How To Write A Narrative Essay About My Ethnicity And Culture

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I always found it hard to say what my ethnicity and culture was. If anyone takes a look at me, they would say I’m Indian. Then I tell them I am on my mother’s side, but on my dad’s side, I’m actually from Pakistan. They only get more confused when I tell them my dad only lived there for 10 years and lived in Sweden for most of his adolescent life. That only tells people what my heritage was, but that’s where I begin to get befuddled. Even though my parents are from there, I was born and raised in the United States. I always had a difficult time defining myself culturally because I had deep desi roots, but I was also a ‘normal’ American. Just like most American teenagers, I go shopping at the mall, hang out with friends, go to the movies, and …show more content…

There was one African American kid, a handful of Asians, and maybe ten South Asians. Because I went to such an undiverse school, I found myself begin to become more American and westernized. Before I started school I would always have tradition desi lunches and mainly talk in my mother tongue, Urdu, at home. When I entered the public school system I found myself asking for hotdogs for dinner and starting to shift to mainly speaking English. One thing that had remained unchanged was my family’s traditional values. Everyone has heard the stereotype of Asians being extremely studious and hardworking, but they always forget that there is a reason behind that stereotype. My parents were always tell my siblings and I stories about how fortunate our lives were here compared to how they had it at their homelands. My parents had been privileged but it wasn’t as much as they had been in the US. We were told of distant cousins who lived in villages and how my mom’s family was the first to get a tv in their town. Those hardworking and studious values stuck with me through all of elementary. Even though I only learned division and simple vocabulary, I still studied long and hard to get As on those easy

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