My Papa’s Waltz by Theodore Roethke is a poem that examines and focuses on a dark and abusive relationship between a father and son. A son who lives in a broken and dangerous household. The title is very innocent and loving, but the poem in itself is very mature and serious. The waltz is usually a light-hearted and loving dance that brings two people together, but this dance is anything but that. The speaker is remembering and reflecting on a memory that he once had with his drunk father. Their relationship seems incredibly dysfunctional and abusive. The father is abusing his innocent son, and the son is powerless. A father, who is supposed to protect and love his son, is destroying him. I think that the son wants repress his memory of his …show more content…
He wants the reader to really examine and delve deeper into the poem, and question if this is really a dance routine or an abusive relationship. This awful relationship has had a lasting impact on Roethke, and therefore remembers incredible details. For example, he recounts the memory of what his father’s breath smelled like, saying, “The whiskey on your breath, could make a small boy dizzy.” That signifies how this memory has burned into Roethke’s brain. He truly was the small boy in the scene and he was so used to having these fights, that he even knew the type of alcohol his dad drinks. That was so baffling to me that a young boy could recognize what kind of alcohol his father was drinking, and remember it as a man. What really said a lot about their relationship was when Roethke said, “But I hung on like death: Such waltzing was not easy.” They both were physically and emotionally unstable, and the boy hung on for dear life. Also, the father at one point, is aggressively holding onto the son’s wrist, which is not normally how dance partners hold each …show more content…
It wasn’t easy fighting these battles with his stronger, drunk father. It also wasn’t easy to fight back, at the same time, because of that moral dilemma, that Roethke is fighting his own parent. This shows how strained and tormented their relationship was, that a son is defending himself from his own father. Roethke also says, “we romped until the pans slid from the kitchen shelf”, instead of just saying that they fought so hard that the pans fell from the shelf. He used “romped” because he wants to bring the reader back to the dancing aspect of the scene, and not focus on the brutality of the situation. He is going back to how the child version of himself saw this, and what he really wanted to see. This is not a graceful dancing scene, there are people being injured and chaos is occurring. Waltzing, in this poem, is representative of the father and son’s physical altercation. It hurts too much for Roethke to say that his father is abusing him, so he uses waltzing. This shows how destructive their relationship was and how he was barely coping with his father’s drunken states. These altercations most likely happened throughout his whole life, living with his parents, and it seems that they have deeply scarred
The most notable qualities of Theodore Roethke’s “My Papa’s Waltz” are the tone and language of the poem which convey the nostalgia adult author feels thinking about the time spent with his father. In the title narrator’s father is affectionately referred to as “Papa” making the impression that the main character and his father are close. The use of possessive pronoun “my” contributes to the overall impression that the father holds special place in the narrator’s heart. As word “waltz” in the title implies the poem gives account of the festive occasion in which the narrator’s father takes part.
In the poem, the act of 'waltzing' symbolizes love, though not without some strife. "Such waltzing was not easy" (Roethke pg 602, 4)....
"We romped until the pans / Slid from the kitchen shelf" (5-6). In numerous poems different readers vista a variety of ways to interpret what poems actually mean. This is very much true in Theodore Roethke's poem "My Papa's Waltz." The quote mentioned has caused many misconceptions about what the poem; "My Papa's Waltz" actually refers to. The two superior interpretations of critics are that Roethke's poem describes abuse or a dance. The abuse seems much more apparent in "My Papa's Waltz" because of the language that Roethke uses. The dance is interpreted because the boy is innocent and knows nothing else therefore the abuse seems normal. The drunkenness of his Papa, the mother's ignorance, and the way the child describes his abuse are very clear interpretations of mistreatment in Theodore Roethke's poem "My Papa's Waltz."
