The Cooper family consists of Susan (age 42), Matthew (age 41), Savannah (age 16) and Milton (age 9). The family dynamics interplay to create the crisis in this system. Savannah is in the process of developing an eating disorder and cutting as a means to deal with her intense emotions. The family’s value of perfectionism contributes to this development and creates chaos within all members of this system. Susan is an achievement orientated woman and spends long hours at work. She upholds unrealistic standards for her husband and children. Susan’s commitment to exceeding at her job position has led to problems in her relationships with her husband and children. The high standards set in place for herself and family members has created undue …show more content…
stress resulting in externalizing behavior problems in her son and internalizing behavior in her daughter. Matthew is suffering from low self-esteem issues that are affecting the family system. His sense of self-worth is tied up to his ability to do well at work and to make the most money. Mathew was the main caregiver of his children and because of his perfectionism, he is taking full responsibility for his son and daughter behavior problems. His wife is supporting this position and is unwilling to accept her contributions to this issues Kohlboeck, Quadflieg, and Fichter (2011) defined the difference between externalizing behavior problems and internalizing behavior problems. Accordingly, external behavior problems are marked by defiance, aggression and antisocial features whereas internalized behavior evidenced by withdrawal, dysphoria, and anxiety. Milton’s acting out behavior is a component of the dynamic’s existing within the family system. His diagnosis of Oppositional Defiant Disorder is displayed in his teasing his sister and breaking her art project. Loeber (2000) concludes that ODD is a problem with families and not individuals. Milton is also a perfectionist and displays a strong sense of social justice according to his standard of behavior. He is intolerant of others behavior and gets into physical fights within the school setting. His maltreatment towards his sister results from his parents ‘behavior as well as the dysfunctional family structure. (Kiselica & Morrill-Richards, 2007) Savannah self-evaluative criteria create feelings of devastation as perfectionism is unachievable. Hewett, Flett, and Ediger (1995) proposes that this high drive for perfectionism connected to eating disorders symptoms as well as the development of self-harming behavior. According to this perspective, three facets of personality form the core of eating disorder and self-harming behavior patterns. The contributing features identified as vulnerability: low novelty seeking, excessive harm avoidance, and reward dependence. Biopsychosocial factors contribute the development of eating disorders and self-harming behavior. The biological component have identified certain chemicals in the brain that control hunger and appetite are found to be unbalanced as well as a pattern of these disorders running in families. The psychological mechanisms impacting the development of eating disorders and self-harming behaviors include low self-esteem and feelings of inadequacy and loss of control in their life. The social factors were contributing to the development of these disorders related to societal values on thinness and perfectionism. Family's Perspective The initial reason that counseling session came about due to concerns about their daughter’s self-harming behavior.
The issues affecting the Cooper family system consists of eating disorder, self-harming behavior, acting out behavior, sibling maltreatment, and martial discorded. The focal point of this system is Savannah’s eating concerns and her recent acting out behavior. They are unaware of how each member’s behavior is contributing to these identified issues. The theoretical perspective approach useful for analyzing this family is the family systems theory. This approach views individual problems in relationship to other family members and significant others within the social environment. The family system theory is easily amendable to include techniques from other theories including cognitive behavioral strategies to create the most effective treatment plan for the client systems. Unique Needs of the Members of the Family System Each member of the Cooper family of unique needs is relative as these are contributing to the dysfunctional structure of this system .Identified individual needs are an important component of developing a healthy family structure. The Cooper family must be aware of each other’s unique needs to enable the balance within the system to return to homo …show more content…
stations. Susan is a perfectionist and views her self-work through her work achievements and the money she earns. Susan appeared to be judgmental of the other members and utilized this as a tool to enhance her self-esteem. To change the dynamics within the family, she needs to develop self-esteem based on who she is rather than what she accomplishes. Susan must give up her desire to control other members and realize that the only person she can control is her behavior. Matthew is also a perfectionist and views his worth through earning money and his children’s achievements. He is experiencing excessive guilt over his parenting skills and believes that he handles his children’s current behavioral problems. He needs to improve his self-esteem by focusing more on his character and being able to learn to be able to identify his unique strengths and abilities. Both Susan and Mathew must accept their humanness and imperfections. Milton is displaying deviant behavior towards his sibling and his peers at school. Because of his diagnosis of ODD, Milton needs to receive social skills training to increase his flexibility and improve social skills to assist him in reducing his frustration tolerance with his sister and his peers. Milton also needs his parents to attend parenting training programs where they are taught positive ways to manage his behavior, discipline techniques and age appropriate supervision. Savannah is a perfectionist like her parents and places her self-worth is what she accomplishments. She has lost her sense of control and her eating disorders, and self-harming behavior is the method she is utilizing as a means to gain this control and deal with intense