Fear doesn’t turn you down, it wakes you up. Tris is one of the bravest people I will ever know. She is fearless, she hates to show any emotion at all. Like when Tris’s parents passed away. She did show emotion at that part, but she got right back up and fought back even harder. I found this unbelievable I know I wouldn’t be able to even get out of my bed for weeks if my parents passed away. Your book changed myself to believe that I don’t have to put myself down when life gets tough. I now know that if life does get tough I just have to keep on going and make the best out of it. I was crushed when Tris’s mom died, let alone her dad died the same day. I don’t think it's right not only to kill someone but have the guts and courage to kill someone. Although I haven’t seen or known anyone who has killed one another, I still have had loved ones pass away. I know when my great-grandma and great-grandpa both passed away only a few days apart from each other. It was a rough time for my family. My grandma was crying for days, my grandpa was sad, and both of my parents were heartbroken for awhile. All of the depression going on was upsetting. Your book changed …show more content…
I was so upset I couldn’t believe it. I was only five when this happened and losing your best friends at the age of five is the most upsetting thing that can happen. I never knew sadness could hurt that much. It felt like I was losing a part of me, especially knowing that I would never see them again. Even though I was really little when this all happened I felt like I understood what was happening. Going to the hospital to visit them made me happy, but also sad at the same time. I was happy because I got to talk to them again. I was devastated because seeing them lay in a bed, hanging on to their life was not something a five-year-old wants to see happen to their best friends, the people they connect with the most, let alone anyone
I always looked at death as such a sad thing that is eventually going to occur to everyone. However, after reading this book, it made me realize death can actually be a beautiful thing. Death allows a person to go to a next life, one where they will be loved and others will be there for them. It was interesting to be able to read about stories that these hospice care workers witnessed themselves. I have experienced a few deaths within my life and I never coped with them very well. After reading this book, I honestly believe I will be able to look at the positive side of death and be able to deal with my emotions better. I can also help others surrounding me deal with a death that they are experiencing. This book was filled with information that I loved learning. For example, I never knew that a dying person can choose a time to die. The thought of this never occurred to me before. I always thought that when it was someone’s time to go, they had no choice. But, a dying person can “put off” passing on until they see a certain person or event that has great significance in their life. Nevertheless, there are still people who will wait to die until they’re all alone in the room. This book makes you think of real life situations and think what you would do in them. Taken as a whole, it was a very in depth book that changes the way you would naturally perceive
Fear is a powerful emotion. Wikipedia.com describes fear as “an emotion induced by threat perceived by living entities, which causes a change in brain and organ function and ultimately change behavior, such as running away, hiding or freezing from traumatic events.”Most people tend to avoid fearful situations, not realizing that something positive may come out of the event or experience. Victor Villaseñor focuses on the topic of fear in his novel titled Burro Genius. Villaseñor demonstrates to readers how growing up he was extremely fearful of any situation. Victor also tells his readers how he turned his fear into motivation into motivation to keep going and reach his ultimate goal of becoming a published author.
...about the Clarisse girl dying. This upset Montag that she didn’t tell him till 4 days after it happened. Today we do not take death seriously. It’s because of the video games that have a lot of death in them. This kind of numbs us of death says the Do You Know What Your Child Is Playing website. We are like Mildred, how we don’t even think death is a big deal unless it is someone we know.
We all deal with death in our lives, and that is why Michael Lassell’s “How to Watch Your Brother Die” identifies with so many readers. It confronts head on the struggles of dealing with death. Lassell writes the piece like a field guide, an instruction set for dealing with death, but the piece is much more complex than its surface appearance. It touches on ideas of acceptance, regret, and misunderstanding to name a few. While many of us can identify with this story, I feel like the story I brought into the text has had a much deeper and profound impact. I brought the story of my grandmother’s death to the text and it completely changed how I analyzed this text and ultimately came to relate with it. I drew connections I would have never have drawn from simply reading this story once.
The author talking about a funeral had a very long lasting affect on me. The author purpose was to make me understand that I should always do the right thing. Using his example of her old teacher, and how she did not want to go, but in the end he realized doing the right thing makes others happy. There were also instances of her saying that she did not want to make her condolences or go to the funeral in general, and I feel anybody can relate to that instance. If I ever have a love one pass away, I hope that all my friends and everybody who knew they would come to the funeral because it truly does mean the world to the family that is going through this.
