Family and Autism

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Is there anybody in your family with autism? Almost every book or article is about how autism affects the person with the disorder but never the family around them. Being a parent or a child who has autism can be extremely difficult and change your whole life. Some parents view having a child with autism is a bad thing and would take away their autism if they could. Other parents think having their child be different is a good thing and would not take it away. I think that talking about the effects on the family is very important and should be discussed. The parent’s home life will be completely changed and will be different for the rest of your life. You might have to buy new things for your child to either help them or so they stay safe. For example learning utensils, some people with autism use special scissors, pencils, and mice for the computer to make things easier. Not only will the parents have to buy things but you and your spouse might act differently towards each other. The couple will not be able to have alone time, go on vacation, or have a date night. Finding a babysitter while you go out and do those things is nearly impossible because they are not qualified to do that. So staying at home all the time might put pressure on your marriage. Not only are their home lives are different but their work and social life is to. If you are married to someone, one of you are going to have to take some time off or quit because you will be tied up taking care of you child. Not working or having something to do will put a lot of stress on you and might annoy you. Not only that but they also will not be able to go out with their friends or have them over as much if at all. You will either be worrying about your child while you ... ... middle of paper ... ...have a huge impact on a parent’s life. Being a parent of a child with autism does not affect just one aspect of your life but everything in your life. In order for you to be able to take care of your child’s needs you have to take care of your own. “Remember that if you want to take the best possible care of your child, you must first take the best possible care of yourself.” (Autism and Your Family) How do you think having a person with autism in your family affect you and your daily life? Works Cited Benaron, Lisa Dorothea. Autism. Westport, CT: Greenwood, 2009. Print. "Diagnosis, Causes and Symptoms." Autismspeaks.org. N.p., n.d. Web. "Autism & Your Family." Autism Speaks. N.p., n.d. Web. 14 Mar. 2014. "The Affects of Autism in Families and in Partner Relationships - Autism College." Autism College. N.p., n.d. Web. 16 Mar. 2014. Autism. BBC Knowledge, 2012.

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