emotions. Savannah needs to improve her self-esteem as well as learn new ways to manage unpleasant emotions. Culture of the Family System interplays with Society's Expectations The Cooper family upholds many of the traditions of the dominant society. The parents and daughter are achievement orientated and strive for perfection in all their accomplishments. Even though the role of the caregiver and breadwinner is nontraditional, the family still supports the position that the man should earn more income than the woman. The family seems to be a modern family but are unable to let go of part of this dominant views. Milton aggressive behavior is appropriate for his gender and is less concerning than if Savannah displayed this. While Milton is externalizing behavior problems through his aggressiveness toward others; Savannah internalize her behavior issues through her eating disorder and self-harming behavior patterns. The family culture is experiencing stress related to shifting the roles but not changing the role expectations. Milton and Savanah continue to act out behaviors that are consistent with gender role. Mother and father are experiencing relationship issues related to the underpinnings of the traditional social expectations. The media influence all members of the Cooper family. Media and peer interactions affect Savanah's behavior. She upholds the position that thinness is related to having a perfect body type. Milton spends his free time playing violent video and computer games as well as watching violent movies. Susan and Matthew are buying into the belief relating to achievement and role expectations. Children’s and Adolescent Culture Children and Adolescent Cultures have their unique beliefs and values.
Their parents and caregivers continue to hold influence over this development, but noted differences are noted. Both children and adolescents are affected by technology advances and exposed to this on a daily basis. Media also shapes children and adolescents view their world. Media influences fashion defines beauty and encourage upholding the beliefs and values of the dominant culture. The noteworthy differences in modern youth culture are their need for immediate gratification, absence of long-term thinking about life and the world, expecting bail-outs with consequences and focusing on appearance rather than
debts. Children and adolescent cultures influence the family system by setting standards for beauty and expectations for behavior. The mass media use of the unrealistic models sends women a message that to be beautiful you must be unhealthy. These sociocultural standards make it difficult for many women to achieve satisfaction with their physical appearance. The development of an eating disorder is encouraged by cultural influences and perfectionism. Interventions Savannah meets the criteria for a diagnosis of an eating disorder with self-harming behavior patterns. Cognitive Behavior techniques a research-based and supported in evidenced based research studies. The main elements of current effective treatment approaches are many. The most important technique in working with her is developing a strong therapeutic relationship. Educating her on the CBT model and methods to reduce cognitive distortions and about self is essential elements of the treatment course. The therapist must also challenge the dietary restraints through the cognitive process as a method to change eating patterns. Another evidenced technique is teaching self-monitoring behaviors including the thoughts, beliefs and emotions associated with their diet. As Susan’s counselor, focusing on changing her thought patterns would be an essential elements since thoughts affect feelings and behaviors. Prevention Techniques for Eating Disorders As a therapist working with the family in crisis, the protective measures that can continue to reduce the likelihood of further crisis would focus on developing resiliency within the individual and family system. Parents are the focal point of change as they need to be able to adapt their value of perfectionism and begin to accept failure as part of the learning process. The entire family system needs to develop self-esteem skills unrelated to what they do but who they are. Another aspect that requires attention is to teach social skills, problem-solving skills and coping skills as techniques to enhance the family’s ability to handle stressful situations. Parents must be able to learn concrete skills to Milton and Savannah to increase their capacity to develop friendships and other areas of struggle.. The family system would also benefit from anger management skills as a method to handle anger producing situations. The parents are required to attend parenting skills training programs as a means to change Milton’s ODD behavior patterns and to support Susan her recovery process. Part Two The Children and Counseling class have provided me with new insights on to how to work with these populations. My employment is in this capacity and allows me to utilize the techniques taught in working with the children and adolescents that I currently serve. The methods implemented were appropriate, but I was unclear that these were research based. The counseling videos enable me to see the application of these techniques in an actual therapy sessions. Strengths Evaluating strength is a significant component of being a professional counselor. The course provided me with opportunities to do this. As a counselor, I have a natural approach and have experienced success in engaging my clientele. .The techniques that I implement in my daily work with this population have been shown to be supported by evidenced base research. The values I possess coincided with the ethics and standards of the social work profession presented in the class structure. The discussion post have provided me with new insights on dealing with children and adolescents that I currently was unaware of and will include as part of my knowledge bases. Because I am changing directions in my employment, the family therapy and techniques from the various therapeutically approach enhanced ability to work with these systems. Increasing Knowledge Base The Child and Adolescent Counseling Class has presented me with new information that I need to explore. There are four particular areas that I need to investigate. John Summers Flanagan and his Tough Kids Cool Counseling Approach