Educated By Tara Westover Summary

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“I just want to go home and go back to sleep.” I heard this countless times daily in my high school career, but it never bothered me until I read Educated by Tara Westover. She taught me several lessons about my educational experiences compared to hers and reminded me to thank God for allowing me to receive a public education. To Westover, achieving a college degree changed her life and provided the only opportunity she found for understanding and viewing the world through eyes other than her father’s. Hearing that students feel their public education is worthless and insignificant frustrates me because others must fight and hold on to any piece of knowledge they discover. I concluded that Tara Westover’s educational experiences demonstrated …show more content…

Kerry. “‘I would enjoy serving the dinner,’ I said, ‘more than eating it’” (242). I understand that neither Westover nor I feel comfortable in a setting with formal etiquette or so-called acceptable clothing. We focus on who we portray ourselves as from the inside, not how we look on the outside. As Tara Westover eventually learned, I discovered that appearances seem frivolous in a place where education takes prominence. Doubt about our abilities is another component Westover shares with me. I constantly hear, “You’ll never live up to anyone’s expectations or hopes,” or, “You think that work demonstrates decent learning that will acquire a good enough grade?” every day. These questions drowned out any rational thoughts, especially when I turned in a writing assignment for an English teacher from sixth grade on. I still unsuccessfully persuade myself that my writing exemplifies the work of a tenth grader and, unsurprisingly, find it challenging to believe. I relate to Westover because she dealt with these same apprehensions and negative comments, but learned she deserves the praise she …show more content…

I received unprecedented praise from my English teacher in ninth grade, who encouraged and reinforced that I possess the ability to transform into an excellent writer. Tara Westover and I found confidence builders in trusted educational professionals and gradually accepted that we deserved praise for our impressive work. For Westover and me, asking for help shows vulnerability and is a last-resort option. With several perfectionist qualities, including extreme attention to detail, planning guidelines for each step, and never submitting something after a due date, I both benefit and harm myself but prominently damage my willingness to admit I need assistance. I exert every possible resource I possess before confessing that someone else’s help might improve my work, because I never want to burden someone with my problems. Westover refused help, too, because she thought she had the power to control her problems and fix them at any moment. Westover’s roommates, Robin and Jenni, offered to take her to the hospital when she developed ulcers from stress, and her boyfriend, Charles, commented that her actions were self-destructive

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