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Communication is the strongest force of power there is, In an “age-old battle” between teens and parents there needs to be trust and conversation when online. Danah Boyd, in Let Kids Run wild Online, repeatedly confronts the issue of technology controlling the life of teenagers. While although parents have the greatest intentions, their memo may come off as meddling when they continue to monitor/ track their child's every move on social media. Benefits in giving your child freedom with certain restrictions can not only conclude in stronger bonds but result in less risks into potential dangers online.

The Parenting style “helicopter parenting” is a method used amongst the adults who imagine all potential dangers on the Web before getting to know their child. Instead of blocking, banning, or censoring websites and cell phones; both parent and child should collaboratively discuss limits and dangers on the Web. This not only gives the child a respectable view of their parents but it teaches trust within each family member. “Safety didn’t come from surveillance cameras or keeping everyone indoors” jokes Boyd in attempts to get through restrictive parents. When introducing her article boyd explains her life as a child being technology free, conversely as we grow in technology families …show more content…

Using Family Time or getting your teens involved in sports/theater will assist in growing their communicational skills. “ These tactics don’t help teens develop the skills they need to manage complex social situations, assess risks and get help when they’re in trouble”says Boyd. Creating limits when they could use their phone, and when they can't will promote a detachment from technology based gadgets and reduces the amount of risks to possible dangers on the internet. These occasions not only result in a stronger bond between a family but betters the teen in their development of

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