provided useful techniques for working with challenging youths inspired me to research his approach. I tend to struggle at times providing services to adolescents with a diagnosis of ODD, Conduct Disorder, and Anti-Social Disorders. Studying techniques implemented in the Tough Kids and Cool Counseling approaches will broaden my knowledge base while providing useful tools for interacting and designing more efficient treatment plans for this group. The second area that necessitates further exploration is the diagnosis process including how to implement the DSMV in determining what mental disorder the individual may possess. I struggle with the idea of labeling individuals because this limits our ability to see beyond their diagnoses. As a social worker working with the mentally ill population, I would view their diagnosis as just a component of the individual’s identity as this should not entirely define whom they are. Many times the individual’s mental health diagnosis becomes a barrier to providing services. Professionals often utilize the diagnosis as a method to explain behaviors of the clients even if the behaviors displayed are typical responses for everyone. The mental illness defines the entire person rather than just a part of him or her. Thi diagnosis fails to take into account the individuality of the client limits our ability to provide quality services for this population. Counseling and social work practices must adhere to the standards of evidenced based practice demanded by managed care. Since therapy sessions are limited effective interventions must be identified and utilize within the therapeutic process. I tend to differ on researched base intervention strategies since this tends to lead to a one size fits all treatment approach. As a practitioner, I must be able to adhere to the standards set-up my insurance companies that possess limited therapeutic knowledge yet make judgments regarding the number of sessions needed based on the diagnosis criteria. Therefore, I must continue to update my research to ensure evidenced based, and adhered to in my counseling practices. The third area that requires more researching is in the area of understanding family dynamics and how these interplay to create the mental disorders and the behavior patterns that children and adolescents are exhibiting. For example, research studies have supported the position that abnormal functioning occurs in families of children with AHD. Deault (2010) suggest that children with ADHD have shown to have poorer overall family functioning. He concludes that these family systems tend to be less relaxed, less cheerful and more and utilize an authoritarian style of parenting. This information would be useful in assessing and making changes within the ADHD family system. However, there are various mental health disorders, and continuous education must be perused to design effective treatment plans and intervention strategies based on the identified family dynamics. The final area that I lack knowledge in is different techniques implemented in the various therapeutic approaches. The areas I would like to include cognitive behavior therapy, Traumatic Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and the systems and ecological theories. Each approach provides different tools that therapist can draw on when working with women and children. Drawing from just one approach limits the effectiveness of serving the needs of our client systems. Insights Gained from the Course The course have provided new insights into working with this population. I gained knowledge about play therapy and the effectiveness this has on children. I have had the privilege of observing this therapy but was somewhat unclear on how this process works. The knowledge gain from this course enable me to understand what was occurring in these therapy sessions. I normally would have stayed away from art therapy due to my limited artistic ability but discovered that you do not have to be an artist to be able to utilize this approach. I have also gained insight into the diagnosis process and useful techniques to employ with children and adolescents that have this approach. Because of my limited understanding of the biopsychosocial approach to evaluating the framework by which mental disorders form, I can assess the client population I serve through this tool. I realize from my research throughout the course that individuals have a trigger for the onset of mental illness, but environmental conditions well determine if the trigger level will occur. I have observed in family systems where one child is mentally ill but not the others are ineffective even though they possess the same genes and environmental conditions. was unable to comprehend why this occurs and has learned valuable knowledge about resiliency and how this is protecting them from the development of the mental health disorders. Development of eating disorder is an area that I did possess some knowledge in terms of its development. However, I was unfamiliar with effective treatment methods and techniques that are appropriate for working with these individuals. The discussion questions assigned as well as feedback given by other students enabled me to gain more insights on Eating Disorders development, effective techniques while serving this population as well as prevention methods. Increasing awareness that treatment approaches and intervention strategies are continuously changing, and evolving encourages me to become more familiar with research studies and evidenced based techniques. Because we are dealing with human beings, I have learned that there is no exact science that will accurately provide the accurate intervention strategies that will work perfecting with every individual. I have also increased my awareness that when designing a treatment plan that individuality of the client system and needs are imperative to the success of the treatment process. Children and Adolescent Counseling has provided a framework for addressing the needs of this population. The present theories and intervention tools will enable me to provide quality of services for children, adolescents, and their family systems. Diagnostic and assessment procedures allowed me to comprehend how the methods are applicable in the mental health field. The information presented becomes the foundation for my work with children and adolescents in my counseling role.
