As of now, there are 7,632,819,325 people that live in the world. Every individual has their own unique ways, but everyone has similarities to one another. Even if it’s something little like your personality or the activities you like. For instance, Cardi B and Brewster Rawlins are alike in a special way. They both had a painful childhood, but not letting that get in the way, they still found something good to do with their life.
Poverty and abuse can motivate people to make decisions that could lead to success and happiness. Having a tough life, Cardi B went through an abusive relationship with her boyfriend, while living in a rugged house. She eventually came to the point where she could not deal with it anymore. A way to escape
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poverty and the abusive relationship Cardi “decided to become a stripper” in her teenage years.
While stripping Cardi got the world’s attention through social media. She soon realized this was her way to prosper. According to Cardi B Biography, “Cardi soon grew to success starting in 2015 when she appeared on VH1’s reality show Love and Hip Hop”. While being on the show for a while, Cardi’s music life came more of a big deal. Leaving the show in 2017 “ she released her No. 1 single "Bodak Yellow" through Atlantic Records, and she followed with her debut album in April 2018. “
Another thing that can cause a painful life is alcohol. Alcohol can impact a person’s decisions causing them to make irrational or horrific decisions. An example of poor decision making due to the over consumption of alcohol would be Brewster’s Uncle. Because of his Uncle Hoyt’s carelessness, he would physically and mentally abuse Brew. He would expect the abuse and he also knew the consequences of his actions. Just like in the book “ Bruiser By Neil Shusterman “ it states “ I leave the bathroom, my Uncle hurls a warning scowl to remind me that mouthing off will buy me a world of punishment” (pg.113). Because of all the scars and bruises caused by his Uncle, Brew would lay in bed while his
brother examined his back. “ Is there bleeding? “No,” Cody says. “ A little. “ He wipes my face, around my swelling eyes” (pg.180).Even though Uncle Hoyt would always torture Brew, he still helped others no matter the pain he was going through. To put in other words, Brewster had a special power that no one else had. He had the ability to take people’s pain away, but only people that he cared about.There were only a few people that Brew cared about and they were , Bronte his girlfriend, Tennyson Bronte’s brother, Cody his little brother and finally Uncle Hoyt. Brewster helped them all get through something painful because he always managed to take their pain away . He especially helped Tennyson when it came to lacrosse games. Tennyson always wanted Brew on sight at the games, because when Tennyson got “hurt” during a game Brew was there to take all of the pain. “ I keep glancing over at Brew, just to check in and see how he’s holding up. He paces off by himself at the edge of the field, a little worn, a little out of breath. He leans back against the fence and gives me a thumbs-up. I resolve that if i get MVP, i’ll give him the trophy. Halftime!! It’s 4 to 1 and i scored all four goals “ (pg.274) If it was not for Brew Tennyson would never be able to make a full game because he would have so much pain to deal with. Thanks to Brewster, not only who had a hurtful childhood but also helped others who needed their pain taken away; succeed in life. Even if he didn’t.
After onwards, she joined modeling which was one of her nicest decision to secure her career path. She has starred in a number of music videos including a music video of J. Cole and Rick Ross. She was gaining fame and popularity through her modeling career and was also featured on MTV's Wild 'N Out. In the early 2000s, she can also be seen in many men’s magazine cover. Some of the magazines that featured her include, Show Magazine, KING Magazine, XXL Eye Candy, The Source, and SHOW Black Lingerie. Although she rose to fame as a model, she didn’t leave her job as a bartender. Some of the music videos in which she has appeared are Diced Pineapples, Ain’t Leaving Without You, Southern Hospitality and Work
This goes to show that with guts and determination, those who are desperate enough to bring about a change, are the ones who are able to utilize what they have to get what they desire. Poverty, addiction and abuse are major obstacles that individuals from rough background face on their way to success. Moreover, it is their education and their ability to utilize their talents, as well as having the audacity to chase their ambitions incessantly, that helps them utilize and exploit the opportunities that open up for them.
