Attitudes Towards Love in Poetry

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Attitudes Towards Love in Poetry

Love is an emotion that has been felt by people throughout time. It is

extremely difficult to put any strong emotion into words, but through

the pre-twentieth century ‘Love and Loss’ poetry we are able to see

various different attitudes shown towards love and the way that love

is conveyed through relationships. The poems referred to in this essay

are “First Love” by John Clare, “How Do I Love Thee” by Elizabeth

Barrett Browning, “A Birthday” by Christina Rossetti, “A Woman to Her

Lover” by Cristina Walsh and “My Last Duchess” by Robert Browning.

By studying the love and loss poetry, the poets lives and the cultures

they lived in, it is easy to see why people have different perceptions

of love. The poem “First Love” by John Clare reflects his attitudes

towards love. It is a complex poem describing the physical and

emotional affects of falling in love for the first time. In this poem,

the narrator has experienced love at first sight and has feeling for

nobody else. He says that

“… my blood rushed to my face

And took my sight away.”

This quotation describes one of the physical effects love brings; it

shows that the poet is so fixated in one woman that he is blinded by

everything else. It mirrors the cliché ‘blinded by love’. This shows

that Clare feels that love can be for only one person at a time, as he

is concentrating on nobody else. The way Clare uses language shows

that he finds first love an uncomfortable feeling. This is shown in

the rhetorical questions he uses.

“Are flowers the winter’s choice?”

These are two images that have been unusually linked, flowers and

winter. This is not a comfortable image. Flowers usually die in winter

and this creates dea...

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be stronger after death, this shows an open attitude: that love is

never ending and there is no loss of love from death. The final poem

is “A Birthday”, which I believe is describing the love that Christina

Rossetti has for God. She uses language to portray beautiful imagery

to try and express how she is feeling. This is a celebration of her

love and her attitude is that love brings a person only joy.

All the pre-twentieth poets lived different lives in different

cultures and so there attitudes would have formed in different ways.

However like most others they have all felt love in some way or

experienced the jealousy and pain it can bring. Their love and loss

poetry shows love in different forms, neither more true than the other

but all just showing the different attitudes that people of different

cultures have learnt or felt is true about love.

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