Jennifer Egan’s use of structural classifications about Charlie’s role within her family displays the reason for Charlie’s
According to smith and Hamon (2012), Families are considered as a whole in society. However, they believed that couples have many components in which makes up the family, if one component is missing, the family as a whole can get unbalance (Smith & Hamon, 2012). In the Brice’s family, communication was the component that was missing. The couple was not able to communicate their differences, which was what caused Carolyn and David to verbally insult each other. Smith and Hamon (2012), also explain that a person who expresses his or her feeling is considered as someone who is breaking the functions of their family system; especially if the person is focusing on the individual who is causing the problem, rather than the problem itself. In the Brice family, Carolyn could be considered the one that cause the dysfunction in the family structure because she was focusing on David as the problem of their marriage, rather than focusing of the elements that are causing their problems. Smith and Hamon (2012) explain that individuals should focus on how to solve a problem, rather than trying to find who is causing the
Susan Leigh Vaughan Smith was born September 26, 1971 in Union, South Carolina to Linda and Harry Vaughan. She was born the third child in the Vaughan family, with two older brothers. Linda Vaughan divorced Harry when Susan turned 7, and five weeks later Harry committed suicide at 37 (Montaldo). Within weeks of Linda and Harry’s divorce, Linda got remarried to Beverly (Bev) Russell, a local successful businessman. Linda and the children moved from their home into Bev’s, a larger house located in an exclusive subdivision in Union, South Carolina. Susan grew to be a well-liked teenager, and even became president of her Junior Civitan Club and Friendliest Female in her senior year (Montaldo). Everyone liked her, and she put on a great show at school. But after the last bell rang, she had to look forward to seeing Bev at home, something she feared above anything else. Bev had taken to molesting Susan when she turned sixteen, and it was not long afterward that she sought help with the local Department of Social Services (Wiki). The Department of Social services did little to help Susan, only making Bev attend a few counseling sessions (Wiki). When he returned home, he chastised Susan heavily for “airing their dirty laundry in public” and continued with the molestation (Montaldo). I believe thi...
Each person in the family starts to develop a job or rule that that play in the family that others can’t really fill. For example Jeannette and Brain’s relationship with each other are almost stronger than anyone in the family. The role that Brain plays is the one that is extremely quiet unless with his family and even though he is a younger sibling he sees it as his goal to protect Jeannette, even if it evolves fighting older bigger girls but if it’s for his family he will do it. Lori is always lost in a book but he is like the mother of the family even though their real mother is around. Their father is bright man that the kids get to see from time to time but then there alcoholic father appears and that’s when problems arise. When it comes to functioning at younger ages they were almost completely dependent on their parents like all kids are, as they started to reach teenage they started to rely less on their parents and more on each other. They started to get their own jobs, when they needed resources they would rather depend on each other or themselves. The communication was free for the kids if they had a question or a problem they would voice their concerns but the only time they didn’t was when they saw that their father was drinking or was drunk. They left the
Therefore, family problems can have a great effect on the lives of the people within the family. Kaslik shows this by making Giselle and Holly’s verbal and physical fights, and their creation of imaginary friends. But in the end no matter how you deal with stress, whether by loss of appetite or jumping off a bridge, family is family, and they are always there for each other even if they feel like the family is separated.
