Misconceptions On Gender Role Stereotypes

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“Make me a sandwich woman!” During the past few years especially during high school the saying “woman make me a sandwich,” has become a very popular phrase used by teens. Although the phrase is mostly referred to as a joke, the literacy of the saying still has meaning. Kids today joke about gender roles, but what is the true meaning behind all the joking? Could it be because they don’t believe in gender roles, thus justifying the right to joke about it, or is it the hope of expectations becoming reality? No one can truly say that they believe in gender roles, because when it comes down to the reality, we are all “hopefully” taught the basic necessities of living, to cook, clean, and provide. The expectations of certain genders based on “gender …show more content…

Stereotypes such as only woman can clean, cook, and take care of children. While on the other hand men can only make money and provide for their families. Yet these stereotypes hold no significant value nowadays. Historically we are told to believe that these stereotypes capture the true essence of being “male or female,” but currently that’s just inaccurate. The stereotypes that distribute the roles between “male and female,” are inaccurate nowadays, due to the way society views efficiency. Efficiency in the way we carry our lives, for instance a couple with a newborn baby. The stereotype would be that the mother would stay home while the father goes to work, but how society views efficiency rather than the stereotype norm, whoever makes the most money would work and the other stays home to nurture the new born. Stereotypes are tools to demonstrate “gender norms,” but what happens when the “gender norms” of the past become obsolete? Historically stereotypes have some legitimacy during post war times, but currently hold no significant values other than in jokes. As Emily W. Kane states the opinions of 21st century parents on the topic of gender roles in, “No Way My Boys Are Going to Be Like That,” a “…Mother taught her son to cook, asserting that ‘I want my son to know how to do more than boil water, I want my son to know how to take care of himself’”(91). Along with many more quotes …show more content…

Without knowing it, parents teach their kids about gender simply picking colors out for them. Even at birth society greets a newborn boy or girl with either blue or pink respectively, and as children grow up the gendered colors become gendered toys. As Jennifer Goodwin explains in her article “Even Nine-Month-olds Choose Gender-Specific Toys,” that when as young as a nine month old is given a bunch of toys they would choose the toy that was considered gender correct for them, such as a boy and a toy truck and a girl and a doll. The test brought up a concerning question, “So does this mean that boys and girls have an innate preference for certain types of objects?”(88). Meaning are we hardwired to know “gender?” The question suggests doubts on what mankind has believed in forever. Yet the theory has flaws as she states, “Babies…are amazing sponges and learn an awful lot in nine months” (88). Meaning that babies are blank slates, capturing everything their parents do. Without knowing it parents are teaching our youth about gender, such as a mother going to her baby when it’s crying, to even the notice of one parent leaving to go to work. Even when children get older, when they get hurt, they go to their mother, and when they need serious advice they go to their father. When I was younger, around the age of six my father left, making my mother a

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