Arianna is a twelve year old girl, in seventh grade, enrolled in a public school. Her parents have recently divorced, and she has two younger siblings. After the divorce, Arianna, her mother, and her two siblings moved to a new city causing Arianna to lose touch with many of her friends from her old school. Arianna’s mother works two jobs, and also has custody of all three children leaving limited time for Arianna. Arianna is facing many developmental changes with very little guidance.
In result, she invests a lot of time in social media and recently has experienced the negative outcome of being cyber bullied. Another girl in her class at her new school has persistently commented negative things on Arianna’s pictures causing a ripple effect
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Intellectual development when applying Vygotsky’s proposal, Arianna is inevitably going to be stalled in this development because of her current isolation from her peers, as well as her social skills depleting because of the social anxiety caused by prior experiences of being bullied.
As an educator, it is crucial to make school a safe haven for students. A learning environment should always feel safe, for Arianna and all other students, in order to supply a student with a comfortable and trusting environment. I would strive to eliminate harassment and bullying, inside and outside of the classroom. In Arianna’s case, the lack of awareness of bullying being present, has jeopardized her learning experience, and could potentially cause the student to lose interest in education and lasting effects, developmentally.
I would strive every day to make my classroom a secure place for students. Appropriate relationships should be prevalent in every classroom to develop trust between the student and the teacher. I would show interest in the students’ interests, attend activities that seem of importance to the students, and truly get to know each student. If a relationship is built, students will be more willing to confront teachers with their problems, rather than trying to solve them by their self
‘Department for education advice preventing and tackling bullying (2013) ‘, advices that all the educational settings must prevent and respond to bullying.
A contemporary of Piaget from the 1930’s, Lev Vygotsky ( a Russian psychologist and philosopher) was generally connected with the social constructivist theory. He underscores the impact of cultural and social settings in learning and supports a discovery model of learning. This kind of model places the educator in a dynamic role while the students' mental capacities naturally develop through multiple paths of discovery (Lev Vytgosky, n.d.).
Role Diffusion, social support is key in reminding teens that they are not alone when dealing with stressful situations and have someone who can offer sage advice and lend a helping hand. When Hazel is stressed or simply feeling down my partner and I encourage her to open up, try to both emphasize and sympathize with what she’s feeling, offer advice to the best of our abilities, but also give her space to form her own decisions. During adolescence, teenagers like to test boundaries. As such, Hazel decided to come home after curfew and lied about the dent in the family car. Sometimes she doesn’t call my partner and I on the designated times we’ve set for her to call, or refuses to go to bed during bedtime, cooperate with chores, appropriate clothing selection, and music choices. During late adolescence, teenagers commence employment. Hazel got a part-time job at a local grocery store to save up for college. Finally, during late adolescence teenagers develop a smaller group of closed-knit friends and are able to find an equilibrium between family, romantic relationships, school, and friends. Regarding Hazel, she organizes her schedule so that she knows when family time is and her set study time, on the weekends she spends one day with her boyfriend, and the next day she spends half of it with her friends and the other half doing her
Bullying, often dismissed as a normal part of growing up, is a real problem in our nation's schools, according to the National School Safety Center. One out of every four schoolchildren endures taunting, teasing, pushing, and shoving daily from schoolyard bullies. More than 43 percent of middle- and high-school students avoid using school bathrooms for fear of being harassed or assaulted. Old-fashioned schoolyard hazing has escalated to instances of extortion, emotional terrorism, and kids toting guns to school. It is estimated that more than 90 percent of all incidents of school violence begin with verbal conflicts, w...
In my class, we respect ourselves and take care of one another. I will encourage my students to try their personal best in every situation they find themselves in. I will remind students that your personal best effort does not look like your neighbors. I will structure my classroom environment so students can easily collaborate and form positive relationships with one another. The structure of my classroom environment will be full of warmth, patience, and humor creating an environment that is welcoming, safe, and fun for my students. We will look out for another and help one another reach our fullest potential individually, academically, and socially.
Why are relationships important? A review of the research literature shows that authors have a lot to say about positive relationships with students. Thompson (1998) says, “The most powerful weapon available to secondary teachers who want to foster a favorable learning climate is a positive relationship with our students” (p. 6). Canter and Canter (1997) make the statement that we all can recall classes in which we did not try very hard because we didn't like our teachers. Speaking form personal experience as an educator, I realized the importance of the relationship or connection related to teaching. My students responded to instruction and retained knowledge when there was a connection.
