An End To Shame Summary

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ction: America's Rendezvous with Sexual Reality The book, An End to Shame: Shaping our Next Sexual Revolution, is written by the sociologist, Ira L. Reiss, who devoted his career to the study of how society shapes our sexual lives. Through Reiss’s research, he concludes that America is in crisis, specifically a sexual one. Throughout the text, Reiss addresses four main issues that have fueled America’s sexual crisis: AIDS, teenage pregnancy, rape, and child sexual abuse. These issues are also heightened, according to Reiss, because America’s attitude towards sex and sexuality is a “basic attitude, and the American approach to sex is unrealistic and conflicted (Reiss & Reiss, 1990)”. To combat these issues, Reiss strongly suggests a pluralistic …show more content…

Sexual therapy aims to empower individuals by addressing sexual concerns. By challenging societal norms, therapists can foster positive change. To empower clients, therapists must present a broader range of choices than those traditionally offered by society. Awareness of sexual biases and blind spots is crucial to effective therapy. Reiss explores concepts such as sexual guilt and shame, as both of these feelings can severely impact individuals, affecting their mental health and relationships Chapter 9-10: The Role of Religion in Our Sexual Crisis In chapter nine, Reiss explores how religious beliefs intersect with sexual attitudes. Reiss discusses how religious teachings impact sexual behavior and societal views. Religion often shapes our sexual values and norms. Understanding this interplay is crucial for addressing sexual challenges. Conclusion: We don't lose control by empowering children with sexual rights; we gain control, for it is we, the parents, who give our children permission. If our children move in directions we think are harmful, we can redirect them, but only if they view us as part of the learning process rather than as a repressive element in their lives. Victorian heritage continues to shape our approach to sexuality, even in modern times. A pluralistic approach, accepting diverse sexual choices, could be more effective. Pluralism recognizes that there isn’t a single “moral” pathway for everyone. Abstinence is a valid personal choice but shouldn’t be imposed on everyone.Ensuring men don’t use force and proper contraception is crucial for equality. In summary, a pluralistic system respects diverse sexual choices and addresses gender disparities. Pluralism opposes using force or manipulation to achieve sexual satisfaction. Removing someone’s freedom of choice violates pluralistic values. Rape and deceptive

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