Comparing Kingsolver And Stone Soup By Richard Rodriguez

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True Family Values
Family has always been the basic building block of society. It is the structure where its members are born, raised, educated and developed into members of the society. Its primary role is to provide an environment where children learn skills, moral and values. Frequently when people think of family, what first comes to their minds is the traditional image of a couple (father and mother), and their children, however, this role model of the traditional family is expiring more and more each day. Now a days, families around country are challenging this stereotype. As modern society becomes more tolerant to divorce, homosexuality, and more, the structure of many families has been dramatically affected by the way society sees …show more content…

Kingsolver, breaksdown what it means to be a real family, while Rodriguez emphasizes the value of family. Both essays contain a powerful message about how people should not be held back by what society considers right or wrong.
In “Stone Soup”, Kingsolver expresses her feelings about society’s negative approach towards divorced families, remarried couples, or single parents. She believes that these families are far from “broken”, and they deserve equal value in society as families that have not experienced these issues. “Lucky is the child with this many relatives on hand to hail a proud accomplishment. I’m there too, witnessing a family fortune. But in spite of myself, defensive words take shape in my head. I am thinking: I dare anybody to call this a broken home.” (Kingsolver, pars …show more content…

He relates to how the America family values can change the way families accept its members being different. He opens his essay on a personal note, describing himself as a middle-aged homosexual man who is about to explain to his parents the fact that he is gay. He outlines that the concept of family values varies, based on the country of origin. Explaining that the American idea of family values is more based on the independence that a child experiments when he or she leaves the parent’s home and manage their ways to be different from their parents. Throughout his work, Rodriguez makes some harsh realistic points as the detachment of the children from parents “The assurance of family –continuity, inevitability—is precisely what American encourages its children to overturn. Become your own man.” (Rodriguez, pars. 6) He introduces in an ironic sense the idea of the American family values referring to the way the Republican political party uses this concept to their favor “Republicans celebrate American economic freedom, but Republicans don’t seem to connect that economic freedom to the social breakdown they find appalling.” (Rodriguez, pars.

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