Cause and Effect Essay

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High school is stressful enough with tests, homework, and social pressure. Throw in the rollercoaster of an unnecessary emotional, and usually physical, relationships, what’s to stop a teen from dreading their whole high school career? Everyday adolescents see the drama caused from premature relationships and the consequences to being irresponsible in those relationships. Things such as abuse and teen pregnancies are only a few of the results of unstable, immature high school relationships. So, with all that weighing on a teens mind, what causes them to deal with these anxieties and enter into these commitments? If you were to turn on your tv currently, you would find shows based around teenagers and young adults. Shows that not only glamorize drama, but in most cases, “hooking up” and even teen pregnancy. For example, Teen Mom is a reality show on MTV filming the lives of young girls having and raising their babies in high school. This show clearly displays the disastrous repercussions of teen romance yet the producers of the show have found a way to glorify it. Teenagers, in response, are brainwashed into thinking this is the norm for society, and that having a baby in high school could be fun. However, throughout the majority of this show, the fathers leave, the girls drop out of school, and the parents are forced to take care of their teen and their baby. It becomes apparent that teens are not mature enough to be in these relationships. They see the stress and the drama it causes, making teens, in some cases, destroy their future. Unfortunately, the slight chance of romance and a happy ever after, wraps teenagers into the illusion that dating is going to be all that. Within the show, there is no denying that there is some sapp... ... middle of paper ... ...orking and communication makes it easier for these relationships to develop, and being that kids are glued to Twitter, Facebook, and their texts messages, they can become quite serious. In a relationship, your significant other can make you feel terrible for not talking to them 24/7, even if you are trying to keep up with homework or other responsibilities. As a result, students can fall behind in school, because of their guilt of consistently staying in contact with their boyfriend or girlfriend. Additionally, students in controlling relationships feel the stress of taking care of a needy, codependent partner. Always needing to make sure their partners needs and emotions are balanced, and making sure they are making them happy can be a struggle. Works Cited McNamara, Patricia. “Dangerous Love.” Girl’s Life Oct.-Nov. 2013: 80. General OneFile. Web. 6 Nov. 2013.

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