People are always in transition with their environment, and each subsystem has an impact on the whole system. This is also why I am using the Family Systems approach, as I am also able to see how the family system has affected Precious, and how the family has functioned across the lifespan. It is important because we can discuss boundaries, individual’s roles, communication in the family, the family structure and how this influences the families functioning not only with Precious’s Mother and Father, but with her own children as well. With systems theory and the Family Systems approach, the basis is that a Systems component can only be understood as part of the Whole, therefore when working with an individual such as Precious, all aspects of their personality and environment must be considered and worked with as a whole. (Payne,
The assessments that will be utilized for the Jacques family is observation, input from members of the interdisciplinary team, since the behaviors are not only at home within the family system, utilization of the Structural Family Systems Ratings measure (Kazdin, 1993; 1994). The observation phase should take place in the family home so that they will be as comfortable as possible. This will allow the counselor to observe the family in their own environment and the behaviors that occur when the family is together. The counselor should remain diligent in observing the interactions between all the family members as this could be indicative of their family system’s strengths and negative patterns of behavior (Thomlison, 2010).
Because of the large amount of overlap in assessing the given family from a structural and strategic point of view, only the differences and additional requirements will be described in the following section. The main areas of differences relate to the overall therapeutic focus and the discussion of power. From a strategic point of view, problems serve as a function therefore the differences in assessment will not focus on shifts in power or hierarchy but will assess what purpose each issue serves. Additionally, viewing the family from a strategic point of view, each problem mustn’t be addressed as its own entity but all issues/concerns can be traced back to the presenting problem. The assessment, therefore, becomes part of the therapeutic
Napier provides a crucial exploration of the therapy of a family struggling with battles for the structure of their family and battles to define and grow their relationships with one another. Napier and Whitaker seamlessly and purposely work with each family member, educating and
According to Richard Charles (2001) “the effectiveness of family systems theory rests not much on empirical research but on clinical reports of positive treatment outcomes, the personal benefits experienced by the families that underwent this kind of treatment, and the elegance of Bowen’s theory” (p. 279). Bowen’s family systems theory views the family as an emotional unit and is a theory of human behavior. Systems thinking is used to describe the complex interactions in the unit. However, the client’s ability to differentiate himself/herself from the family of origin is the basis for Bowen’s family systems theory. In addition, the primary focus for growth within the emotional system is differentiation of self.
System Theory addresses individual needs, expectations, and attributes of the people living in the society. CognitiveBehavioral Theory focused on the mind, thoughts, feelings and emotion while system approach concentrates on the how the individual minds and thoughts function in the society. The Cognitive Behavioral Theory identifies patterns of irrational, self-destructive thought and action that influence emotions (Walsh, 2013). Both methods aimed to address dysfunctional behaviors and hope to ensure change on the individual and the family as a whole. The use of System Theory and Cognitive Behavioral Theory is to create a balance between the individual person and the family. Both methods serve as the therapeutic tool used in preserving the disparity within the family and treating individual mental health related problems (Kerr, 2000).For an individual to function effectively in society, the individual must be cognitively balanced. However, both approaches take into account individual’s functionality within the
Duty, G. (2010, December 10). Family Systems Therapy. Lecture presented at Principles of Counseling Class Notes, Bethany.
Today and always, family dynamics have played a vital role in personality development. In the book Speak, there are several instances where the book’s main character Melinda is constantly ignored or disappointed. Melinda converses with her parents through sticky notes on the refrigerator. Holidays are never a big deal to her family and when they try to celebrate, it gets ruined. In addition to everything else, Melinda’s parents constantly argue. The book Speak really demonstrates what can happen to a person when they don’t have their family present to help them through a rough time.
Laura Tavares was born in 1995. Since the day she was brought into this world she was verbally abused by her mother. Being the first child, one would have thought, “she would be the most loved”. By the age of seven, there was a new baby in the house, Samuel. He was born premature, and aside from the verbal abuse, Laura started to get neglected. By age 10, she was obese and dressed like a middle aged woman. Her mother made sure that Laura knew her place as the slave in the family, waiting on Sammy hand and foot. Evidently Laura knew she was not the favorite, and she made it her goal to change that. She became a straight A student, and was know as the best dancer at our school. She lost weight, and got a job where she made over $1000 a week. Meanwhile cleaning a house that would outshine the sun if she cleaned it anymore, all to gain the love of her mother. “I need a mother”- She