As well as the long last effect that alcoholic parents have on a child and a loved one. Moreover, McCullers writes his story incorporating the reality of alcoholism to allow people to visualize the effect of addiction and how it a very serious life changing issue that can deteriorate and break apart families. Mucllurs also indirectly emphasizes the sacrifices that parents must do to ensure the happiness and wellbeing of their children and how being disconnected from your social circle can lead to very serious mentally draining issues. As well as how he emphasizes Martins own intentions and how Matin suffers his own dilemma throughout the story for specific
Being exposed to his family’s drinking and violence influence him in a profound way. He will grow up to think that leading a chaotic life is acceptable in society. He is doomed to become an alcoholic himself if his parents do not wake up from their substance abuse haze and get him away from such a negative environment. Children who grow up with addicted parents are predisposed to becoming addicts themselves. According to Robert Priedt, author of Many Alcoholics Suffered Childhood Trauma, “patients being treated for alcoholism were likely to have experienced one or more types of childhood abuse or neglect” (Priedt). He also found that a history of emotional abuse was associated with an increase in the likelihood of the patient having depression. This is important concerning that while Victor is not being physically or sexually abused, he is forced to live in an unhealthy environment. This is a form of emotional abuse. Aside from that, Victor is neglected the basic necessities such as food and safety. With his family constantly under the influence and fighting, they do not have time to give Victor the emotional support that a child desperately needs to grow into a functioning member of society. He is also growing up poor. This is not always a bad thing. In fact, some people that grow up in poverty learn the best coping skills and grow to be resourceful,
To whomever alcoholism affects the body and life style, drinking for long periods can lead to being dependent on alcohol for all situations or just drinking for the sake of alcohol in the system of the body. In We All Fall Down one of the characters Buddy, "My life's not in danger, I'm not in danger of becoming an alcoholic."(Cormier 78). Alcohol has taken affect on Buddy’s life because the character thinks alcohol is not a danger to life, a character in the novel had the intention of helping Buddy with the situation of being an alcoholic but Buddy is clearly mad at the fact of another character think of Buddy has an alcoholic. Whenever people have problems they do not admit to their fault rather individuals deny the facts and cannot accept the fact of the situation at hand, “Look, there are plenty of other bottles I can put my hands on" (Cormier 79). Being an alcoholic has shown in Buddy’s character due to always having a bottle of "booze" on hand, again Buddy is shown to be furious because Buddy does not take the opinions of other characters into consideration about having a drink, even though characters throughout the story try to help Buddy not become an alcoholic. Throughout Buddy’s experience with alcohol this character cannot properly function, it can connect to being an alcoholic and can lead to increasing illness and earlier death. Drinking in the novel The Handmaid’s Tale alcohol has supposed to be banned from the society,"Last night he had a drink, scotch and water. He's taken to drinking in my presence, to unwind after the day."(Atwood 242). It just comes to show everybody has a drink once in a while, alcohol can become addicting to the body but in the novel alcohol is used socially not to be drunk or becoming an alcoholic. In We All Fall Down the character Buddy does not drink alcohol socially but has alcohol at hands
I can still remember the day, June 2, 2013, my cousin took his own life due to alcohol. This is not the first time alcoholism has taken a family member from my family. I lost my uncle ten years ago to the same things, but running his truck into a tree. Like Scott Russell Sanders’ my family has suffered from the pain and disease that alcohol causes. Although Sanders’ case was much different than mine, my families is more unknown until all of a sudden one of my family members is gone. In Sanders’ essay, “Under the Influence: Paying the Price of my Father’s Booze,” he discusses how it was growing up around him, his father’s life being taken, and his life now.
Just one become only two, which then leads to number three that will be the last… so they say and apparently so will the one after that, after that, and after that until they can physically drink no more. For some, this might happen on their twenty first birthday or only once, but for many people in the world this happens every month, every week, or even every day. “Alcohol is the most commonly used addictive substance in the U.S. 17.6 million people, or one in every 12 adults, suffer from alcohol abuse or dependence” (“Alcohol”). The need and overdose of alcohol is called alcoholism. This addiction causes pain, anger, and loss of control all over the world. One might say, “I can handle myself. I am just fine,” but we all know they are not fine because most of the time they are causing hurt around them. In Jeannette Walls’ memoir, The Glass Castle, her father, Rex Walls, is an example of one of these 17.6 million alcoholics and this disease affects the family in multiple ways.
