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In the plays A Streetcar Named Desire by Tennessee Williams and A Raisin in the Sun by Lorraine Hansberry, two individual families are faced with family conflict. Each family struggles with the issues of money, marital issues, gender roles, and trying to resolve these issues. While both families are from different areas they both undergo similar situations while they try to achieve the “American dream”. A Streetcar Named Desire and A Raisin in the Sun illustrate how family conflict including money, marital issues, and gender affect the families negatively. The first issue that causes the family conflict is money. In a Streetcar Named Desire, Stanley, Blanche, and Stella struggle with the issue of money and whether or not to believe if Blanche …show more content…
is telling the truth about the lost estate. The first example of this is Stanley rummaging through Blanche’s trunk as he tries to find financial evidence of her losing the estate and informing her that “There is such a thing in the state of Louisiana as the Napoleonic code, according to which whatever belongs to my wife is also mine- and vice versa.” (1830) He becomes so absorbed into receiving his share of the inheritance that his persistence turns into harassment. Stanley begins to complain that Blanche is “swindling them”. “…I’m swindled too. And I don’t like to be swindled”, “Then where’s the money if the place was sold?” (1827) Stanley continuously brings up the matter of the Napoleonic code when it comes to his share of the estate. “ You see, under the Napoleonic code, a man has to take an interest in his wife’s affairs…” (1831) Although Stanley takes great interest in Stella; his interest turns into obsession because of the money issues. (Explain how it becomes an obsession) In A Raisin in the Sun the Youngers family tries to work through the dilemma of what the use of the check should be. Each member of the family has something in mind but they cannot seem to agree on any of the ideas. Walter, Ruth, and Beneatha argue about the check coming and what its purpose should be. Walter: “You know the check is coming tomorrow?” Beneatha: “The money belongs to Mama, Walter, and it’s for her to decide how she wants to use it, I don’t care if she wants to buy a house or a rocket ship or just nail it up somewhere and look at it. It’s hers. Not ours- hers.” The family’s disagreement on the use for the check continues until Mama makes up her mind that she is going to use the money to purchase a house. Walter’s friend runs away with the money that was to be used for their new business and Walter is left to acknowledge the poor decision he has made. Walter: “Gone, what you mean Willy is gone? Gone where? You mean he went by himself. You mean he went off to Springfield by himself – to take care of getting the license – (Turns and looks anxious at Ruth) You mean maybe he didn’t want too many people in on the business down there? (Looks to Ruth again, as before) You know Willy got his own ways. (Looks back at Bobo) Maybe you was late yesterday and he went on down there without you. Maybe – maybe – he’s been callin’ you at home tryin’ to tell you what happened or something. Maybe – maybe – he just got sick. He’s somewhere – he’s got to be somewhere. We just got to find him – me and you got to find him. (Grabs Bobo senselessly by the collar and starts to shake him) We got to! (2.3.180) Once Mama chooses to use the money to buy her family a new home, not all of the family agrees on the decision, but some are thankful. Mama: "Them houses they put up for colored in them areas way out all seem to cost twice as much as other houses. I did the best I could (2.i). (Topic sentence describing both plays) The second issue that causes family conflict are marital issues. Stanley and Stella have multiple marital issues in their relationship, and when Blanche moves in with them the tension only increases. Stanley becomes drunk during a game of poker and hits Stella. He then calls for her late at night until she returns home to him. STELLA- “Drunk – drunk – animal thing, you!” [Stanley charges after Stella.] STELLA “You lay your hands on me and I’ll – [She backs out of sight. He advances and disappears. There is the sound of a blow. Stella cries out.] (3.165-8) Stella directs Stanley to go wash his hands and help her clear the table. Stanley becomes angry with Stella’s instructions and throws a plate on the floor. He then grabs her arm and orders her to never speak that way to him again. He continues to yell insults at her until she leaves the apartment crying. Stella: “Your face and your fingers are disgustingly greasy. Go wash up and then help me clear the table.” Stanley: “That’s how I clear the table! Don’t ever talk that way to me!” Stanley wants all of Stella’s attention and affections, so throughout the entire story he is fighting Blanche for Stella. “Stella has embraced him with both arms, fiercely, and full in the view of Blanche. He laughs and clasps her head to him. Over her head he grins through the curtains at Blanche.” (4.126) Walter and Ruth’s marriage appears to be deteriorating with the lack of communication and understanding.
