How Would a Teenage Pregnancy Affect My Future?

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One million teenage girls each year end up pregnant. Teenage pregnancy is an easily preventable problem in the U.S. that is slowly going down each year, but the rates are still the highest in the industrialized world by a long shot. Even worse, most of these girls who become pregnant will be left to raise this child on their own, or go through the emotional pain of putting the child up for adoption. Almost every teenage mother will have multiple problems after having their child, whether it be emotional problems, financial problems, or problems with relationships with friends and family. A big impact on a lot of girls would probably be with their friends, as friends are a big part of most teenagers lives.
I, personally, have a few close friends that I hold dear, and losing them or drifting away from them would be really tough on me, especially if I had a child to worry about as well. A baby would make going out anywhere almost impossible, which would take away from time that could be spent hanging out with my friends. On top of that, I know that all my friends would likely see me differently, as they are against teen pregnancy as well. It’s just not worth it; it would possibly ruin my relationship with my really close friends. Not only that, but it would affect my relationship with my family.
A few of my family members were fairly young when they had their first child, and I don’t want to go through what some of them went through. As an honors student, I know my relationship with my family would be impacted a lot if I had a child as a teen. They would all likely see me differently, and they would be disappointed in me. I have worked hard to try and earn the respect of my family members and show them that I’m set on the right tra...

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...ht not form a strong bond with me either, which can also lead to problems. The child might not feel loved due to me never being around, or it might see the person who watches it the most as it’s parent. Some of these scenarios could lead to depression for one or both of us.
All of these possible problems with the child, as well as financial, social, and emotional problems just show that it isn’t worth the risk of getting pregnant. There are multiple health risks for both the baby and the mother as well, which could ultimately lead to death. Thankfully, as the awareness of all of the negatives effects of teen pregnancy goes up, the amount of teen mothers goes down. In 2012, the amount of teen births was 305,388; 52% less than the peak year of 1991. After the research I’ve done, and what I’ve heard, I’m definitely not going to take the risk of becoming a teen mother.

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