Children living in this type of environment may feel anger, shame, and sadness. They are forced to take on adult roles much earlier because their parents are irresponsible. For instance it shows this in The Glass Castle because the children are forced to make their own meals and fend for themselves because Rex is too busy drinking and Rose Mary is careless (Walls). Alcoholism takes away children’s childhood by forcing them to take on adult roles. Another example of this is when Billy Deel is forced to take care of himself while his father is passed out and constantly drinking, “Billy had a lot of unsupervised time on his hands” (Walls 82). Billy was greatly affected by his father’s alcohol abuse his personality didn’t maturely develop like other children. This is shown when he sexually assaults Jeanette and doesn’t see anything wrong with it, he yells on page 87 “Guess what? I raped you!” (Walls). This statement proves that parents make a huge impact on children, and when children don’t have that, they suffer. Alcohol abuse is not an individual problem, it affects everyone surrounding that person. It isn’t fair for children to be raised in that environment and government should take greater action to protect the children’s safety by removing them from homes like
“When Dad went crazy, we all had our own ways of shutting down and closing off…” (Walls 115).In Jeannette Walls memoir, The Glass Castle, Walls enlightens the reader on what it’s like to grow up with a parent who is dependent on alcohol, Rex Walls, Jeannette’s father, was an alcoholic. Psychologically, having a parent who abuses alcohol is the worst thing for a child. The psychological state of these children can get of poorer quality as they grow up. Leaving the child with psychiatric disorders in the future and or being an alcoholic as well.
However, she never really experienced the actual life of living in poverty as the majority of people living in poverty experience. Barbara, an educated white women had just that on other people living in poverty, because of the color of her skin and education level that is more often than not restricted from people living in poverty. She was able and more qualified for jobs than other people living amongst the status she was playing. She also was able to more readily seek better benefits than people living in poverty. When she first start her journey in Florida she had a car, a car that in most cases people living in poverty do not have. She was also able to use the internet to find local jobs and available housing in the area that many people living in poverty are restricted from. Another great benefit she had was the luxury of affording a drug detox cleansing her of drugs deemed bad. Many people living in poverty do not have much extra cash laying around much less fifty dollars to afford a detox for prescription drugs. She also had the luxury to afford her prescription drugs, another option that many people living in poverty do not have. Another element that made Barbara’s experience not that genuine was the fact that she was not providing for anybody other than herself. Twenty-two percent of kids under the age of 18 are living below the poverty line (http://npc.umich.edu/poverty/#5) , Barbara did not have to provide for pets or kids which would of changed her experience altogether of living in poverty. Not to belittle Barbara’s experience, but many factors of what life is like living in poverty were not taken into consideration during her
The person who consumed the alcoholic beverage caused death or great bodily injury either to himself or to another person (Justia, 2016).
In the film, there was a past tense off-screen moment, when Jack accidentally hurt his son’s arm by grabbing him. Jack had been drinking that night and was upset that his son ruined his work by coloring on it. Now looking at the situation, from an outside perspective Jack’s a monster, therefore what is his truth for drinking? There is something to think about, like what contributes to alcoholism? In Jack’s case, its stress, which is contributed from work, therefore causes the stress. Problem #2 work related stress can turn into an in home issue. Jack copes with stress through drinking besides being a write and using writing as an outlet, alcohol is his second outlet. Seems like Jack needs a new way of managing his
1.) Frank rarely blames his father for the suffering because to him, there were times that were so special that they will be forever etched into his mind. It wasn’t about his father drinking, it was about the loving, quality times that Frank and his father spent with each other. Frank always talked about the stories his father would share. Frank was trying to give us an unbiased view of the interactions he had with the individuals in his life. He was more focused on just telling the story of his life as a boy growing up in a poverty stricken family in Ireland.
The narrator begins the story in Frank Martin's drying-out facility. He is a drunk, and has checked into the home for the second time. At the beginning of the story, some of the physical dysfunctions associated with the disease are revealed, and they range from shakes and tremors to seizures. This part of the story is used by Carver to display the physical problems that result from withdrawal from alcohol. It is clear that these problems are significant, but overcoming them doesn't compare to the task of repairing the bonds with family members and friends that have been destroyed. In this story, the healing process is quite unique for the characters in that it involves a large group of men, all suffering from the same illness, pulling together and supporting each other through the pain- almost like a modern day leper colony. They are separated from their family and friends, and are ...
Let's try to understand how incredibly large this number is. Consider that this article has ~9000 letters. Thus, it would take more than 650,000 copies of it to produce enough letters to represent all humans. Or, put in other terms, consider that if all the humans were to hold hands side by side, our species would circumscribe the equator nearly 14 times! And perhaps, most horrifying, if we all were to move to Texas (the 2nd largest state in our nation), each one of us would only have a theoretical room 35 ft by 35 ft to ourselves-assuming no room for other forms of life or human "necessities" such as airports, lawns, and shopping malls.