My Family Structure Essay

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Family structure can greatly impact the day-to-day activities of a family. A family with one parent may have a very different dynamic than one with two parents, or possibly even more parents. It is no surprise that these differences exist and families and that one’s family impacts their way of life. However, does it make a significant difference? Or is it simply a difference in how people react to their situations. That is what I wanted to learn from this assignment. My best friend is in her early twenties. She identifies as a white female. Her family life was similar to mine when she was growing up, in that she had both parents and was the only child in her household. However, her parents divorced while we were adolescents. She was blindsided by the experience and has maintained minimal contact with her father since. She …show more content…

Personally, I grew up in a more traditional family. My mother has three children from a previous marriage, who are all significantly older than I am. I had both parents in my household, and my siblings for a few years until they moved out. While we had a stepfamily dynamic, I believe that my family very strongly resembles the standard nuclear family because my father stepped up to parent my siblings. As a result, I think that I had a very smooth and easy transition to adulthood. There were no circumstances that caused me to feel like I needed to mature at an abnormally fast rate. I think that one of the strengths of my upbringing was that I learned to trust others, whereas my friend learned to value herself more than others. I began to build strong relationships with my peers and she kept them at a distance. It is only recently that she really began to let others in. Otherwise, I think that we have very similar beliefs and values. We both see the importance of being competent adults and fulfilling responsibilities, but how we get to the end goal is different for each of

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