Both James and his mother Ruth struggled to find their cultural identities. Growing up Ruth hid her past from her children; as a result, James suffered struggling to stay afloat to find his identity. It was not until James became a young adult that his mother chose to paint the true picture of her rough past, helping James accept who he is and understand where he came from.
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James McBride is the son of Ruth McBride and is only one of twelve mixed race children. McBride delves into his mother’s closed off past. Something she never allowed herself to share with any of her children. He grew up in the projects. Growing up McBride did not understand his mother; he was embarrassed, and baffled by her. It was not until he was a grown man that he began to uncover the truth about the early years of her life and her long-repressed misery.
In The Color of Water, McBride shows his audience the journey of his mother’s remarkable life story. Ruth, the shunned daughter of a Jewish rabbi, was born in Poland April 1, 1921. Her family moved to America in hopes of a better life when she was two years old. Ruth depicts her parents’ marriage as unhappy and failed; her father a racist, nasty, and a child molester; her sweet, incapable, handicapped mother, and everyone she chose to leave behind.
She left Suffolk, Virginia in her late teens and established herself in New York City. It was there; Ruth met the love of her life, a black Christian man named Andrew McBride. They co-founded New Brown Memorial Baptist Church in their family room. Ruth taught her children the value and power of Christianity. Ruth McBride’s sheer will and faith sent all twelve of her children off to prestigious universities where each one of them earned a resp...
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4. Diversity concepts that were evident:
a. Racism- Ruth married a black man during the Civil Rights era; she had 12 biracial children, and lived in the black projects. White folks rejected her for her choices and most black people did too, and if they did not they were afraid to associate with her.
b. Social inequality- projects, and poverty.
c. Values- Education, religion, family. Ruth sent all 12 children to college. God is the color of all of us; he is the color of water. Ruth did everything in her power to make sure her children had a roof over their heads, good grades, and something to eat; and in the end, her children helped take care of her.
d. Active listening- James became an active listener and conscious of why his mom always insisted that what is important is not the color of ones skin, but what is on the inside.
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