Comparing First Love And Fall In Love

“It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not,” once stated by Andre Gide. Love is one precious and desirable thing that everyone wish could achieve from a person to whom the soul and heart are given. Unfortunately, not everyone has the fate to be loved by the person whom they desire of so on this case, the patient is the key to the successful journey. Furthermore, I would be briefly discussing on comparing first love or crush against the intimated relationship in term of their dreams, characteristics, and its significances.

First, the comprehension on the difference of two-party in term of their dreams while falling in love is crucial. Furthermore, the first love dreams are like fairytales, and those who

For the individual who falls in their first love, their crush is everything to them. “The light from the lamp opposite our door caught the white curve of her neck, lit up her hair that rested there,”(cite from the book), innocent boy from the Araby shows the personality of a girl in a descriptive way which emphasizes how important she is to him. To achieve someone or create a love inside of someone else, most of the time, they ignore everything of life and focus on that person. In another word, made for each other, so one is everything to another where they resistance outside world. When a person whether it’s masculine or feminine fallen in love with their crush, they believed their passion is fragile which may break within sudden incidents, so they become more active keeping the relationships safe and stable within any costs. Moreover, the couples intend to keep the relationship on the top priority, but sometimes, it can be affected by the misunderstanding between couple different social life. There is a saying that in love, the couple is no longer separate from two people, they are one with heart connection of two people but, there is a combination of two-person social life where everything doesn’t always accelerate with the excellent result and destiny. They show less affection for each other than newly loved ones. The story from Hill’s like White Elephant shows that the intimacy couple sometimes reaches the height of all fun and miserable love life where they are ready to move on from each other if one cannot satisfy another