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This article first goes on to describe how feminist and writers are talking about how girls want to appeal to men. It is common for girls to show up to a party with the intentions of “looking hot” in the eyes of men. This can bring on casual hookups. This can cause women and men to eliminate dating and reverting to “hooking up”. The article describes how many believe that younger ages are having more casual sex than their parents did at that age, and this is false. In my opinion, I disagree. I always hear of individuals loosing their virginity at lower ages as I grow older. College students participate in more casual hookups, and “69 percent of heterosexual students had been in a college relationship of at least six months”. These relationships

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