Walter believes that Ruth does not understand him or support his dreams, and Ruth is afraid to tell Walter the news of her pregnancy. Walter and Ruth argue because Walter believes that Ruth does not understand him and support his dreams and goals. During breakfast one morning Walter tries to discuss his hopes and dreams with Ruth, but Ruth shuts him down and tells him to “eat his eggs”. Walter: ”That is just what is wrong with the colored woman in this world…Don’t understand about building their men up and making ‘em feel like they somebody. Like they can do something.”(1.1.91) Ruth tries to talk to Walter on multiple occasions but they usually just end up arguing instead. Ruth:”Oh, let him go on out and drink himself to death! He makes me sick to my stomach!” Walter: “And you turn mine too baby!” Ruth is worried that the news of her pregnancy will overwhelm Walter and considers having an abortion to avoid further conflict with her husband. Mama: “Son- do you know your wife is expecting another baby? I think Ruth is thinking ‘bout getting rid of that child. “Walter: “No-no- Ruth wouldn’t do that.” Walter, not even aware of his wife’s physical state, is shocked by the news from his mother about his wife’s decision instead of being financially …show more content…
overwhelmed. The third issue that causes family conflict is gender roles.
Stanley’s biggest issue with Stella and Blanche is that they always “undermine” him. He struggles to remain in control and appear as the head of their household as Blanche encourages Stella to stand her ground with Stanley. Stanley hitting and yelling at Stella is him showing dominance and his “masculinity”. Stanley is always trying to portray an image of masculinity and control whether it is directed at Stella or Blanche. But with Blanche constantly insulting him and undermining his authority he has to strive even harder to show dominance. As the story progresses Stanley becomes more frustrated with Stella and becomes aggressive with her in order to appear in control of the situation. Stella: ”…You come out with me while Blanche is getting dressed.” Stanley: ”Since when do you give me orders?” (2.70-1) Once Mitch discovers that Blanche is not the pure woman she made herself out to be, he feels entitled to having the same benefits other men have had with her. When Blanche turns down his advances, he becomes angry with her and tries to force her to have sex with him. Blanche becomes scared and threatens to expose him by opening the window and screaming “fire!” until he runs out of the apartment. Blanche: “...What do you want?” Mitch: “What I been missing all summer.” Blanche: ”Then marry me, Mitch!” Mitch: “I don’t think I want to marry you anymore.” Blanche: ”No?” Mitch: ”You’re not clean enough to bring in the
house with my mother.” Blanche: ”Go away, then. Get out of here quick before I start screaming fire!” Blanche expecting Mitch to want her as his wife is caught off guard by his act of aggression and instead of submitting to his advances she acts out in fear. Stanley raping Blanche is him trying to show dominance over her. Towards the end of the play, Stanley confronts Blanche on her deceitfulness. Blanche panics during the confrontation and tries to send a telegram for help, but Stanley barges into the room and startles her. When Blanche tries to leave Stanley blocks her path and starts to threaten her with sexual advances. Blanche tries to escape him but he overpowers her and rapes her. Stanley: “Oh! So you want some roughhouse! All right, let’s have some roughhouse! Tiger-tiger! Drop the bottle-top! We’ve had this date with each other from the beginning!” Within The Raisin in The Sun gender roles become a big conflict for the family as they try to go after their goals and continue to shut each other down. Beneatha’s family does not fully support her interest in becoming a female doctor. This is an evident display of sexism within the story as women are still dismissed as being the weaker of the sexes. Walter: “I’m interested in you. Something wrong with that? Aint many girls who decide-“ Walter and Beneatha: “to be a doctor.” Walter: “Who the hell told you you had to be a doctor? If you so crazy ‘bout messing ‘round with sick people – then go be a nurse like other women – or just get married and be quiet. (1.1.125) Walter shows dominance over Ruth when he gives Travis money after Ruth tells Travis no. Walter: “In fact, here’s another fifty cents… Buy yourself some fruit today- or take a taxicab home or something!” Ruth’s mother in law does not believe that she is capable of taking caring of the family the way that she herself could. Lena shows dominance over Ruth when she questions her ability to care for Travis and Walter Jr. Mama: “…I just noticed all last week he had cold cereal, and when it starts getting chilly in the fall a child ought to have some hot grits or something when he goes out in the cold-“ Throughout both plays the families struggle with money, marital issues, and gender roles whilst trying to achieve the “American Dream”. These stories demonstrate the emotional trials that families go through while trying to live together and achieve their individual goals. While the families are constantly living in turmoil during the story whether it relates to money, gender roles, or marital issues, they find a way to resolve their problems whether the ending is or is not happily ever after for all of them.
