Reflection of My Experiences with Gender Roles

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When I was growing up my family and friends taught me a lot about gender. My family has always taught me that “males” and “females” are different in many ways. They have always been accepting when a person likes some of the things the opposite gender likes. My family has not always verbally taught me these lessons, however, through the interactions that I have had with them I have learned a lot about gender. For example, for as long as I can remember my mom has been a stay at home mom while my dad went to work. My mom was always the one picking my brother and I up from school, making us a snack when we returned home and making dinner. So, I grew up thinking that females were the ones that took care of the kids and the males were the ones that went to work to earn money for the family. Of course, as I grew up I realized that the jobs that the mother’s and father’s do in each family were different. When I was growing up I remember always playing with dolls, Barbie’s and Polly Pockets. I remember that I liked to play house with my dolls. Now I realize that one of the reasons I playe...

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