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The funeral was supposed to be a family affair. She had not wanted to invite so many people, most of them strangers to her, to be there at the moment she said goodbye. Yet, she was not the only person who had a right to his last moments above the earth, it seemed. Everyone, from the family who knew nothing of the anguish he had suffered in his last years, to the colleagues who saw him every day but hadn’t actually seen him, to the long-lost friends and passing acquaintances who were surprised to find that he was married, let alone dead, wanted to have a last chance to gaze upon him in his open coffin and say goodbye. She stayed seated at the front most pew where she had the best view of all the people who walked past. Some, she saw, stared …show more content…
She held a delicate black lace handkerchief to her nose, and the other wore a black veil that revealed as much as it concealed, allowing glimpses of blood red lipstick on shapely lips to be seen. “You should keep an eye on your son.” “It’s a pity… but this is what comes from diving in too deep,” someone else said a few rows behind with a soft click of their tongue. “Someone should have stopped him before it was too late.” She closed her eyes slowly, tuning the harpies out. When she opened them, she gazed up at the ceiling, tracing the high, arcing beams that came together in a beautiful golden rosette. The church her mother-in-law had chosen for her departed son’s service was an old one, with timber walls, huge, multi-paneled stained-glass windows and enough golden gild that put together, could probably rival the weight of the Charging Bull on Wall Street. If she recalled correctly, this very church had been used as a template for the Church of Lost Souls, the regeneration site that all players who ventured into Elysia eventually ended up …show more content…
Someone kind had dropped off his belongings from the office on one of the days following his funeral. There was not much since his work had been mostly digital. In fact, there was so little that it all fit into a single cardboard cube. When Sera gave up the apartment, took a leave of absence from work and moved out of the city, the cube had simply been bundled up with all the other boxes that the movers had packed and transported for her. For one long month, it lay untouched in the spare room of the cottage she had moved to until she stumbled across it again on a day that seemed bright and sunny and full of potential. The cube was such a generic one, she thought at first that it simply contained more paraphernalia she had yet to unpack. She dug into it without caution, wondering which long-lost moth-eaten sweater might surface this time, or whether this was where her lost baking tin had disappeared to. The last thing she expected to find was Gilbert’s neuronode, wrapped in the dark green fleece jacket he had absconded to his office when she’d threatened to throw it out on account of it being the sort of green that reminded one of alfalfa laden horse poop. After all, she’d already assigned his things to a storage facility, in an effort to ‘move
Never having enjoyed, to any considerable extent, her soothing presence, her tender and watchful care, I received the tidings of [my mother’s] death with much the same emotions I should have probably felt at the death of a stranger.
Death is something that no one likes to encounter. Weather it be a friend, relative, teacher or even a pet. Growing up in Martinez, California everyone knows everyone because it is such a small town and when big news hits our little town, it gets spread pretty fast and when the news is about a young girl who passed away, the world seems to stand still. It is a feeling that will rush over someone and take control of their mind, body and soul; it is a feeling that I would not wish on my worst enemy. Losing someone is never easy. No matter if they knew the person or if they didn’t, it takes a toll on them emotionally and physically. In the essay, “The Washing” by Reshma Memon Yaqub, the author was not directly related to the women who passed away but she was still
Imagine that the person you love most in the world dies. How would you cope with the loss? Death and grieving is an agonizing and inevitable part of life. No one is immune from death’s insidious and frigid grip. Individuals vary in their emotional reactions to loss. There is no right or wrong way to grieve (Huffman, 2012, p.183), it is a melancholy ordeal, but a necessary one (Johnson, 2007). In the following: the five stages of grief, the symptoms of grief, coping with grief, and unusual customs of mourning with particular emphasis on mourning at its most extravagant, during the Victorian era, will all be discussed in this essay (Smith, 2014).
Phil’s wife was “missing him” long before he had even died, because the amount of time he had spent at the office had made his presence at the house sparse. The house where his family lived was only a “boarding” place for Phil, and the sense of home was not present for him. Having to compete with Phil’s work made his wife feel so bitter that she had “given up” when their children were little. Phil’s children had known their father so little that the eldest had to “ask the neighbors what he was like” before Phil’s funeral in order to say anything about him during the ceremony. This first broke the ties between the family as he made work his first
The moment he reached he went to the studios but it was closed. Alas! He had stayed in Millennium Biltmore hotel for the night. He found her in paramount pictures, his heart skipped a beat in the fraction of a second that he saw her and couldn’t believe what his eyes have seen. She was the most beautiful women, the ideal creation of God which only exists in the utopian world. As a Corbury junction engineer he felt that she had the right chemicals to make him fall in love with her. After looking at her in a peculiar manner he came back to his senses and told her while in grieve “ I don’t know how to say this to you and I am so sorry but but uhm someone who was really close to you is no longer here.”. The only thought that was going in her mind was not to be her father but deep down she knew it and started mourning. They went to starkfield together and Zeen provided her with more than adequate comfort and support. It was late at night when they had arrived and Zeen had offered her to stay in house and she accepted as she didn’t have anywhere else to go. Together they did all the arrangements and had conducted the funeral very well. As days passed the soreness had slowly started to decrease for
Death is depicted as an individual’s affair, in which, neither one’s closest friends or closest blood relatives can give a hand in. Upon receiving the tragic news Everyman first approaches his friend Fellowship. At first he is hesitant to reveal his sorrow to Fellowship for he considers it too tragic a plight. After cajoling and assurances by Fellowship to stand by him in whatever situation, Everyman finally pours out his sorrow to Fellowship. Upon realizing that Everyman has been summoned by death, fellowship turns his back on Everyman ...