The bildungsroman ‘The Catcher in the Rye’ by J.D Salinger and the play ‘A Streetcar Named Desire’ by Tennessee Williams are both post-World War Two narratives which incorporate protagonists that challenge contemporary American attitudes. Blanche DuBois and Holden Caufield are quintessential examples of characters who subvert societal expectations, impositions and hegemony of America in the late 1940s and early 50s, the author and playwright have the plot revolve around these characters and their itinerant lifestyles as they literally and socially move from one milieu to another. Both Salinger and Williams use a plethora of literary devices such as symbolism, juxtaposition and imagery whether it is visual, auditory or olfactory to highlight
He wants her to be truthful and "lay her cards on the table" but simultaneously would "get ideas" about Blanche if she wasn't Stella's sister (Williams, Street 40-41). Their relationship overflows with sexual tension as they battle for Stella. Stanley, the new south, defeated Blanche, the old south. After destroying her chance for security, his sexual assault erases her last traces of sanity. Similarly opposites are found in "Cat on a Hot Tin Roof."
Many people let the conflicts they have take over their relationships with their loved ones. In the plays A Raisin in the Sun by Lorraine Hansberry and Tennessee Williams’ A Streetcar Named Desire, the readers are introduced to the conflicts between each of the families. The Younger family in A Raisin in the Sun, face conflict when Lena Younger’s husband has passed and has left them ten thousand dollars in his will. The Kowalski family in A Streetcar Named Desire are faced with conflict when Stella’s sister Blanche Dubois comes to town. Most particularly, both plays have each faced challenging hurdles and fatalities during their lives. Although both families come from tremendously diverse backgrounds, they share the same conflicts that occur
The syllable of the syllable. At this point, he is very drunk. Blanche, distracting Stanley by listening to the radio, instigates him to grab it off the table and toss it out the window. Stella, in a state of panic, tells everyone to go home, which angers Stanley so he chases after her and hits her. This type of behavior is not normal of any human being involved in any relationship.
Stanley oftenly abuses Stella whenever he is drunk. One night, Stanley brings his friends over for a poker night. Mitch leaves the table in order to talk to Blanche. Stanley begins to get furious since Mitch is no longer playing. As more and more interruptions keep occurring, Stanley is furious and breaks the radio Blanche and Mitch were using. Stella then calls Stanley an animal. “He advances and disappears. There is a sound of a blow. Stella cries out.”(57) Stanley is usually abusive when he's either drunk or frustrated. After Stanley strikes her, Stella leaves the house and goes to her neighbors house. Blanche follows her sister upstairs to support Stella so she does not feel alone. Stanley then calms down and calls for Stella to come back. She returns and falls into Stanley's arms. Stella is very loyal to Stanley, she stays with him because he is her husband and does not want to change that. This is why she ignores her sister's pleas. Stanleys actions prove to the reader that he is an abusive husband to Stella and that Stella tolerates
Stella uses sexual advances in order to control Stanley and to show him that she is in control of the relationship when it comes to sex. In the beginning of the play, the scene opens up with Stanley walking along the street with a bag meat from the butcher’s. After yelling for Stella to come out, Stella replies to Stanley saying “Don’t holler at me like that. Hi, Mitch” in order to present herself as a women of strong character (4). Despite Stella’s attempt to assert her dominance, Stanley still throws the package at her which shows that Stella is under Stanley, and that she has no real control in the relationship.
