Alison’s sexuality in Fun Home is similar to her father's; the family is conscious about both sexualities, yet do not acknowledge it. In Alison Bechdel’s Fun Home very early in the book, both Alison’s and Bruce’s Sexualities are revealed. Both family members keep their sexualities hidden from the other family members. Alison admits on page 74 that she has been a feeling of doubt about her sexuality ever since 13 and she had seen the word “lesbian in her dictionary “ I'd been having qualms ever since I was 13.” Alison had been questioning her sexuality ever since a young age; But she only came to terms with her sexuality at the age of 19. Similarly her dad only came to terms with his sexuality after he married Alison’s mom. Eventually he came …show more content…
to terms with sexuality, ending in a divorce. Alison’s sexuality mirrors her father's sexuality in this case. Both hide or are unsure of their sexuality, but eventually come to terms with it. Another example is when Alison writes home to say that she is a lesbian. Bruce is aware of what Alison’s letter mean; however he says that he is glad the she is “experimenting.” This shows that Bruce cannot acknowledge the fact that Alison is not the ideal image that he imagined her to be. He believes that Alison is going through a phase. The irony of this statement is that Bruce, himself is queer; He should sympathize with Alison at this moment. This is similar to the way to the way Alison feels about why Bruce fell in love with Helen. Alison wonders if her father fell in love with her mother because of the role she was playing taming of the shrew. She says “I speculate on what attracted my father more-- the role, the actress, or my mother herself.” Since Alison's parents seem to fight more than they get along; she wonders if Bruce only fell in love with Helen because of the role she played, and not the woman herself. Just like Bruce's feeling toward Alison, Alison does not understand her father sexuality either. Both family members are practicing homosexuals, but are not sympathetic or accepting of the other person's feelings. While both Alison's and Bruce's sexualities are similar, Alison concedes her Homosexuality, while Bruce does not.
This outcomes in diverse activities to achieve their sexuality. Alison is open about dating Joan. She does not try to hide any aspect about her sexuality, either to her parents, or to herself. Bruce on the other hand, tries to hide his sexuality in every way possible. An example is when Alison and Bruce go on a trip to nyc. Bruce occasionally wanders off for unknown reasons. It is later revealed that he is ging of the hook up with other homosexuals visiting NYC for the bicentennial. A further example is Bruce’s nature of having illegal sex with teenage boys. He controls his anger of holding his secret inside. Alison does not need a secondary way to express her sexuality other than her usual sexual actions. Bruce also channels his anger into architecture and interior design. It is his way of conveying his energy and anger into a physical hobby. As Alison says “My father's death was a queer business, queer in every sense of the multi-valent word” to Alison her father's homosexuality was not known to her at the time. A further reason this instant queer is that Alison came out a short period before his death. She believes that her father could have committed suicide due to her sexuality. This is another example of Alison admitting her sexuality, while Bruce does not confess any one thing to Alison. Since Bruce cannot openly express his homosexuality, he has to channel his inner feeling into other activities —legal, or illegal— to release tension. Alison on the other hand is wholly tranquill. She is comfortable in her own skin, and does not desire activities to fill a hole in her
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In his most recent album, Kanye West raps, “Now if I fuck this model/ And she just bleached her asshole/ And I get bleach on my T-shirt/ I 'mma feel like an asshole.” He suggests that it is the girl’s fault for getting bleach on his tee shirt, which she only did to make herself more sexually appealing. This misogyny in hip-hop culture is recognized to bring about problems. For instance, the women around these rappers believe they can only do well in life if they submit themselves to the men and allow themselves to be cared for in exchange for physical pleasure. In her essay, “From Fly-Girls to Bitches and Hoes”, Joan Morgan argues that the same rap music that dehumanizes women can be a powerful platform for gender equality if implemented correctly.
On page 113 she tells her brother to call her a man's name instead of her name so that she could fit in as a boy, not a girl. “Call me Albert instead of Alison” (Bechdel 113). Whenever her brothers were looking at a naked women calendar Alison had the curiosity and need to look at it. That may have helped her realize that she was actually interested in women, not men. When she left for college she started to experience and putting in place her sexual orientation. She got a girlfriend which actually supported her during hard times in her life like her father’s
Every family has secrets. Taboo secrets are typically the one's we'd like to keep hidden the most. Unfortunately, what's done in the dark always finds itself resurfacing to the light. In Allison Bechdel "Fun Home", she recollects the memories that impacted her life the most when she was in the stage of discovering her true self. The memories we remember the most tend to play a major role in our life development. For Allison, one well-kept secret that her father contained well from her, unraveled many memories of the truth that laid before her eyes.
Amy Tan’s novel, The Joy Luck Club uses much characterization. Each character is portrayed in different yet similar ways. When she was raised, she would do whatever she could to please other people. She even “gave up her life for her parents promise” (49), I the story The Red Candle we get to see how Tan portrays Lindo Jong and how she is brought to life.