I sat down in the large, unfamiliar church pew. Right up in the front row. Absentmindedly fidgeting with the hem of my brand new black dress. I could still taste the salt on my lips; my tears freely flowing as the service progressed. I’d never been to a funeral before. The casket laying open in front of me. Surrounded by grieving friends and family. The sweet sound of “Amazing Grace” playing over and over. I thought I would be ready. Everyone says funerals bring closure, bring the joy of remembering a beautiful life, bring the surviving family closer and makes them stronger. “It gets better,” they say. But not when the person you lose is still alive, not when you have to see how their life moved on without you, not when you don't get the closure of the funeral. It doesn't get better.
The husband does not in any way ignore the death of his son, but actually creates a continuous link to him. In order to unify himself, his son, and their ancestors; "He packages the family graveyard in comfroting language" (Norwood 60). He refers to those who have died as his people, and now his son is part of that group. This approach to looking at the dead displays that the husband has a large...
Imagine looking down from heaven and witnessing your family mourning over your passing when you still feel so alive. How do you change their view of your death? In the poem, Do Not Stand at My Grave and Weep, the poet explains herself in various ways and wants to be remembered and around in spirit. The form of the poem is a simple monologue that is between a deceased person and their loved ones. Through repetition, rhyme scheme, tone/mood, and the author’s purpose, Mary Elizabeth Frye explains the meaning of the poem and leaves a lasting impression on the reader.
As I was walking down the aisle of the funeral tent with overwhelming pain running through my veins and my eyes brimming in tears, I saw a coffin, a red velvet piece of cloth nicely hanging out of the coffin. I made my way towards the corpse and he was wearing a nice suit, a tie and polished shoes. His eyes were closed, and his lips formed into a forceful smile; there he was, my grandfather. He was lying there peacefully. It was saddening to see such a kindhearted soul confined and restricted in a wooden box. It aggravates me to see his eyes closed, arms closed and his lips formed into a forceful smile. He was one to have his arms open to everyone who was in need of comfort and to see his arms closed discomforted my heart.
Fellowship, Kindred, Cousin, and Goods each reject him in turn with unflinching cruelty. Cousin, for instance, offers the excuse of having a cramp in her toe. Everyman’s overwhelming desire to have others accompany him to the grave only accentuates his isolation; he finds that his friendships with Fellowship, Kindred, Cousin, and Goods have limits that were not apparent before Death’s presence. Correspondingly, in the presence of Death, the concepts that those characters manifest take on new meanings. Here, Everyman assumes that everyone will meet the grave alone. The day you face death will be a lonesome day – you cannot bring anything or anyone with you – death is an isolating journey, a spiritual one that we must journey ourselves. But does that mean that our mortality, our mortal lives as a whole are to be spent alone? No, this is not the case. Rather, we must consider our friends and family even more important during our earthly life, because we must help each other prepare for that lonely end. As his friends refuse him, Everyman’s understanding of his relationship to the members of his community is brutally altered; he can no longer take them for granted but must relearn his relationship to them. In this play, to recognize death fully is to recognize that one is both a part of one’s community and
The Road To Despair “Drive safely, Gracie,” Mrs. Bennett pleaded with her twenty year old daughter. “I’ll be fine mom,” Gracie assured her, but even as she spoke, she couldn’t help but feel anxious for her first out of state drive on her own. Gracie started the car, put on a brave face for her worried mother and took one last look at her comforting, peaceful, neighborhood. “It’ll be fine,” Gracie told herself, “It’s only two days on the road”.
For example, when her friend Kaitlyn exclaims without thinking, “I mean, I would just die—" and then stopped short, looking at me as if to say I'm sorry, as if it were a crime to mention death to the dying,” (Green, 44). As a result, the novel brings to light a theme that relates directly to everyday life in that most people do not know how to act towards a dying person. Whether it be a difficult subject to talk about or one simply cannot help but to
From the outside the building seems innocuous, the absence of the seemingly omnipresent spires and stained glass windows associated with the Roman Catholic church is at first surprising until one considers the fact that the building was once a movie theater. Converted to a church in the early seventies as one enters the chapel any doubts as to whether this is the right place are banished. The frescos on the ceiling are reminiscent of the Sistine Chapel. The room is large with over fifty rows of pews which fit easily twenty people on each side of the aisle. At five pm on a Sunday it is a high attendance Mass wi...
My mom is Beautiful; the words to describe her appearance would be insufficient. She is beautiful in all her aspects. Her smile shines like the sun at sunrise. My mommy has black hair with shimmering sprays of white, long and smooth curls like noodle spaghetti. Her eyes are black and round, filled with love. When my mommy laughs you can see a beautiful love in the side of her cheek. My mommy is average height; she has large eyelashes and figured eyebrows. Her lips are thick with a sparkle of pink; nose is medium and much defined. Her ears are rounded and neither too large nor too small, "normal". In general her face is smooth with a bit of wrinkles on her forehead but beautiful still. She is of robust constitution, but with nice curves. My mommy doesn't like to go out on the street without dressing up. She loves to dress very presentable and in fashion. For instance, every time she goes to the gas station even do she would come back home quickly, she will dress up and where her heels. For me, my mommy is the gorgeous women of all. You offer a lot of physical description here. Consider whether you need all of it. You might be more successful focusing on a few of the most prominent features, to create a distinct image of her.