Essay 'Rites Of Passage' By Sharon Olds

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Several boys believe that they are capable of handling on their own without any guidance from their parents. In "Rites of Passage" by Sharon Olds, the son is celebrating his birthday with his friends through the perspective of warfare. In "Boys" by Jim Tilley, the speaker is portraying the life of a war through their premature games with his neighbors. Both poems establish the reality of transition of reality from boys to men by creating warfare imagery that contradict the trait of a man and a child. Olds and Tilley demonstrate that boys want to prove themselves that they want to take care of themselves. Because of that, they switch between imagination and reality. The two poems emphasize the boys’ childhoods through their interest in playing war, and show their immaturity in trying to be proud and aggressive. However, their naivety is holding them back
However, with war imagination, boys are creating their boundaries rather than moving on. For example, in “Rites of Passage”, the speaker noticed that the son and his friends had become “like Generals, they relax and get down to/playing war” (Olds 24-25). This explains that even though they are young, they act mature without overcoming their wrestling game which prevents them from growing up. Similarly, boys believe they are capable of becoming generals. For example, in “Boys” while they played dangerous war game, the speaker and his friends imagined themselves, “We were the generals – we ran the war” (Tilley 5). This demonstrates that their imagination enthusiasm them to become General along with their war game. Because of that, they are unable to stop their game and move on to develop their mature men. This poem emphasizes that as long as they develop their war imagination and interest of war, boys will not be able to grow up. They will have to advance their ego from their juvenile to realize that their war imagination is impossible to become a mature

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