Analysis Of Kathleen Jamie's Essay 'Among Muslims'

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What it really means to be a Shia Girl
Have you ever wondered about what it would be like if you weren’t allowed to wear a simple outfit like a pair of jeans and a t-shirt ? Or even be allowed to cut your hair ? To Americans, life would kind of suck because we wouldn’t be able to do the things that we wanted to do. In Kathleen Jamie’s essay “ Among Muslims”, she talks about the women in Pakistan and how they aren’t allowed to wear what they call “immodest clothing” because it’s disowning to their culture. She records their daily lives as well as their social life and the role they play in the world, all in an effort to reveal what it really means to be a Shia girl.
She begins the essay with a letter excerpt from Rashida. In the letter Rashida …show more content…

Reasons regarding this is that Pakistani men think that they have a dominance over the women. For example, when everyone is at Rashida’s house for lunch, Fatima’s husband brings a feeling of uneasiness for the women because of the rude remarks he starts to make. “This Hussain is thirty, very old. I was too thirty. She… pointing at Fatima, she was fourteen! A baby! He stuck his thumb in his mouth and made sucking noises” (78). Islamic women are mainly viewed as nothing more than simple and of a quiet nature. They really aren’t privileged to do anything except receive an education and have children. An example of this would be when Jamie was still on the bus ride and they stopped to get tea and she noticed that all the men were inside getting tea while the women stayed behind. This is giving the perception that women have certain rules that they need to follow and are only allowed to do the things that their husbands tell them. “Her husband was indoors with the rest of them, tearing bits of Chapati up to eat with his tea. didn’t his wife want some ? No! She is simple womans. Water only” …show more content…

Rashida really opens up to Jamie about many things. One of those things is her husband Ali. “What’s he like, you’re Hussain Ali ? Very good man. He wants me to continue my education” (82). She is also very open the diary he gives her. She uses the diary to describe the insecurities she has with being away from her family. “I tried to imagine never having been alone in all my life. No solidarity walks, no quiet evenings alone with a book or the telly, no cycling or smooching about galleries, no shopping, running, driving. Another curiously Western pleasure, being alone” (83). The meaning of what she is saying is that their version of being alone is living at home with family but you aren’t married. But one thing that really catches my attention is when she talks about couples getting tired of each other after being together for a short time and how this man beats his wife. She shrugs her shoulders and says that the woman was compelled because of the makeup she wears to cover to her scars. Rashida’s attitude towards this is that there’s really nothing you can do and she quickly moves away from the topic and wanting Jamie to continue reading her

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