Communication Doesn T Always Easy To Communicate With Different People

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It is difficult to understand someone when you don't think the same as them. My position on this topic is that it's not always easy to interact with one person the same way you do with another. Christopher communicates with different people in different ways. Such as Christopher and his father have a different way of communication than Christopher and the neighbors. Haddons position is that interacting with others is difficult because of certain dilemmas. Because everyone thinks unalike, people communicate in different ways with one another. Christopher and his parents have a different way of communicating with each other. “We do this because sometimes father wants to give me a hug, but I do not like hugging people so we do this instead, it means he loves me.” (31.5) Christopher cannot communicate with his dad by being hugged, so he puts his hand in a fan to express it. “Christopher, let me hold your hand. Just for once. Just for me. Will you? I won't hold it hard.” (227. 123) Christopher is refusing to let his mom hold his hand even though he has not seen her in so long. His mom wants to interact that way, but Christopher does not want to be touched, so they only communicate by talking. …show more content…

“I do not like talking to strangers because i do not like people I have never met before” (67.4) Christopher does not do well when it come to talking to strangers because he doesn't know what they are thinking and what they could do. “I didn't reply to this either because Mrs. Alexander was doing what is called chatting where people say things to each other which aren't questions and answers and aren't connected.” (67.67) Christopher does not understand the point of chatting and does not want to talk to her by chatting. He wants a conversation about the incident that had

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