Essay On Reframing

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Reframing or reconstructing your mind, is when you just change everything about the way you think. Most people only think about their views, how they see the world, how they will react to certain things if they were to occur. NLP is all about changing this. After drowning yourself in NLP books and readings, you will realize this. It opens your eyes to another world. It helps you become more susceptible to others ideas, feelings and emotions throughout a conversation. It gives you the ability to analyse conversations and respond to them accordingly, so that people hear what they want to hear, whether you mean it or not, which is a good thing and a bad thing. It is good because it can help you get out of tough situations in a conversation. However, …show more content…

The first thing you have to do to become successful in this area of basic NLP is to just eliminate how you would feel and focus on the other person. Focus on how you think they would feel if you said something. If you think they will act mortified to what you said, you probably should not say it. If you do not know how they would react, you should say anything just to be on the safe side. Of course, if you know they would react in a positive way, you should go ahead and proceed with what you are going to say. However, people get stuck on what they should be looking for when analyzing a conversation. You should be looking avoid questions that require a yes or no answer. Usually people who ask questions that require this type of response are trying to trap you in a hole (leading to a lie, etc.). A good way to go about this, if you do get into this situation is you; first, neutralize the conversation by diverting it to something else. If that is not possible, you should try to generalize your answer. Instead of saying, you, say something like “well, generally” or “my friends say” this diverts the answer so that you are not speaking from your own

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