“My Papa’s Waltz” by Theodore Roethke is a representation of the journey toward reconciliation of the love and the fear that the speaker, a young boy, has for his father, and is an extended metaphor for the way that we balance the good and bad in our lives. Whilst reading this poem it is impossible to determine definitively whether it is truly about a dance or if the speaker is actually being abused. However, I don’t believe that it really matters either way. Actually, I believe it is this ambiguity and push and pull between the two extremes that creates the overall sense of struggle that comes with the reconciliation of the facets of the father and son’s relationship. This dance between love and fear is accentuated by Roethke’s use of ambiguous diction, end rhyme, and iambic trimeter.
My Papa’s Waltz presents a child’s telling of the waltz taking place between him and his father. As a verb, a waltz is “to move or walk in a lively and confident manner” (“Waltz”). The waltz described throughout the poem is quick and lively as the boy “hung on like death” (Roethke)
"My Papa 's Waltz," by Theodore Roethke 's, is a poem about a boy who expresses his affection for his father, but at the same time expresses a sense of danger that comes from the father. The poem appears to be a snapshot in time from a child’s memory. The uplifting experience is created through the father and son’s waltz while the father’s uncontrollable movements juxtaposes the menace of the drunken father.
In “My Papa’s Waltz” by Theodore Roethke, was a great poem that can mean many different things to many different people of this world. To me I think it was just a boy who just wanted to spend time with his dad before he has to go to bed. The boy probably does not get to spend time with his dad that much. The father probably works all day and all week and this is the only time the boy gets to spend with him. Roethke use of words in this poem is amazing. The use of the words in this story can mean different things to the reader. The first word to look at is the word waltz. In the dictionary the word waltz is a dance for a fast triple meter song. This is just what the father is doing with his son but his is drunk and dizzy. “But I hung on like death: Such waltzing was not easy (Roethke)” The word death is not what people usually think but nobody can shake or get away from death. So the boy was holding on to his father where his father could not get away from him like the boy did not want him to go. “We romped until the pans Slid from the kitchen shelf (Roethke)” another word to understand is romped. The word romped means to play or frolic in a lively or boisterous manner. To go deeper in the definition boisterous means rough and noisy. While the father and the son are playing around dancing they are also messing up the house as well. Messing up the kitchen will make any mother mad and that is what happens next. Of out any other place in the house the kitchen is the woman’s throne room. “The hand that held my wrist was battered on one knuckle; at every step you missed my right ear scraped a buckle (Roethke).” In lines 9-12 you can tell that the father has came back from a long day of work. The father’s job has to be doing something wi...
Childhood experiences seem to be the ones that are recollected most vividly throughout a person's life. Almost everyone can remember some aspect of his or her childhood experiences, pleasant and unpleasant alike. Theodore Roethke's poem "My Papa's Waltz" suggests even further that this concept could be true. The dance described in this poem illustrates an interaction between father and child that contains more than the expected joyous, loving attitude between the two characters. Roethke's tone in this work exhibits the blended, yet powerful emotions that he, as a grown man, feels when looking back on this childhood experience. The author somewhat implicates feelings of resentment fused with a loving reliance with his father.
The poem, “My Papa’s Waltz” by Theodore Roethke, is about a boy reminiscing about an incidence with his father. From the beginning, this poem states the conflict between a father and son involved in a rambunctious dance, but as it continues, the story suggests the dance may actually be a physical altercation. Within the line, “Such waltzing was not easy,” is the proposal this is not a singular incident, but rather a routine ritual between the boy and his father (Line 4). The speaker is an adult recollecting, to himself as the audience, a childhood memory of an incident with his father. As the poem opens, the child recalls his father engaging in act of the drinking whiskey to the extent that the fumes of his breath made him dizzy or lightheaded, as if the adrenaline coursing through his veins from wrestling or struggling with his father wasn’t enough to make him unsteady. The child is hanging on to his father as a way of protecting himself from the assault being inflicted upon him. When the narrator states within the simile, “But I hung on like death,” death symbolizes a force inescapable and not able to release its grasp (3). As the poem continues, the speaker uses the term “romped” to describe the movement within the waltz. A waltz is an elegant, flowing type of dance and one does not “romp” through a waltz. The two participants are causing such a ruckus, the mother’s pans slide off a shelf in the kitchen. As the mother looks on, she is silent with only a frown as an expression of her disapproval. The speaker states his father’s hand “was battered on one knuckle,” suggesting the hand had been injured possibly from another violent incident in the past (10). As the commotion continues, the child is “waltzed” into his bedroom, the ...
