Intellectual Disability Women

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Today in the United States, we are experiencing a movement to recognize and appreciate a diverse array of sexual identities and epistemologies. Amazing progress is occurring at an unprecedented rate. While there is of course pushback against our growing acceptance and celebration of difference, the long arc of the moral universe bends toward justice. However, the current state of popular sexuality discourse does not include everyone. People with intellectual disabilities are often left out of the conversation. Oftentimes, generalizations of intellectual disability and ability to consent strip any notion of sexuality from disabled individuals. These generalizations are a form of sexual ableism, a system which, according to Michael Gill in Already …show more content…

“Women with Intellectual Disability: Their Sexual Lives in the 21st Century” reviews research “demonstrating what women with intellectual disability are saying about their intimate relationships and sexual lives in the 21st century” (124). McCarthy finds that as a result of the combination of focus on abuse and preventing reproduction and larger misogynistic norms of relationships, women with intellectual disabilities generally report dissatisfaction with sexual experiences (McCarthy 2014 125). While they felt positively about caring for someone, a variety of experiences contributed to their negative outlook. Many women had been thwarted in attempts to engage in sexual relationships, necessitating “sneaking around” (McCarthy 2015 126). A majority reported receiving little to no pleasure from sex (McCarthy 2014 126). In addition, women who reported being abstinent did not, in general, decide to abstain out of a positive choice but out of fear of inevitable adverse consequences of being sexual. Overall, McCarthy concludes in her book Sex & Women with Learning Disabilities that women with intellectual disabilities lack sexual agency, “absence of the women deciding for themselves what they wanted to do, with whom, when and how” (203). Rather than feeling empowered to make choices about their own lives, these women are controlled by partners and parents. In these experiences, discourse around sexual ableism finds roots in broader feminist critiques of norms of

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