She struggles with Stanley’s ideals and shields her past. The essential conflict of the story is between Blanche, and her brother-in-law Stanley. Stanley investigates Blanche’s life to find the truth of her promiscuity, ruining her relationships with Stella, and her possible future husband Mitch, which successfully obtain his goal of getting Blanche out of his house. Blanche attempts to convince Stella that she should leave Stanley because she witnessed a fight between the two. Despite these instances, there is an essence of sexual tension between the two, leading to a suspected rape scene in which one of their arguments ends with Stanley leading Blanche to the bed.
Mama, the matriarch of the Younger family, she is highly religious and completely selfless. To Mama life is freedom. She is the fifth generation from slavery in her family, so she is much more involved with the issue of slavery and is very aware of slavery and having no freedom. She is from a different generation to Walter and so her meaning of life is therefore different. Mama feels that Walter does not appreciate the struggles his family has battled and endured in order to be where they are today. Mama and Walter’s generation have different views on life becau...
Written in 1947, by playwright Tennessee Williams, the play A Streetcar Named Desire opens in the 1940s in the well-known city of New Orleans. Readers are presented with the young couple Stan and Stella Kowalski who live below another young couple, Eunice and Steve. While Stan and Stella manage to maintain a relationship, it is abusive. Stella reunites with her alcoholic sister Blanche, after learning that the family plantation had been lost due to bankruptcy. Blanche, a widow often finds herself in difficult and unforeseen circumstances. Blanche’s poor choices and vulnerability leads to an affair with Stan’s poker buddy Mitch. Coinciding with his abusive nature, Stanley rapes Blanche. No one believes her until the very end, causing her to get sent away to a mental institution. While the play and film were smashing, each had their similarities overall, in regards to setting, plot, and characters while differences concerned narrative technique.
... ignorance; and this was the undeniable tragedy that caused her downfall in the end. Stanley was angry when Blanche told Stella that she did not like him, but he never gave her a chance. Stanley despised her from the beginning. Neither Stanley nor Mitch was intelligent enough to comprehend that not everything is black and white. They perceived her as a deceitful whore. Stella chose her violent husband over her sister. Also, Mitch could not overlook her mistakes. Mitch focused on her flaws which blinded him from seeing the beauty and love Blanche had to offer. Blanche wanted their love, but each of their individual flaws sunk her deeper into a hole. The people around Blanche were unwilling to change and develop an open-minded way of dealing with her situation. Blanche needed kindness and affection, but nobody was able to give it to her when she needed it the most.
Blanche uses her dilutions and tries to sway Stella away from Stanley, yet Stella takes all these slanders and belittles them. Stella does this because she loves Stanley and since she is pregnant with his baby.
“WALTER: “.See, that just goes to show you what women understand about the world. Baby, don’t nothing happen to you in this world ‘less you pay somebody off!”(Hansberry). Walter says that money is a man’s domain, and that Ruth, being a woman, just wouldn’t understand. This sexist remark seems to come from his own lack of self-esteem. Unfortunately, for Walter and those around him, he feels the need to put people down in order to feel more powerful.”
Stella possesses the same upper class childhood as Blanche, but she jumped the sinking ship in her late teens and left Mississippi for New Orleans. There Stella married lower-class Stanley. After Blanche’s arrival, Stella is torn between her sister and her husband. Eventually, she stands by Stanley, perhaps in part because she gives birth to his child near the play’s end. While she loves and pities Blanche, she cannot bring herself to believe Blanche’s accusations that Stanley dislikes Blanche, and she eventually dismisses Blanche’s claim that Stanley raped her.
Stella left behind her wealthy background for the sexual attention she gets from her husband. She is even pregnant with his baby. Besides the sex, Stella and Stanley's marriage is an unhappy one. One day a drunk Stanley erupts at Blanche for winning the affections of his close friend, Mitch. When Stella yells back at him in her sister's defense, Stanley beats her.
The conflict between Stanley and Stella climaxes in scene ten. In this scene Stanley openly takes Blanche apart piece by piece he begins with unenthusiastic comments such as "Swine huh?