“My Papa’s Waltz” is a poem written by Theodore Roethke describing a son’s memory of his drunken father. At the start of the poem, one might assume that it is a poem about how the father beats the son, but it does not specifically say that it is about domestic violence. It simply states that the father was drunk and that he and his son were “waltzing” around the house. To some, the act of “waltzing” is an act of love, despite the father being drunk. To others, it could mean that the father was abusive and was harming his son. As one continues reading the poem, one might question whether the poem is about violence at all.
Theodore Roethke is one of the most accomplished and influential American poets. He has published various volumes of award-winning and critically acclaimed poetry. One of his affluent poems is “My Papa’s Waltz” which was published in 1948. The poem depicts an image of a young boy waltzing with his intoxicated father. The voice of the persona in the poem contributes to the poem’s effectiveness since it is told from the young boy’s perspective. He is indirectly expressing his feelings regarding his father’s lifestyle. To summarize, the father had too much whiskey and began to waltz around the around the kitchen with his son. The waltz was extremely clumsy as the son kept scraping his ear on his father’s belt buckle. After the shenanigans, the young boy’s father waltzed him off to bed. Therefore, the theme of “My Papa’s Waltz” is the young boy’s reminiscent of his father’s alcoholism.
My Papa’s Waltz has been compared to a generational litmus test. Depending on what generation the reader was born, could determine how the reader would interpret this poem. Each generation has its own views that have been developed in them for the language used to describe Papa in this poem. The whiskey on his breath and Papa’s hand beating on his head, both sound like a negative connotation. Depending on the experience of the reader, they can either be disturbed by these words or be drawn in closer to the poem. Theodore Roethke loved his father. Not only did he love him, but he idolized him and unfortunately lost him at an early age. This poem is a reflective memorial waltz written in iambic trimeter to honor his father and mother.
Poetry has the power to convey a compelling meaning with even the simplest idea and gesture. It can also be interpreted differently based on the reader’s experience or personal connection to the poem. A prime example of this includes Theodore Roethke’s poem “My Papa’s Waltz”. In Roethke’s poem, the speaker recalls on a fond memory he has waltzing with his father. While much of the poem has subtle hints connecting to abuse, I believe that the poem simply reminisces on a joyous memory. The significance behind the poem concentrates on the idea of an everlasting bond between a father and son.
The speaker of “My Papa’s Waltz” creates a vivid example of the fun we can have with our parents when he describes the waltz that the father and son are dancing by saying, “We romped until the pans / Slid from the kitchen shelf” (lines 5-6). I love the playful language that Roethke uses to describe this scene and Roethke’s words paint a clear and happy picture in my head of a father gallantly dancing with his son. This picture makes me think of all the joyful experiences that I have had with my own father and how much I appreciate those moments. My favorite lines in this poem, the last two, demonstrate the unconditional love that exists between the father and son in this poem. Throughout the entire poem, the narrator hints that the son has an underlying fear of his father, but in the last two lines of “My Papa’s Waltz” the narrator destroys any doubt that the son is afraid of his father by saying, “[You] waltzed me off to bed / Still clinging to your shirt” (15-16). The fact that the boy is still clinging to his father in this line helps me draw the conclusion that the little boy loves his father and enjoys spending time with him, just as I love spending time with my
“My Papa’s Waltz” by Theodore Roethke can be interpreted in a few different ways. The most obvious one being that he was dancing around with his father, having so much fun that he did not want to stop. His father is very drunk though, which leads us to believe that it is no just a fun story of him and his father dancing one night. What Roethke is really trying to show us, is the abusive relationship he had with his father.