Harlan Coben The Undercover Parent

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There is no single method to perfect parenting. As such, it is up to the parents to decide how they involve themselves in their child’s life. In his essay, “The Undercover Parent,” Harlan Coben argues why spyware might be an effective tool for parents to monitor their children; however, he does not consider all the effects of and alternatives to using spyware. Parents should not use spyware to monitor their children because everyone has a right to privacy, independence fosters growth, and there are better alternatives to using spyware. Everyone deserves privacy, whether on the Internet or in person. Even Coben acknowledges that “there is a fine line between being responsibly protective and irresponsibly nosy” (Coben). Keylogging through spyware

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