Middle childhood is the time where children start to fully develop their skills. They develop their comprehension skills, communication skills, and many more. In order to get a better look into the life of children during this stage, I decided to observe my niece’s friend, Ryan, who is almost at the end of her middle childhood stage. Ryan is an eleven year old girl who attends Bassett Elementary. I choose to observe Ryan because, she is a very unique girl who does not always fit into what the average girl her age is like.
...of rule-setting against bullying should be implemented not only on an individual level, but on a classroom and school-level as well. "The school," says Dan Olweus, "has a responsibility to stop bullying behavior and create a safe learning environment for all students." He suggests a curriculum that constantly monitors abusive behavior, promotes kindness, acceptance of differences and educates teachers, school staff, parents and children alike about bullying and response strategies.
Bullying in schools is something that is currently on going and most likely never disappear on its own. Bullying is the unwanted, aggressive behavior among school aged children that involves a real or perceived power imbalance (stopbullying.gov). Although, bullying is not new it is becoming more prevalent today. Socially withdrawn, shy, and reserved children are prime targets of bullying (Juvonen, 2007). For many years bullying has been put off as a sort of rite of passage, everyone must go through it. Many adults today will say that they have been involved in bullying as child and it just faded. That was okay in the past, but today many children are hurting themselves as a result to bullying. To try to help with bullying one must know the
... Each school needs to evaluate how their potential risk and which measures to take to ensure the safety of students and staff. In addition, some schools have speakers come in and tell their story about what happened to them and how it has affected their lives. Some students may relate to a story and in turn can have a huge impact on their emotions as well as their behavior. In the end school bullying has been around for centuries and will continue for many more years, but prevention and awareness are key to reducing the problem with school bullying.
One of the most effective ways teachers are able to manage a classroom is through developing positive relationships with students (Emmer & Evertson, 2013). When students feel they are valued and cared for by their teacher, they are much more likely to comply with rules and procedures. A classroom teacher has the great responsibility and privilege to be around students for up to seven hours per day, five days per week for around nine months and during that time, teachers must work to develop positive teacher-student relationships with each student (Boynton & Boynton, 2005). When students are able to experience healthy relationships with their teachers, they grow personally and are self-motivated and achieve academic success (Tassione & Inlay, 2014). There are a number of ways to enrich these relationships and they are all initiated by the teacher. While there are many ways teachers will find to develop teacher-student relationships, only a select number of them will be discussed here.
“Researchers have conducted that at least 25% of all children will be affected by bullying at some point during their school years, and many of these children miss significant numbers of school days each year owing to fear of being bullied” (Bray, M., Kehle, T., Sassu, K. (2003). Bullying has become a major problem for our students and our schools. Children are missing educational time and are losing self-confidence because they are afraid or intimidated by other students. We, as teachers, need to reduce bullying in our schools and prevent bullying from being a reoccurring issue in the lives of our students in order for them to learn, grow and develop. Our goal as teachers should be “to reduce as much as possible-ideally to eliminate completely- existing bully/victim problems in and out of the school setting and to prevent the development of new problems” (Olweus, D. (1993).
Bullying is something that is not something new and is actually something that society continues to face. Over the years, bullying has been looked at as being so ordinary in schools that it is continuously overlooked as an emanate threat to students and has been lowered to a belief that bullying is a part of the developmental stage that most young children will experience then overcome (Allebeck, 2005, p. 129). Not everyone gets over the extreme hurt that can come as an effect from bullying, for both the bully and the victim. Because of this, we now see bullying affecting places such as the workplace, social events and even the home. The issue of bullying is not only experienced in schools, but the school environment is one of the best places
Bullying has become a serious problem in public schools systems. Being a victim of bullying is a daily struggle for some students. The issue continues to grow, but the question is how to stop bullying from occurring. Many ways have been attempted to stop bullying, but some are more effective than others. Having the students get involved seems to have the most positive effect on the bullying issue in public school systems.
Each relationship is different and each teacher has his or her own way with students. I have seen from a distance that for the most part students have great respect for teachers and therefore get respect in return. A couple of teachers expect respect, and since it is not earned, students do not always give it. I live by the thoughts that I have to earn the respect of the student body and model behaviors for them. The relationship I build with them is up to me, but in order for great things to happen, I need to foster individual relationships and show that I care.