In What ways is Sexuality portrayed as central to the conflicts of the individual-v-society in Ken Kesey's One flew over the cuckoo's nest and Tennessee Williams A street car named desire? In What ways is Sexuality portrayed as central to the conflicts of the individual-v-society in Ken Kesey's 'One flew over the cuckoo's nest' and Tennessee Williams 'A street car named desire'?
Bruce, an “Old Father, Old Artificer,” uses his art form as a way of whitewashing his past memories and faults. The exclamation of the woman shows the extent her father has covered up the truth. He has put many unneeded items and decorations in the house, distracting people that visit. Alison likes things functional, while Bruce likes things very elaborate and over the top, not needed. These decorations have made people confused from what is there and what is not.
When they were in their mother's presence, they were happy, but still resent their mothers. Resenting their mothers for not being able to take care of them, they both ended up in an opposite appearance compared to their mothers. Roberta’s mother being religious and conservative led her to being freer about her sexuality. While Twyla’s mother was more open, she was more conservative, working a regular job, and having a normal family. Problems for women or anyone being able to express their sexuality can come from their upbringing.
In Fun Home, Alison principally characterizes her desire for a masculine life while trying to find herself in an environment
Throughout Amy Tan’s novel, The Joy Luck Club, the reader can see the difficulites in the mother-daughter relationships. The mothers came to America from China hoping to give their daughters better lives than what they had. In China, women were “to be obedient, to honor one’s parents, one’s husband, and to try to please him and his family,” (Chinese-American Women in American Culture). They were not expected to have their own will and to make their own way through life. These mothers did not want this for their children so they thought that in America “nobody [would] say her worth [was] measured by the loudness of her husband’s belch…nobody [would] look down on her…” (3). To represent everything that was hoped for in their daughters, the mothers wanted them to have a “swan- a creature that became more than what was hoped for,” (3). This swan was all of the mothers’ good intentions. However, when they got to America, the swan was taken away and all she had left was one feather.
The Glee has been one of the most popular sitcoms in recent years. It was identified as a gay-friendly show on the mainstream TV station. The show breaks the boundaries and stereotypes that have been set and present audience with the real world of gay and lesbian. More specifically, the unique gay/lesbian characters representation in the show not only allows heterosexual people to have their finger on the pulse of homosexual culture but also resonates the homosexual audience.
Elizabeth Montgomery was an American actress who lived from 1933 to 1995. Of her five decades of work in the entertainment industry, her most renowned role was as Samantha in the comedic-fantasy TV series Bewitched which aired from 1964 to 1972. During the period when Americans were experiencing trying events such as the assassination of President John Kennedy and the civil rights movements, Samantha’s magical powers and almost perfect life served as a means for the stressed public to periodically dismiss reality. In real life, Elizabeth Montgomery was an empowered activist. However, this paper will explore the influence of social and cultural aspects in regards to gender and women’s leadership roles as observed through the character Samantha, which Elizabeth Montgomery developed and brought to life.
...within her household. Within her own household, Alison was uncomfortable of being herself; in fact, at times she felt that she almost had no say in the selecting items such as clothes. This was also quite complex when it came to her subjectivity as well. Instances such as the time Bruce wanted Alison to wear a particular dress to a wedding, or when he insisted for her to were a particular set of pearls, would play a pivotal role in her sexual self development. Other factors such as her relationship with her girlfriend and the news she would find out following her fathers death seemed to also play an important part. Alison Bechdel’s battle in her sexual self-development was one full of anguish and pain because of all of its complexities but she now presents the confidence in herself and her sexuality to present in her eloquent and impactful graphic novel, Fun Home.
“…sex attains meaning in social relations, which implies that we can only make appropriate choices around sexuality by understanding its social, cultueral and political context.” (Quote: 9293 jeffrey weeks)
The short story, Girl, by Jamaica Kincaid, can very easily be related directly to the author’s own life. Kincaid had a close relationship with her mother until her three younger brothers were born. After the birth of her brothers, three major values of her mother became apparent to Kincaid. In turn, Kincaid used the three values of her mother to write the short story, Girl. Specifically, these values led to three themes being formed throughout the story. It appears in the short story that the mother was simply looking out for her daughter; however, in all reality, the mother is worried about so much more. Kincaid uses the themes of negativity towards female sexuality, social norms and stereotypes, and the significant
In chapter one, “Old Father, Old Artificer”, of her graphic novel Fun Home: A Family Tragicomic, the young Bechdel generated her identity through the tensions and mysteries that engulfed her family the home. Masculinity, physical strength and a modern outlook were her personality traits as she grew, becoming the “Butch to [her father’s] Nelly” (269) and his opposite in several aspects. A conscious effort was made on her part to set her own pace from what her father expected of her. He was a strong, influential figure within her life. Expressing emotions towards her father was strictly not allowed in the home. Bechdel was left “rushing from the room in embarrassment” (273) on the one unforgettable occasion that she went to kiss him goodnight. She...