide "from the kitchen shelf"(6). As he "beat[s] time"(13) on the child's head we see very clearly that he is quite brutish and careless with the child, and oblivious to his environment. All these factors make the boy's mother very uncomfortable. We can see the disapproval in her countenance, which "could not unfrown itself"(8). She is obviously upset but, strangely, does nothing to interfere with the horseplay that grieves her. This suggests that the waltz is enjoyable for not only one, but both parties. One might wonder why it is that the boy so delights in these moments. This is obviously a crude, boorish man. He probably doesn't flush. He may even smell bad. Are these reasons to love one's father less? Certainly not in the eyes of a small boy. This young man's father may not be the most sensitive or perceptive man around, but he still seems to be a hero in the eyes of his son. Finally, the son recalls these words: "Then you waltzed me off to bed/ Still clinging to your shirt"(16). After reading this poem, it is clear just how unconditional a child's love is.
While one reading of My Papa’s Waltz creates visions of a warm home and a cheerful family, a deeper reading creates a story of fear, abuse, and the effects of alcoholism. Roethke’s poem sends an important message about abuse. Victims of abuse often hide behind a happy, healthy visage, although the signs of abuse are glaring. My Papa’s Waltz shows how easy it is for victims of abuse to hide the truth of the horrors they face. Therefore, the poem sends the message that it is always important to keep a vigilant watch for the signs of abuse, for even the happiest tales can have darker
"My Papa 's Waltz," by Theodore Roethke 's, is a poem about a boy who expresses his affection for his father, but at the same time expresses a sense of danger that comes from the father. The poem appears to be a snapshot in time from a child’s memory. The uplifting experience is created through the father and son’s waltz while the father’s uncontrollable movements juxtaposes the menace of the drunken father.
Poetry is a special gift, which unfortunately is not given to all of us. Mr. Theodore Roethke (1908-1963) was an American poet with this magnificent gift. Mr. Roethke is regarded as one of the most accomplished and influential poets of his generation (Wiki). His poems present figurative language, which means that it says something, but is not actually what it means, or it can be interpreted in a totally different way. Theodore Roethke’s poem, “My Papa’s Waltz” has imaginary and mixed feelings between the speaker, which is a child, and his father. After having researched a lot more about the Poet’s life I find this poem highly eloquent and fallacious. Even though, it’s a brief poem I can say that this talks about Mr. Roethke’s childhood. This
In “My Papa’s Waltz” by Theodore Roethke, was a great poem that can mean many different things to many different people of this world. To me I think it was just a boy who just wanted to spend time with his dad before he has to go to bed. The boy probably does not get to spend time with his dad that much. The father probably works all day and all week and this is the only time the boy gets to spend with him. Roethke use of words in this poem is amazing. The use of the words in this story can mean different things to the reader. The first word to look at is the word waltz. In the dictionary the word waltz is a dance for a fast triple meter song. This is just what the father is doing with his son but his is drunk and dizzy. “But I hung on like death: Such waltzing was not easy (Roethke)” The word death is not what people usually think but nobody can shake or get away from death. So the boy was holding on to his father where his father could not get away from him like the boy did not want him to go. “We romped until the pans Slid from the kitchen shelf (Roethke)” another word to understand is romped. The word romped means to play or frolic in a lively or boisterous manner. To go deeper in the definition boisterous means rough and noisy. While the father and the son are playing around dancing they are also messing up the house as well. Messing up the kitchen will make any mother mad and that is what happens next. Of out any other place in the house the kitchen is the woman’s throne room. “The hand that held my wrist was battered on one knuckle; at every step you missed my right ear scraped a buckle (Roethke).” In lines 9-12 you can tell that the father has came back from a long day of work. The father’s job has to be doing something wi...
In a father-and-son bond, it's important to develop a healthy relationship between the two. In the poem "My Papa's Waltz", the author Theodore Roethke, analyzes the relationship between the speaker and his father. The speaker loves and admires his father however, he is also afraid of him because of his actions with alcohol. This relationship can be shown through poetic devices such as similes, metaphors, and irony.
Regardless of the interpretation one possesses, may it be seen as abusive or loving, it is clear that the poem is more "richly ambiguous" than onlookers might have felt in the first reading (McKenna). After analysis of the poem, Bobby Fong compares it to that of a seesaw in saying, "the elements of joy, are balanced against the elements of fear." Although the certainty of tone may never be known, a further look at aspects that contributes to the writing give viewers' good insight in the mind of Theodore Roethke. Readers frequently hold contradictory interpretations of "My Papa's Waltz," depending on what personal experience they filter the reading through. In the end, critics agree that there is a darkness to the poem that is definite, but equally so, an abundance of love that is undeniable.
My Papa’s Waltz by Theodore Roethke is a poem about a young boy and his father’s relationship. This poem can be seen in a negative and positive way. In the poem, the author talks about the “whiskey on [his] breath.” (Line 1). This can be seen negatively due to the fact that the father will not remember this moment with his son. It can also be seen as a positive memory because even after drinking, he still got to spend time with his father. Although the father is seen to roughly handle his son while the son enjoys these moments, spending time with his father. Most young boys look up to their father, idolize them and want to become them when they are older. In the poem, the speaker explains that they are waltzing but more dramatically. It is seen to be dramatic because when intoxicated from the whiskey, the stereotype is not being able to walk in a straight line, thus making dancing much harder. The young boy still clings on to his shirt “like death.” (Line 4). He held on tightly due to the fact that “such waltzing was not easy.” (Line 5).