Ignored Compassion: Musings from a City Commute

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As I waited for the 6 train, I walked to the spot to get on, calculated purposefully to the exit of my final destination stop. To ignore the homeless people in the way of where I am going, I turn my music louder, look down, and walk faster. Once I arrived at the stop, I grounded my feet at where I presumed the train doors would open so I will be the first to get on. As usual, I was the first to step onto the train. I went in slowly, snooping for a seat. As I looked down the row of people, like stalks of corn, I was pushed. Shoved into the train by hands clinging onto my shirt, I looked back in disgust. An old lady, arms still stretched from pushing me, looked back and mouthed, “Thank you.” Furious, I thought, did she really just thank me …show more content…

For Mr. Barbour, this incident was one of many bad things that happened, starting with him getting up 30 minutes late because the night before he had been arguing with his girlfriend, forgetting to pay his Con Edison bill, and well, as a result of the yelling, breaking up with his girlfriend. This fold of events will remain constant as long as we are in the mood set because we are focused on the mood or a situation which was a bad experience. What we choose to focus on affects how we see the world. Focus is the linchpin of life, it holds us on track. The exception is that in life we chose what we want to focus on, mainly what is in our interest. Focus is a choice centered on you that could be a goal or aim, or even what we chose to see. In my train situation, I saw the situation to be me being pushed and of no concern of anything else. This all came down to unconscious perspective. Perspective makes up the cells of focus; when our thoughts become memories we choose the facts of what was seen and create the story. The facts we chose are all based on our perspective. From my point of view, I chose to only see the lady pushing me. If we change our perspective, we can change the way we

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