The presence of death in the novel looms over the characters, making each of them reflect on the
Throughout one’s life, he or she will experience many situations where a lesson is learned, or a fear is amassed. One person may be able to deal with such terrors easily, while another will suffer because of the dread and panic that now haunts them. The poem ‘My Fear’ by Lawrence Raab discusses the haunting situation of fear following someone, and the personification, imagery, and tone of the speaker all provide depth to this seemingly innocent poem and allow one to truly appreciate how fear and troubles affect him or her.
Fear brings forth a certain atmosphere which compels us to act upon it. The era in which the book was published allows us to see how common these fears were. Shirley Jackson's The Haunting of Hill House is an excellent portrayal of how fear controls the human mind by using the characters as examples. In the book Eleanor, Theodora, Luke, and Dr. Montague have all been influenced by fear in the story, whether it be the fear of love, the unknown, family, rejection, expression, or loneliness. These different types of fear plagued their minds causing their actions to reflect upon them. Jackson explores the theme of fear in The Haunting of Hill House by creating a cast of characters that in turn are manipulated by the inner workings of their minds and the
This made everyday a little bit better as I have kept this in the back of my mind. The National Hospice Organization says “In a sense, you are never finished grieving”. This is true, one will always feel sadness when remembering an individual that used to be in your life and is no longer here with you. Although, you can remind yourself the good days that you had with them. Remember their smile and what they did when they seen you. Always remembering that they’re with you everyday just not there
But to describe it as such sounds platitudinous, which it is definitely not. With smooth prose, O'Farrell moves seamlessly among the victim's family and friends and back and forth in time in seemingly random fashion, slowly revealing her characters' pasts and stunningly bringing the story back to the present. Despite its premise, this is not a depressing book.
“The only thing we have to fear is fear itself,” former United States of America president Franklin D. Roosevelt once stated. This statement is completely false according to the various characters in the novel The Chrysalids by John Wyndham. The major fears that change the characters in the novel include Sophie Wender acting un-brave and cautious because someone finds out about her deviation, Joseph Storm who is treating his son, David, cruelly because he asks something of Satan, and Emily Storm who goes as far as calling her niece a monster because she is afraid. Fear of the unknown and fear of things that are different can make people act in ways they normally would not.
Everyone has their own path to follow, their own beliefs, and their own ideas of death. It is up to oneself to decide if they will live in fear and isolation, or start loving and forgiving those around them. These two stories truly show the different perspectives regarding death. What will your perspective be?
I found out about her death two days after it occurred. I was in church getting ready to play my flute in the choir. My best friend was with me. I guess she knew that I didn’t see the news. I can remember still remember what she said. She told me that she was at a friend’s house on Friday night. They were getting ready for a dance that I did not go to. Her mom told them that something had happened. She conveyed the message to me by saying “Meg…I think that Tiff died.” She couldn’t just tell, because she knew that I would be devastated, but I knew that it was no mistake. I ran to the bathroom and began to grieve for my friend who never even got to receive her driver’s license.
I remember exactly when my dad called my sister and me in the living room to tell us the news. My dad’s face was a face I had never seen before, looked as pale as ice and chocked like if he had seen a ghost. I could see there was something wrong but nothing could have prepared me for that kind of news. The words came out and I thought at first it was a joke. I asked him the question and already knew the answer. My sister started crying and my dad fell in tears too. I couldn’t cry, just wouldn’t come out, I was too stunned by the horrible news.
Dealing with the grief of a loved one is not an easy task. Only time can heal the pain of someone you’re used to be around is suddenly gone. When my uncle passed it was the first experience with death in which I was old enough to understand. Nobody really close to my family had passed away before, so I was unprepared with the pain and sadness that came with it. I also thought about it but I never really thought of something like this happening to me. I wish I had spent more time with my uncle, but I never thought about it because I never thought he would passing away so quickly. This is always why it is good for every day to show your family how much you love and appreciate them because you never know when their last day on earth is.