Lying In Stephanie Ericsson's The Ways We Lie

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Recently lying has become a very disregarded subject. However, no matter how much recognition it gets, it continues to give people the same uneasy feeling. Most people are taught at a very young age that lying is wrong, immoral, and frowned upon by society. Of course no one wants to do something seen as wrong, immoral, and frowned upon. Therefor it begs the questions; why is lying wrong? Why is it considered immoral? Why is it frowned upon by society? To answer these questions, we must first understand why we lie, the different types of lies, and the personal consequences that accompany lying. There are two profound articles that focus on these topics. We will be analyzing Stephanie Ericsson’s The Ways We Lie, as well as Richard Gunderman’s …show more content…

In the second paragraph Ericsson notes, “When my partner came home, his haggard face told me his day hadn’t gone any better than mine, so when he asked ‘How was your day?’ I said, ‘Oh, fine’ knowing that one more straw might break his back” (471). In this scenario, it is obvious that Ericsson had only the best intentions when lying to her husband. However, a lie is a lie. And as with any lie, Ericsson still experienced the negative fall out of the lie. Once she tells us of her own personal lying experiences, Ericsson informs us of the different types of lies that people tell. She goes on to list these types as The White Lie, Facades, Ignoring the Plain Facts, Omission and even Delusion under their own subtitles. She then explains the definition of each lie, how we use them, and what problems they might …show more content…

They both carry forward strong arguments on how lies are used and why we shouldn’t do so. Ericsson does a satisfying job of explaining all the various forms of lying, and helping to answer the puzzling question of why it doesn’t work. With that, Ericsson’s article is very informative. Gunderman, on the other hand, has the most eye opening article. Health is an important part of life. Everyone wants to live a long and happy life. I mean, who enjoys stressing out, or having headaches? I know I don’t. This type of info hit home the hardest for me, making it very eye opening that telling the truth can benefit you more than lying, even at times when lying sounds like the best option. Adding to it, he ends his final statement with this heartfelt quote “In the final analysis, honesty means avoiding illusion and unreality, instead keeping life as real as we possibly

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